Would you concider flirting onine cheating?

United States
September 23, 2010 9:53pm CST
I love my boyfriend very much sometimes I go into chat rooms when I'm bored and it sometimes turns into so harmless flirting. I feel a little guilty could this mean I know I'm doing something wrong? Or is it really harmless it never goes further than a little chatting but what do you think would you concider it cheating if you boyfriend or girlfriend did it or if you did? Have you done this? Let me know please!
5 responses
@romzz05 (572)
• Philippines
24 Sep 10
Well if I'm in a relationship I'm very loyal because i expect the same from my partner. My measure of if I'm doing something wrong is if my bf did the same thing how will I feel.
• United States
24 Sep 10
I have thought about this too and I feel if it was just harmless flirting with someone who lives thousands of miles a way I could take it if it makes him feel desired by other women and not just me.
• Malaysia
24 Sep 10
No, I don't consider online flirting cheating, provided your partner knows that you're flirting and why. I had a guy flirt with me once over open Internet and I showed the logs to my bf, so he knows my reactions. If you're worried, discuss it with your BF, so at least the two of you are in the clear about it.
• United States
24 Sep 10
My boyfriend does know I go online and talk to people including guys but I have never showed him the specifics of what were said. Maybe that would make me feel better. Thanks
• Canada
24 Sep 10
Actually it is considered cheating if you're in a relationship while you're flirting. I've never done it but I've thought about it.
• India
24 Sep 10
Go ahead. It is not cheating.Take it as fun and nothing more.
• Philippines
24 Sep 10
Yes! I consider it cheating since the one you love is doing other things with another person and i dont like cheating at all. It makes your relationship broken.