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chitchat @chitchat (179) • United States 14 Jun 11

I've got a big problem-at least big to me. My husband is smoking pot again and I am at a loss. It may not sound like a big deal to some people, but I have 2 children with him, we've been married for almost 6 years, and he promised...

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chitchat Thank you for your comments. Your advice has given me a lot to think about and I appreciate your support.

15 Jun 11

chitchat @chitchat (179) • United States 14 Jun 11

I've got a big problem-at least big to me. My husband is smoking pot again and I am at a loss. It may not sound like a big deal to some people, but I have 2 children with him, we've been married for almost 6 years, and he promised...

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chitchat Thanks for the advice. I'm not sure about getting other people involved but I hadn't thought of that before. Also I agree that being confrontational may not be the way to go.

15 Jun 11

chitchat @chitchat (179) • United States 14 Jun 11

I've got a big problem-at least big to me. My husband is smoking pot again and I am at a loss. It may not sound like a big deal to some people, but I have 2 children with him, we've been married for almost 6 years, and he promised...

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chitchat There are so many things in your response that I find wrong that I don't even want to take the time to comment other than to say it is clear that you too indulge.

15 Jun 11

chitchat @chitchat (179) • United States 14 Jun 11

I've got a big problem-at least big to me. My husband is smoking pot again and I am at a loss. It may not sound like a big deal to some people, but I have 2 children with him, we've been married for almost 6 years, and he promised...

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chitchat You may not have been able to give me suggestions on what to do but your story makes me feel a little better because at least I know that I'm not the only one going through problems like this. Thank you for saying that it is a big deal to you too because it...

15 Jun 11

chitchat @chitchat (179) • United States 14 Jun 11

I've got a big problem-at least big to me. My husband is smoking pot again and I am at a loss. It may not sound like a big deal to some people, but I have 2 children with him, we've been married for almost 6 years, and he promised...

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chitchat Your right, maybe an ultimatum may not be the best solution. Good tip about not being emotional when talking to him about this problem. I didn't mean we don't do anything ever, I just meant that we don't go to the movies and restaurants as much as we used to....

15 Jun 11

chitchat @chitchat (179) • United States 14 Jun 11

I've got a big problem-at least big to me. My husband is smoking pot again and I am at a loss. It may not sound like a big deal to some people, but I have 2 children with him, we've been married for almost 6 years, and he promised...

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dreamsharmin @dreamsharmin (2281) • China 1 Feb 11

Why? Everything is difficult. There is nothing which is easy to do or gain? But why? Why things can't be so easy? What do you think? Do you agree that all things are difficult or hard? Share your own opinion.

hard

life

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chitchat I feel the same way. Why does everything have to be so difficult? And just when you think everything is going smoothly, someone/something drops a big huge boulder in your path--another obstacle to struggle with. But then there are people I know who seem to...

1 Feb 11

tanyamean @tanyamean (295) • Philippines 1 Feb 11

They say its important to enroll your toddlers to a good school during preparatory education.They say it is one factor for molding your children into a better person with good education.Education is very important but I wish it is...

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chitchat A good education can be expensive because of all the expenses that the school must pay for in order to educate your child: teacher's salary, books, activity fees, field trips, school supplies, computers, etc. It's money well spent though because of the amount...

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moneyonline2002 @moneyonline2002 (57) • Philippines 1 Feb 11

This morning when I was about to swipe my ID at work I found it missing on my jacket. I text my wife if she got something in my jackets pocket because my id is missing and it would cause too much waste of time getting a new one......

miserable

terrible wife

wife

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chitchat As a wife, I have never acted like that towards my husband. She seems to have gotten really defensive by your simple question which is suspicious. If she didn't take anything from your jacket, then it should have been an easy "no". Good luck with everything.

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Oldsix691418 @Oldsix691418 (3872) • China 1 Feb 11

In my experiences,most people ignore one thing,which is very important to us all in fact. Who did you belong when you were born?Of course you belonged to your parents (and your brothers and sisters).Who did you belong when you...

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chitchat It is important to remember to take care of ourselves. We work so hard taking care of our kids, spouses, parents, sisters, brothers, friends, co-workers. We're so considered with other people's happiness and well being. That's not a bad thing but in doing so,...

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bussyien @bussyien (134) • Indonesia 1 Feb 11

Today is quite difficult to find healthy food which have a good taste. Most foods that sold in many places are only concern to the taste but little attention to health aspect. There are foods that are healthy but not delicious,...

food

health

tasty

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chitchat I kind of disagree with you. I think there are plenty of delicious tasting, healthy foods. Fruits are healthy and delicious, most vegetables-carrots, peas, green beans, peppers, spinach. Whole wheat/multigrain foods are very healthy and very tasty--whole grain...

1 Feb 11

highschoolrazors8547 @highschoolrazors8547 (293) • Malaysia 1 Feb 11

To all musicians out there in Mylot,what type of musical instrument(s) do you possess? And how do you maintain the instrument(s)? Like me,I'm a bassist and I have an electric jazz bass.When I first bought the bass,I thought...

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chitchat I used to own a flute and a piano. The flute was pretty low maintenance. I just had to wipe it down after every use. It keeps pretty clean with out much care. Maintenance is pretty low key. The piano took a little bit more effort because you have to get it...

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Nona Morris @nonersays (3335) • United States 1 Feb 11

Do you think the world is going to "come to an end" in 2012? Why or why not?

armegeddon

end of the world

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chitchat That's such a hard question to answer. Who am I to stay if the world is going to end next year. If you believe the Mayans' prediction, then yes the world will end in 2012. It is a very difficult thing to believe--so unbelievable in its claim because of the...

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jahernandezrivas @jahernandezrivas (11288) • United States 1 Feb 11

I just ate a plate of a very small piece of chicken fried steak and some nude potatoes with cabbage and some corn and tortillas like about 30 minutes ago and I am hungry again!! Do you think it is this very cold weather we are...

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chitchat It's funny you should mention this because I was just thinking to myself "how could I be hungry right now? I just had a big dinner." I had a big piece of chicken with a lot of potatoes on the side plus some spiced pumpkin pie for dessert. I was stuffed just a...

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money4moms @money4moms (234) • Philippines 1 Feb 11

Being a mother is not an easy task. It requires your full commitment and sacrifice so you could give your all to your love ones and children. It is a loving duty to become a stay at home wife, a mother or simply called housewife...

duty at home

family sacrifice

loving housewife

responsible housewife

selfless mothers

stay at home moms

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chitchat Thank you for your comments. You have no idea how much I appreciated reading what you wrote. I have sacrificed my education, my career, my life to be there for my kids. I complete forgot to take care of myself and I have been struggling and working hard for my...

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remo86 @remo86 (252) • Egypt 1 Feb 11

In few days Egypt became in bad politics situation ,breaking news daily by huge Demonstrations,Riots and violence ..So are you follow news??interest in that ??and what do you think about that??

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chitchat I have been following the protests and political unrest in Egypt. This evening I heard that the Egyptian president has decided not to run for office in September. I don't know if this is good enough for the protestors. I know they want him to step down...

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skr3wed @skr3wed (147) • Vietnam 1 Feb 11

Is it common to get addicted to video games, cause i think i am... besides do you guys know any way to get over this addiction?

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chitchat It is very easy to become "addicted" to video games because the games can be really fun and when you play it always seems like the time just flies by. I know a few people who have had a difficult time peeling themselves away from their video games even when...

1 Feb 11

allinfoyouneed @allinfoyouneed (53) • Philippines 1 Feb 11

In our modern and fast paced lifestyle, most of us experience stress, resort to poor diet which can weaken our immune system and thereby increasing the chances of getting cancer. The proper balance of food and minerals in our body...

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chitchat I agree with you that a properly balanced diet is very important to our health. I've been very careful trying to instill this kind of eating habit in my kids so that they grow up as healthy as possible. In addition to healthy eating, regular exercise is also...

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Lucyalicia92 @Lucyalicia92 (670) • United States 25 Jan 11

Do any of you have guilty pleasure TV shows? My number one is Jerseylicious and then the Real Housewives, my favorite real housewives being New Jersey. Please share all your guilty pleasure tv shows, it doesn't have to be reality!...

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chitchat My guilty pleasure shows are The Real Housewives of New Jersey, New York, and Beverly Hills. Also Keeping up with the Kardashians. I used to like The Real Housewives of Orange County but I didn't like it anymore after Laurie left. I don't like the New York one...

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