D I S C U S S I O N S - R E S P O N S E S what do you prefer....
By busybee10
@busybee10 (3186)
India
16 responses
@kquiming (2997)
• Philippines
19 Sep 10
yes a balance in both is required to be considered really active in mylot....i respond more than i start discussions though. why? because I only start discussions when I feel like sincerely like starting one, on a certain topic...what i mean is, i don't just start discussions or post replies for the sake of posting it..... i think everything i say and do here comes from the heart. (LoL, cheesy!)
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@busybee10 (3186)
• India
21 Sep 10
Hi kquiming ...it is so tricky to be here on the ground of mylot which requires our real caliber to manage things.
I feel very comfortable doing this and am also doing both as per my capacity.
Everything comes by learning and practicing and god is so great that he has created this wonderful world so cautiously differentiating every individuals knowledge and creativity.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
19 Sep 10
I think I respond more to discussions than start them. I'm always thinking of interesting toppings but it's not easy coming, original discussions. up with different
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@missybear (11391)
• United States
19 Sep 10
I don't know how my sentence got so turned around but I meant to say " It's not easy coming up with new and interesting discussions"
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@busybee10 (3186)
• India
21 Sep 10
[b]Yes starting a discussion really needs some creativity and a meaning to which members respond.
There are hundreds of discussions posted every day and we cannot predicted who will choose what. Depending upon an individuals set of mind and the thoughts flowing at that particular time makes one to respond a discussion.[/b]
Any how you can try for some...
@marguicha (223874)
• Chile
19 Sep 10
Hi friend,
I reapond to a lot more posts than create posts. I only start a post when I really want to tell you, mylotters, something. My realtion with this site is mainly social (earning money here is not my main purpose) so I don´t feel up to start a post about something that is not of my real interest. But many of the things a fellow mmber says is of interest to me and I respond.
I am not seeking to be active at mylot, but I must be without trying. I have friends, I reach payment almost every month (except when I´m not in town for sometime), and I have for a long time the coveted blue star.
Take care and happy posting!
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
22 Sep 10
OK - everyone has a different skill and participate according tho their talents .It is nice to note that you respond to many of the discussions posted by members are of interest to you.
But trying to post discussions will surely make you to be very active as this makes you to think and create thoughts through which you can be active resopo9nding to them.
Thanks for the response.....
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
19 Sep 10
Good day to you Busybee10,
With reference to your topic discussion, I prefer both. That is to respond and discussed.
- Responsed in the sense, that, I may be able to share and give an additional idea to what has been discussed.
- Discussed in the sense that, giving and airing new ideas that will somehow open new knowledge for the readers.
In these two categories, a characteristic of quality topic is a must for each and everyone.
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@busybee10 (3186)
• India
22 Sep 10
[b]Well that is really great.You are a very talented person to handle both so easily.
Creativity is the secret behind this,and you have it.
Good keep it up.....[/b]
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
19 Sep 10
I prefer to respond to discussions started by others. I know I am not that creative in getting my set of discussions right, but occasionally I do pop in with one or two. Some of them have been a bit successful too but somewhere I feel that I unable to catch up with the current vibes on the given day and this is why many of my discussions do not get me good responses. If they did, I would feel motivated and try to come up with some thing more... The more would definitely be better
Have a great time,
Sids
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@busybee10 (3186)
• India
22 Sep 10
[b]Yes - this was the thing I used to do in the initial stages but as I thought to be active on my lot made me to post discussions by being creative.
Posting a discussion is our aim and members responding to them or not is left to the members.Because, you see many hundreds of discussions are being posted by the members here and the person who is active on the site will be selective according to the thoughts being generated at that instant and which ever discussion suits him only that he will respond. So nothing to worry we have to do our duty.
It comes by experience only.Hence nothing to get disappointed.
Have self motivation with dashing thoughts and you will surely succeed. Nothing stays as a barrier if you have a broad vision.
Roar and roar and sometimes it will be heard some where......
Good luck and cheers dear thesids[/b]
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
21 Sep 10
Good - that should be the spirit to be on this beautiful ground of mylot.
Doing both makes us to learn many things and also improves our talent to handle issues cleverly.
I enjoy doing both.
Keep it up.
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
22 Sep 10
[b]Well - you are new here and hence it may take some time to get into posting discussions,by seeing others members.
Any how, it is an individuals interest,so depending on that they will be active.
As days goes by you will also wish to post some discussions I feel....[/b]
@tess_quinain (1149)
• Philippines
19 Sep 10
it depends on how i feel..sometimes i like to post some discussions sometimes not.
I do respond comments too.
yes, i enjoy both.
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
22 Sep 10
[b]Enjoying both make you more energetic to be on the site.It is just like a handle of a cycle - balancing our activeness on this site.
Great - keep it up.[/b]
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
19 Sep 10
Hey i always tried to give more response on more discussions.. and sometimes i also started discussions on various topics when i think their is no such discussions which i can reply.. so it is the better way to started some new discussions.. on some good topics..
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
22 Sep 10
[b]Yes.this should be our research and you are doing the right way. We have to hunt for new topics to post discussions. 'That keeps live on the site.
Nice to hear that....[/b]
@johnpillai (2082)
• Germany
20 Sep 10
Realy starting a discussion is great. that leads another people also get benefit. But after joining in Triond I have given up to start discussion. some times my brain is blankout. I just only do responses. i should thankthe people who starts discussions. starting discussions is a matter of practices. i should try it again.
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
22 Sep 10
[b]Yes starting discussion needs lot of creativity and a wide knowledge to answer the following responses too.
Only if you can handle this a discussion can be posted otherwise it is merely a post lying idle on the site.
Thanks for your kind response....[/b]
@kharlav (1669)
• Philippines
19 Sep 10
I like to respond better than making discussions . I am not really a good writer that is why t is also hard for me to be creative and think of topics to discuss about. I find it easier to just answer the questions in the discussion and just share what I know about the topic
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@busybee10 (3186)
• India
21 Sep 10
Nothing to worry - it is nice and also easy as you see the discussions in front of you and depending upon the flow of thoughts at that part5iular time makes you to select one and then respond.
OK - but during your walk of life something comes in-front of you which is a unique one,this you may frame and then start a discussion.
@luukimlong2000 (658)
• Vietnam
19 Sep 10
Hi man, I really want to ask something.
If a don't commend in my dicssution, is it ok.
And, comment has any affect to my earning.
I am slso a new member, so I want to find out about it.
Can you share your idease to me.
In my opinion, my prefer to post new topics.
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
21 Sep 10
dear luukimlong2000, I am sorry for I am unable to answer your response as it is not clear.Please put it in a good way so that I can reply to you....
@msabc1 (88)
• Hong Kong
19 Sep 10
I like responding more than starting discussions. I start responding to discussions when I started mylotting, and I'm almost got used to it now. To start a discussion, I'll have many considerations, like, would it be duplicated, would it messed with some of the "don'ts", though I have read the faq, but I'm still afraid that I might have some misunderstandings. The worst thing is I'm afraid that the discussions I start, if any, would have no response at all.
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@busybee10 (3186)
• India
21 Sep 10
[b]Oh yes I could understand your thoughts - but daring to face any challenges is a human nature and you can go forward only if you dare for something. Even me too I started only with responses,but started to post even discussions.
TRY and BE creative ....[/b]
You can do it provided you have the strong determination and will.
@lichengxi (49)
• China
19 Sep 10
it is hard to say.when i need help,i would like to stat a discussion.but most of time, i would like to read some interesting topic and respond it
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
22 Sep 10
[b]OK - this your taste of responding.No problem.
Since you are new you may need some time to be active on this site which really prepares your to post discussions.[/b]
@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
19 Sep 10
When I was just starting here, I posted discussions as many as I could per day. I had an agenda and that is to reach a 100 post so I can see my star.:)Then, when this was fulfilled I posted a lot more religiously to reach my 500 post this time so I can copy and paste.LOL
Yes, of course, I can also do that by responding, too, to a lot of discussions but it also requires me to read a lot first. So it is better to just laid down my thoughts and let the ball rolling from there. It was easier for me to make my digits rose up in a speedy way.:)
Right now, I am more into responding because there were hardly thoughts I had that I wanted to share here that I think was interesting enough to be responded by.So, I'm just foregoing that for the meantime. I am still active here but as a respondent.:)
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
22 Sep 10
Nice to hear that.
You seem to be a strong and determined person achieving your goals. That is really great.
Any how,to be on this site needs lot of alertness and also presence of mind to handle things carefully keeping all the T & C of the site.
Good - do the best possible.
@megamatt (14291)
• United States
19 Sep 10
There are times where it really depends on the day for me. I mean, there are some times where the creativity well is rather dry. Therefore, if I have no ideas, than it would be extremely difficult, impossible even, to really post any discussion topics. There are days where I think that I would like to post something for others to discuss, but only if I have that idea. It can be ugly trying to force something like that.
Then there are those days where no topics are just interesting me enough to respond to them. On another day, I would be interested by the topic. Still there is just something that causes me to fail and thus not be able to write even the simplest word on a topic. These times are few and far between granted, but they still happen. That's why I try and post topics on those days, because I can get some work done.
It is odd how I go through certain moods on this great website on a day to day basis. There are a lot of changes, many changes in fact, as moods continue to really change how I post. Sometimes there are many responses, but little to no topics. Then there are many topics but hardly any responses. Then there are rare days where I somehow achieve a balance. It really does depend.
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
22 Sep 10
I feel you should dare to do things in life and dashingly approach to do or attempt that with full of confidence. I feel one should be self motivated and does not wait for other suggestions. Try - you may fail but do not worry for the result.
Some may or may not respond,but until we try we cannot know in which depth we are....
Hence keep trying you will surely succeed.