Women & Marriage!!!

@randyc (85)
Jamaica
September 21, 2010 11:35pm CST
I totally love woman but like now i am 20 and looking to get married. I belive that you must come to a stage where you leagally get bonded with the one desire. My love one is older than me 23 but i love her much. And hope by 23 i can get a house and start life like that. Whats your view on life like that?
5 responses
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
22 Sep 10
I think you're still young to have a plan like that. why mot marry at the age of 25 when you are really ready. Maybe that time you already bought a house to live in and you are settled with your work with a nice salary.
@randyc (85)
• Jamaica
22 Sep 10
That's fine with me, but you got to prepare for your desires haven't you? Although i'd love to be able to do it by 23 and i know its possible with my current job.
• Philippines
22 Sep 10
you're 20, so young and full of hopes and dreams, i'm 23..but i ain't looking forward to a marriage yet, i love my boyfriend, i see that he is the one, but marriage is something you both need to make plans first...a couple may love each other but in marriage, love is not enough to say you can settle now...livelihood, family planning, parenting, and dealing with time for friends and relatives..those are just few of the factors you have to think of before saying "i do's"..
@randyc (85)
• Jamaica
22 Sep 10
Everyone has different views, in my family it is not strange at all. My eldest brother got married at 27, next 23, next 23 and engadge now. And me 23 and looking to get a saving house.
@chitchat (179)
• United States
22 Sep 10
20 years old seems really young to be thinking about buying a house and getting married. Even 23 years old seems really young for that kind of a life. Don't forget to do the exciting youthful things like travel, meeting new people, dating different kinds of people, etc. If you settle down too young, you might regret having missed out on so much and you might end up resenting your spouse.
@randyc (85)
• Jamaica
22 Sep 10
Actually i still get the opertunity to travel because i have friends and family all over. But its the settle down part i belive in.
• Philippines
22 Sep 10
Wow ! Congratulations to you, in my opinion anyway, I don't think that your age is too young but just enough as long as you know you are capable of providing for your new family. I don't see marriage at such age would become a burden to your desired goals such as success in your career or traveling abroad, as long as your spouse understands and agree on your pursuits in life. Becoming married to the one whom you believe is the one for you is a wonderful chapter you just have open in your life. Good luck to you and best wishes !
• Philippines
22 Sep 10
Yes I agree. I am also looking forward to get married. I love my gf so much and I want to marry her as soon as I got the stable job and house for her.
@randyc (85)
• Jamaica
22 Sep 10
Rate you bro. I can see his view but everyone is different i actually believe in settling down in life early i guess because i am a christian too. Rate my discussion please?