A dear friend of many of us has asked that I let you all know she has been
By moondancer
@moondancer (7431)
United States
September 22, 2010 7:35pm CST
BANNED yet again! This is not funny and it's just not right at all. She has not done a darn thing wrong. She has stayed within the guidelines!!
This is partly a RANT... I am so sick and tired of all the hob-knobbing here and someone taking a severe dislike to one person and causing them to be banned and for no reason other than this one person does not like them and this one person is tight with admin or a person that monitors My Lot!
This is a discussion site not a place for people to have control and put someone out because they can or because they don't like someone for any reason.
If you do something wrong and have been warned that is different, but when someone has done not a thing wrong it's just not right.
No one or no few people should have that much control in any one site.
I thought being here would be a good thing but the more I'm here and see the injustices that are done here the more I'm not so sure anymore.
This site is suppose to be a "DISCUSSION SITE" and a place that we have made friends at as well. It's NOT suppose to be used for PERSONAL VENDETTA'S!!!!
Now I will tell you just who has been banned in case you have not noticed yet or figured it out...it's Cheryl you know her as Tattylashes and a few other names because once this person finds out who she is she gets her banned.
I want you to know whoever you are, and yes I do know who you are...that you are not hurting her in the least with your petty childish games! You are making a bad name for this site of My Lot using it for personal reasons.
It's no wonder people say bad things about My Lot and how there are "cliques" here.
She does not need this place to make money nor to talk to her friends. We do have other places for this and everyone we wish to "talk to" are on other sites we go to and we have each other emails. SO don't you even think you are hurting her in any way or us either for that matter.
Now to make this a discussion...Have you been unjustly banned or know of someone that was?
How do you feel about this happening here in my lot?
As you can see I am not happy about this.
I sure hope this does not get deleted but don't be surprised if it's not. So responsd at your own risk of getting or not getting a few cents.
I apologize for the length of this and thank you for responding if you do.
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16 responses
@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
23 Sep 10
This is the same nasty little cygnet that has been trashing our Tatty all over the place I take it? Who else would it be..........Tatty has done nothing to deserve this except try to be a good friend, and walk away with dignity when it didn't work out. How shameful some people can be.
Right now I am reduced to using my netbook in my basement (need the direct internet line to plug into my netbook to get on the net), and so I am not at my computer as much. BUT I WILL MAKE AN EXCEPTION TOMORROW and find the nasty little cygnet and teach her some manners as only I can do!
Thanks for the heads up on this moonbeam and I hope everyone who reads this discussion appeals to mylot admin to reinstate our dazzling box!
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@moondancer (7431)
• United States
23 Sep 10
Well I can say the one you are talking about has caused her some real grief as you well know. I will have to email you to tell you more.
I know you had said that you would do something if this happened again. Tatty is so bothered by this in the way that she keeps losing her money. Like she said though all of her friends see her in other places and there are other places as well for her to make money and she does not wish to waste her time here. If only this other person would finally be banned and for good for what she has pulled it would be the right thing for admin to do.
Thank you Sparks...for our tatty.
@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
23 Sep 10
Hey Sid my darlin'........good to see you.
I must apologize for mistaking cygnet as the culprit though I know she too has caused untold grief to our friend.
Moonbeam, thanks for the emails straightening my misconception out, and rest assured I am on the real culprit's case too. Stay tune! lol
@AutumnGold (1056)
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23 Sep 10
Hello Moondancer. I'm shocked to learn that such things can happen on here, I thought I'd joined a good site where we all took part in discussions, not personal vendettas 
I was aware of such behaviour on Yahoo Answers and I don't use that site now because of that, people were just forming cliques and flaming others just because they disagreed with what people said. In my view if we don't particularly like someone we can avoid them, we don't have to have anything to do with them so why hold a grudge? Life is too short for such behaviour and those responsible for getting innocent people removed from sites just because they don't like them need to grow up and spend more time in the real world where far more serious things are happening than petty dislikes 
I was aware of such behaviour on Yahoo Answers and I don't use that site now because of that, people were just forming cliques and flaming others just because they disagreed with what people said. In my view if we don't particularly like someone we can avoid them, we don't have to have anything to do with them so why hold a grudge? Life is too short for such behaviour and those responsible for getting innocent people removed from sites just because they don't like them need to grow up and spend more time in the real world where far more serious things are happening than petty dislikes 1 person likes this
@moondancer (7431)
• United States
23 Sep 10
Hello Autumn and Prince, I agree with you both totally! In fact I think we should all write to admin and see that this is done. This person has gotten more than one person numerously banned from My LOt and yes she has made many people quit coming to My Lot.
They got tired of the games and being banned for personal reasons.
Thanks for your input both of you.
Autumn thank you for wanting me on your list. :)
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@AutumnGold (1056)
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23 Sep 10
Well if someone is using their power to take liberties they deserve to have that power taken away. People who abuse their position are worse than those who break the rules, they're hypocrites of the highest order in my view and they should not be holding a position of authority.
@Kumardprince (96)
• India
23 Sep 10
I just do not like person using mylot powers for their own cause. That person id making the name of mylot degrade. Its just awful. I want admin to kick that person off mylot job.
And everyone of us are here for a good cause. Not to hate each other but to spread peace and unity.
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@celticeagle (168126)
• Boise, Idaho
23 Sep 10
I have known several members that have been banned in the past. After several such occurences they left the site entirely. I have noticed also that perfectly innocent looking discussions are deleted for no reason I can see. It is weird. I guess I don't understand how one member can get another member banned. Unless they get them rialed up and they say thing unbecoming.
@moondancer (7431)
• United States
23 Sep 10
Well, it's like this a couple of people are in on this together from the looks of it. One of them is using mylot for personal vendettas. It's a shame because she has banned numerous people for absolutely no legal reason other than she just got mad at them or did not like what they said or she did not like that they got more popular than she is it seems.
She is ruining the mylot name and site.
This person needs to be fired as a person helping mylot and having the power to ban people!
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@moondancer (7431)
• United States
24 Sep 10
You know, it's hard to be in a place like this that let people do what these are. I just had to let everyone know what happens here if for no reason other than to let them know if it's happening to them that they are not the only one.
Also I'm hoping that bringing this out in the open that My Lot admin will put a stop to this mess. It should not be happening at all!
This is a discussion forum and we are suppose to say what we want to within reason and just because someone disagrees with you then you get banned because they have that option at their finger tips.
I know I'm pushing my luck in letting everyone know what is going on here. But there are other places I can go to. I would miss my friends here and the discussions I have with them. I do have many of my friends in other places with me.
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@celticeagle (168126)
• Boise, Idaho
24 Sep 10
I really hate to hear of this sort of thing on Mylot. I hope it is retified soon. Usually people are found out after a period of time. I hope that is the case here. I would stay out of it as much as possible if I were you. If you want to remain on Mylot that is.
@mcelhenney (481)
• United States
23 Sep 10
Hey,I do not know anything about this..I am sorry that anyone would do that to her..
As you know I don't come on here much..I do not even know what it takes to get banned..I have not seen Cheryl on here when I am here but I can't imagine her doing anything to be banned.
Blessings and love to you..
@moondancer (7431)
• United States
23 Sep 10
I know you don't mom and I know for a fact she has done nothing to be banned. Every post she makes comes to my email as she is on my list. I keep up with her posts and several others.
I love you too and hey, we will see you tomorrow. 
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
23 Sep 10
Hi mcelhenny, i'm one of your daughter's mylot friends. Good to see u on here, hope u are feeling better.
@mcelhenney (481)
• United States
28 Sep 10
Hi Antiquelady..
Thank you.. I am feeling a little better..I was given a new medicine and I think it has helped me to breathe better..Blessings to you..
@tamarafireheart (15384)
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24 Sep 10
Hello Moondancer,
Oh NOT again!!!! poor thing, what has this person got against Tattylashes? she has done nothing wrong, she is a sweet and loving person, I am so getting fedup with this, I agree, this site supposed to be a fun site and for all of us to make friends, as I have already met few of my mylot friends, I don't understand, yes, it is good that we can meet up elsewhere to have a good natter, soon this site will be full of newbies with nothing to say but go on about making money, I am only here for my friends but so many of them has already left as its no fun at all anymore, wish this site could be as happy as it used to be. Sorry that she has been banned again, love her, and you love you too, hugs.
Tamara
@moondancer (7431)
• United States
24 Sep 10
I totally agree and that's why I wrote this. Cheryl told me not to she thinks I'll be banned too for doing it. I told her at this point and the way it is here that it would not really hurt me any to be banned if this person or people target me too. It is a clique and it's sad because they are in admin or one is anyway. The other ones says she is not but everyone thinks she is.
Thank you dear. I love you too. hugs...
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@Memnon (2170)
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23 Sep 10
No apology needed. My paths and Tattylashes have not crossed to date- but that's no surprise with so many members.
I used to be a member of Toluna, and can recall at least 4 friends who had their accounts closed for no apparent reason. Only to have a hell of a job getting reinstated: with no apology.
It is just petty and vindictive to behave to someone else in this way. It's not like the workplace, where you may have to see someone that one cannot tolerate daily. Here you can just walk away if you dislike someone. This takes no ***** to do, or incur any loss of face! 
@moondancer (7431)
• United States
23 Sep 10
Yes, you are absolutely right. The thing is this person and everyone else knows that Cheryl needs money and is trying so hard to get her jewelry making business off the ground. It haas taken a hit by a bad person that was jealous and now this again here. Every time they do this it's at pay out and she is about to be paid. So that in itself is a mean thing to do.
Tatty has had a few names here and you may know her by one of them.
Thank you for your words of support.
@moondancer (7431)
• United States
23 Sep 10
You are right. Cheryl is not wanting to come back here. She does not want to keep playing this persons games with her. Plus she has lost too much much needed money. $60. is a lot to lose!
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@sid556 (30959)
• United States
23 Sep 10
Hi Moon,
I remember Tatty being banned before and she had posted a thread on here telling us who did it to her but for the life of me, I can't remember who it was. I've never seen her post anything that goes outside of guidelines other than that one discussion about the person that had something against her but that was after she'd been banned. I honestly didn't even know it was possible for one person to get someone banned.
@moondancer (7431)
• United States
23 Sep 10
Well Sid some people here are lisrened to by admin. When others write to admin and tell them what is going on the person that was banned is reinstated.
Heck, I have even been banned once and I did nothing either except what I am doing now...standing up for what is right and a friend.
I think things should be looked into before banning takes place. It is a bother for one that has reached payout and then loses all that money they have typed their fingers to the bone to get.
Thank you for your kind words.
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@moondancer (7431)
• United States
24 Sep 10
It's bad when a person abuses their priviledges and uses that "banned" button on people just because they don't like what they say or don't approve of something they do or say or approve of them for any reason.
These people need not be admin! You don't use a business for personal conflicts.
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@sid556 (30959)
• United States
23 Sep 10
I honestly can't even imagine a personal issue on here being so huge that I would care to go to such lengths just to be vindictive to someone. If she isn't doing anything to break Mylot rules and she isn't causing trouble then it would seem easy enough to ignore her if I didn't like her. I like Tatty and I'm sorry that this is happening to her. I'm sure it is very frustrating to almost reach pay out and then get banned and lose it all but it goes beyond that. It is the principal of it. She has as much right to be here as anyone else. It is wrong that someone can get banned for no good reason.
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
23 Sep 10
I have never had a problem with tatty, and if she was banned for no good reason, I hope it gets rectified.
@moondancer (7431)
• United States
24 Sep 10
Hello dawnald, thank you for your positive input. I hope it is as well.
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@cream97 (29086)
• United States
26 Sep 10
Hi. moondancer. This is sad! And it is so bad because I was just thinking about tattylashes just the other day. Another myLotter created a discussion asking all of us whom we don't see anymore. I was listing names and tattylashes came to my mind. I am so sorry that someone has gotten her banned. For what? People can be so stupid. I remember logging onto myLot one day and I was unable to post. My account was suspended. I could not post anything at all. Apparently some meanie decided to copy my words that I have posted on myLot. This got me kicked off for almost a week. I was so upset. I could not understand why someone would do this to me. I did not do anything wrong. I hope and wish that myLot will find out whom is the real evil demon here. Because it is certainly not tattylashes! It is so sad that myLotters choose to do such evil to get rid of a great persons here on myLot. I hope that whomever this person is, they will get what is coming for them really soon!
@moondancer (7431)
• United States
26 Sep 10
I feel exactly the same way about the people that are doing this to everyone they are doing it to. Believe me it's more than just tatty. She has had to come in under two different names because of this and as soon as she reveled to one of these persons her real identity she was banned in less than 5 minutes. It's so sad really that people use My Lot and other forums for their own agenda. It is pure meaness and spite and she should not be allowed to do this any longer.
I was hoping that once you all knew what was going on that you would help in writing to admin and see what can be done to get these people out of here.
It's not right that good people lose their money and their time here for no reason at all except for these other people.
Tatty has lost over $60 and for here that is a lot of money.
I'm so sorry that someone copied your words and got you banned for a time. That should have been investigated and the culprit been the one banned not you.
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@moondancer (7431)
• United States
2 Oct 10
I feel the same way too. It's just not right that someone is even allowed to do this. That one person has the authority to bring people down like this.
I'm sorry I did not get anything letting me know you had responded to this.
I have not been getting my emails from here like I'm suppose to.
Thank you dear.
@cream97 (29086)
• United States
26 Sep 10
Hi. moondancer. Some people just can't be trusted on myLot!
She changed her name a few times and this has still gotten her banned? Why would someone want to bring her down in this ugly way? That is so cruel and heartless of this person! I will email myLot and tell them to look into reinstating her account. It is so wrong that someone is just out to destroy tattylashes! After this I know that tattylashes will make sure that she only really trust a selected amount of myLotters from now on. I know that I would if I was her. I don't understand why someone has so much time on their hands to destroy someone else. What have they gotten against tattylashes so much? She is a very sweet and kind woman. She is an angel.
This is not fair. I will make sure that I give my input to the admin of myLot. Surely they have to look into this issue. MyLot has to get rid of anyone that is making false reports about someone else. People should not be kicked off just because someone has an personal issue against them! I know that this has tattylashes feeling pretty bad and I don't appreciate anyone treating my friend like this!
She changed her name a few times and this has still gotten her banned? Why would someone want to bring her down in this ugly way? That is so cruel and heartless of this person! I will email myLot and tell them to look into reinstating her account. It is so wrong that someone is just out to destroy tattylashes! After this I know that tattylashes will make sure that she only really trust a selected amount of myLotters from now on. I know that I would if I was her. I don't understand why someone has so much time on their hands to destroy someone else. What have they gotten against tattylashes so much? She is a very sweet and kind woman. She is an angel. This is not fair. I will make sure that I give my input to the admin of myLot. Surely they have to look into this issue. MyLot has to get rid of anyone that is making false reports about someone else. People should not be kicked off just because someone has an personal issue against them! I know that this has tattylashes feeling pretty bad and I don't appreciate anyone treating my friend like this! @ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
23 Sep 10
WELL FOR PETE'S SAKE , AGAIN?? That is ridiculous that whoever is the jerk can keep doing this to her. Tatty is one of my faves. Tell her i'm sorry, that i have missed her & to let me know when she gets back & i know she will. People can try to do this but they can't keep a good woman down. If u will pm me with their username i'll see if i can't help them.
. Thanks for letting us know we have an a$$hole on mylot.
. Thanks for letting us know we have an a$$hole on mylot.@moondancer (7431)
• United States
23 Sep 10
Yes, she has many friends here and I think this may be what the other person don't like but I'm not sure. This person just uses MyLot to her own means and banns people because she is able to.
Also if you ask them to give her the money they owe her that would be great They owe her $60. She has requested this several times and got no reply from them.
Thank you!
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
23 Sep 10
HI THERE, tHANKS FOR SPEAKING TO ME. wELCOME TO MYLOT. hOPE U ENJOY IT AS MUCH AS I DO. Happy days to u.
@LadyMarissa (12148)
• United States
2 Oct 10
I wondered what had happened to Tatty/Dazzle. A very close friend of hers has disappeared also & I was worried. I guess she just went with her. I'm sorry some people just can't act like adults here!!!! 
@moondancer (7431)
• United States
2 Oct 10
So true! There have been a number of people disappear and not be back. A guy is gone too!
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@LadyMarissa (12148)
• United States
2 Oct 10
If it's the guy I was looking for recently...he's baaaaccckkk, but being relatively quiet!!! 
@jypsyjulia (912)
• United States
23 Sep 10
... what on earth? Do you know the person who keeps doing this? Maybe you or Cheryl could email MyLot and let them know what's going on. Maybe she could even give them her password and login info and let them see for themselves that she has done nothing wrong? I am so sorry that this has happened. I agree, MyLot is a discussion site. We're all suppose to be here to have fun and get to know each other, not to be malicious. Have you reported the person doing this? Once again, I'm sorry this has happened to poor Cheryl. It's just not fair.
@moondancer (7431)
• United States
24 Sep 10
Cheryl has written to admin, I have not as of yet but do plan to as soon as I get back home from my trip. I have spoken to others that have written on her behalf though. I want people to write and have asked them to. They need to give Cheryl the money for her other accounts too, she is owed over $60 from MyLot.
No it is not fair at all. Thank you for your support.
@GraemesGirl (6)
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23 Sep 10
I know Cheryl.Sadly i have not been in touch with her for
a while but right now i am going to send her an email.
As for you question at this time i cannot answer it LOL
@moondancer (7431)
• United States
24 Sep 10
Hello and welcome GG...I hope you don't mind me calling you this for short. I actually like GG, I know she would love to hear from a friend right about now.
I will also add you to my list. If I don't get banned you'll see me around, lol.
@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
23 Sep 10
Stick around long enough sweets and you'll be able to answer the question in your sleep! lol I've put in friend's request. Any friend of our Tatty should be a friend of mine! LOL Welcome to the lot.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
23 Sep 10
I will join you in this rant and personally I think the Person is on admin even though they say they are not
This Person does not stop till they find what they want to find
To be honest I am surprised that the Person has not got rid of me yet as I know they have been saying things about me to another Person and I am sure we are on about the same person
This Person does not know me has never been to my Discussions but has made awful comments about me
The thing is Cheryl was hardly here has done nothing wrong but this Person will have looked and looked till they found out it was her
Mylot get your act together it has been so lovely here and now you are letting one Person ruin it again
Well if I can't sign in later lol I know why but hey if mylot is going to be going down again then so be it
@moondancer (7431)
• United States
23 Sep 10
I know what you mean and you are absolutely right. She keeps on searching until she finds the new name of the people that she does not want her and as soon as she knows their new name they are banned, they can not get into mylot again to post. They even lose their money too. Cheryl was keeping a low profile and did not post much because she knew it was just a matter of time that the woman would find her.
It's a shame really. She is ruining mylot and Mylot should not stand for this. This woman needs to be permanently banned herself!!!!
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Sep 10
oh my moondancer what on earth would anyone want to hurt such a
nice person as tattyLashes. She is one of my friends too and if
I saw who was doing this to her I would say some harsh things
and would also report this person for harassing TattyLashes.
Surely mylot admins should know better than to ban her because
someone was p
ickiing of her, thats awful, the one doins the
malicious stuff is the one who should have been banned.I have
never been wrongfully banned but when I was first here two'
guys took out after my blue star and overnight minused me down'to a five just because they did not like hearing that smo king is bad for
your health.They stayed up all night minusing everything I had ever
poste so my star dropped over night. I contacted mylot admins and they found the cupprits and kicked them off my lot. but I only got my star to a yellow eight but now Ian a red star with 91 percent rating so am moving up.
ickiing of her, thats awful, the one doins the
malicious stuff is the one who should have been banned.I have
never been wrongfully banned but when I was first here two'
guys took out after my blue star and overnight minused me down'to a five just because they did not like hearing that smo king is bad for
your health.They stayed up all night minusing everything I had ever
poste so my star dropped over night. I contacted mylot admins and they found the cupprits and kicked them off my lot. but I only got my star to a yellow eight but now Ian a red star with 91 percent rating so am moving up.@moondancer (7431)
• United States
23 Sep 10
I have no idea why some people can be so malicious. It's down right mean and not right.
I'm sorry to hear this thing happened to you. I had the same thing happen to me over a simple misunderstanding and the woman sat and went through everything I had ever posted marking me a minus too. I knew who it was though as she was the only person at that time that had went off on me. I hate to say it but I returned the favor and she stopped.
She lost her ratings just as I lost mine.
I hate this happening to her, tatty. She has truly done nothing wrong except maybe be more popular than this other person. I can not say here who it is.
