Do you feel welcome at mylot?
By ellyse2003
@ellyse2003 (1463)
Philippines
September 28, 2010 10:27pm CST
When I first joined here, I wasn't sure if I'm going to continue on this site. I was afraid to talk and make discussions here. I'm a silent type person and I'm not sure if I can coupe up with the life of people here....but then I decided to go on and have a try. At first I was enjoying reading others discussions. After a few days, I decided to create a discussion which many mylotters came to post a comment. I was happy and after that experience I was more confident because people who meets me for the first time greeted and welcomes me. I now feel more welcome and I know my comments are always welcome here. I feel free at mylot.
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20 responses
@ShepherdSpy (8544)
• Omagh, Northern Ireland
30 Sep 10
Can I ask are You new to being online or on social networking sites? When I got online first,for Me,the killer App was Internet chat through providers like AOL,I then moved on to IRC,and now such activities have developed into the social Networking sites such as facebook,and discussion sites like Mylot..I LOVE how people from all over the world can meet online and share common interests,and discuss them..coming from that background,there was never a feeling of being an outsider here..Your input on a subject under discussion is always welcome as fresh viewpoints can create new discussions,as opposed to those who simply chime in with "I Agree" or "I don't think so"..it's a case of "The more,the Merrier.."
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
I am new to a networking site like this. I didn't like to chat a lot since I don't really know on how to make friends online. I have friends on facebook but I don't really go there. The first reason I joined here is to earn, after a few months of staying here I was able to learn and I know I have a lot of things to learn, English is my secondary language so I need to practice a lot.
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
I have discussions here where I sometimes ask people on how tos or tips on money making online. I am a shy person, don't go to parties and celebrations so much, first thing I'm a vegetarian and I can't find any food to eat there, I wonder why they invite me if I don't have anything to eat. Just to annoy me with those meat dishes?
@ShepherdSpy (8544)
• Omagh, Northern Ireland
30 Sep 10
The thing about your online presence is,you can completely reinvent yourself..very shy people can undergo a complete change when they realise they're not being judged by physical things like their car,house,or income,as long as their personality comes through here.You can create discussions out of any subject,so if You're curious about something,or don't understand,just ask! There's always someone with a viewpoint or opinion that might help
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
Yes, I also feel free here at mylot. But, unlike you, I knew from the start that I could speak my mind freely here. As long as I did not touch some other people's nerves, I'd be okay. Sure, there are those who disagree with what you think, and some get rude, but, in the end, that's what a discussion is all about. It gets more exciting that way, I guess.
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
My second language is English that's why I feel like that. I am not good in expressing myself, I was afraid that people might mis-understood what am I trying to say but then people here also comfort you when other rude people tells you something bad about the discussions.
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
hehehe. Kababayan. Mylot is one of the best place where I can practice with English.
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
English is my second language, too, kababayan (countrymate?! is that the correct translation? ) but, there's a rule in the guidelines against trying to correct the grammar of other posts, so I think it's okay. And, yes, there are those kind lotters who do comfort you when someone tries to bash you.
MyLot is a good avenue for improving our english, don't you think? And, the more posts you make, the more confident you become, and the better you are able to express your self. So, go ahead and express your self! Happy MyLotting!
@silverglint (2000)
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
I was also a bit hesitant when I started with mylot. I would just post one to two liners as response to discussions. But then as I spend more time here, I was able to express myself more and I find that I am now able to make long responses without much effort. Its like being able comfortable talking with a friend. Most of the mylotters are really nice so it made it easy for me to be more open about my thoughts
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
When I first started here, I was glad that I registered and tried it out. There are many discussions that I like and I always talk to other people through my discussions too. At least, I can talk to many people as many as I like and meet new friends too.
@macdingolinger (10386)
• United States
30 Sep 10
Mylot is a wonderful place!i am glad you got more comfortable here today! That is great! I have found very little trouble here. Most people are courteous and kind. I also am careful which discussions I respond to though. If I think it could get nasty I don't get involved that has saved me a lot of trouble!
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
Yes I am. I am very comfortable to this site where I can talk to many people from different countries. They are very kind indeed. I do respond a lot on my discussions too, I don't want people think that I posted it and left the discussion. I love people here. This place is a great place to practice my English writing since it is my secondary language.
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
I think most of us with this type of personality, i mean being silent type, we observe first before we make a move. Just like you, i was unsure that the people here will welcome me. This will be the first site that a wide range of nationality that i will i be interacting with. So i did a few observations on how they respond to discussions first and how the post discussions. The posting of new ones were difficult at first so it also took me time to do it. It's just this lately i have been doing new discussions, when in fact i have been here for quite sometime. It feels good knowing that all of us are welcome here. No matter what our religion may be or our races are..all are welcome here. That's why i love going back to mylot!
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
From your post, you are saying welcome to me too. Yes, that's what I really do, observe and move on the right time. I don't want to feel left out on this site and people who wants to be my friend is welcome. I love this site, ill be here as long as mylot is here.
@fhems2010 (70)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
Hi.... have you try receiving payout in MYLOT... I'm just wondering if this system really works... I have been looking up ways on how to earn extra money.. and i hope this MYLOT is one way for me to earn extra money
@shaggin (72288)
• United States
29 Sep 10
Yes I think that mylot is great for everyone. I think its a very welcoming place because anyone can write anything they want. They can ask for advice they can tell about what they learned. Its awesome. Some people go out of their way to thank every single person that comments on their discussion but I do not do that. Mylot doesnt like that. They want discussions not just a thank you. The thank you people get for leaving comments is being paid. If I have something to add after someone leaves me a comment on one of my discussions then I write it but I never just leave a comment if all I have to say is thank you for responding.
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
It is so great that I met a lot of people. This site is a place where I can talk to other people and share my comments with them. I also see others here that only thank people about their comments. I love thanking people but, yeah mylot doesn't like that. I always leave a message whenever I can as long as I'm not only thanking them for their post.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
Hello and welcome to mylot.
Well,it's how newbie feels,same as i do when i was newbie here.
I don't even know what to do becoz the one who referred me here is not active,so,i don't have anyone to asks about this site.
Then,i just keep reading discussion,and later also tried to start topics and make friends.
Now,i never knew that i been here for a year and still enjoying this site very much.
I never felt bored here,and i always like having inter-action with other mylotters and still making friends with new ones too.
Good to know that you love mylot and enjoyed it here.
Have a good day always
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
i like here so much. The inter action with other people helped me a lot in expressing my self more effectively. This is the place where I can be able to practice my English writing here.
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
Yes. Mylot is the place where I can freely share my thoughts. Make friends with other people from different countries. I want to stay here as long as mylot is here.
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
29 Sep 10
hi ellyse!
i have look at your discussions and wow! you got more comments than the other mylot seniors i would say!
i felt so nervous when i first joined this site.i feel just the way you feel.and now i would say i love being here.even if there is other forum sites mylot is always be the top choice of mine.everyone is welcome here.
have a nice day!
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
I love being here too. If feel more welcome now that many mylotters are commenting on my posts. I don't know how did I get so much comments, I didn't expect it like that I only enjoy here and now I have many friends. happy mylotting.
@msdivkar (23359)
• India
29 Sep 10
Yes ellyse I share your thoughts fully. When I was new on the site I was taken aback to see the members here were having one is to one and personal discussions and it was very difficult for the new ones to enter such discussions. I was frustrated for some time but I feel home now. Thank you mylot keep up the reputation.
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
We really need to cherish mylot while it is still here. We will never know when will they change this site into some other programs. I love mylot.
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
The first time I posted here I though people might not welcome me but I was wrong, now I met a lot of people here. From Philippines to different countries. I'll be always here and I'll enjoy talking and commenting on new discussions.
@empire9186 (95)
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
I feel welcome at myLot. Its a forum that you wont get left behind. Just post to discussions and start earning like the others. Im also new here. No dollars but only cents. I know I'm getting there. You should go there too..
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
I always do that and sometimes I enjoy reading forgetting about posting...hehehe But at least I enjoy while earning.
@ismailzuper (38)
• Medan, Indonesia
29 Sep 10
Yes, it's true, I feel the same way you did. Everything that we enter for the first, we feel something different, nervous or something else, after that we will do better and better and feel comfort every time we get respect from others. Feel free and enjoy your life.
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
Yes. I agree, I even feel more welcome when people post on my discussions and thank me for what I have posted. Mylot is one way of expressing what we think and feel. Happy mylotting.
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
yes, i do feel welcome.. or maybe i just do not mind how other members would feel about me being here. its not that i know all people here.. but i do feel more comfortable and at home here than any other site because here in mylot... i am able to express me! :D
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
Me too. I thought I couldn't enjoy this site until I posted a discussion and people started commenting. I love it here so much.
@greenline (14838)
• Canada
29 Sep 10
You are certainly always very welcome. MyLot is a community of wonderful friendly people from countries around the world. MyLotters work together and cooperate with one another for mutual benefits. I joined the community over two years ago, and I am very happy that I did. I try to be acitve in the community as much as possible too.
Happy myLotting !
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
Thank you for that. Yes, people here are very friendly, and they always welcome a newbie which is good. I'm happy I found an online community like this which I can make friends and express myself freely.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
29 Sep 10
hi ellyse oh yes now I do and I also felt a little unsure at first but I have found that I have some of the most wonderful people on earth on my myulot friends list. So I have felt most welcome here and accepted by almost all who are here too. I am so glad that you now feel welcome
and more sure of yourself. You will always find almost all here are very helpful and welcomning to new comers and make all feel more at home here.
I am very glad that you got a lot of responses on your discussion as that will help you to feel more at home here too. welcome hugs from hatley.
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
Thank you so much. From what you said, I feel very welcome here. At home is a place I wanna be and mylot is now part of my home. Nice meeting you.
@bluemoonpavilion (4658)
• Singapore
29 Sep 10
Hi ellyse,
I am happy to read your post. I was like you too when I first joined, treading cautiously and a bit unsure of myself. Now that I have become more familiar, I am very comfortable here. I look forward to logging in each time, to hear from my friends and read responses on my topics or my comments. There are lots of helpful people here who will do their best to answer you, just ask!
Here's wishing you all the best and do start many more interesting topics like this one. Cheers!
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
Thank you. I was right about mylot. This discussions is one of the proof. I love staying here, I hope to make more friends here and help other people too.
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
I am addicted to mylot too. I even sleep 1 am in the morning just to read new discussions. I am enjoying here so much that I can compare it to my home laredy, I feel very welcome here.
@billmill2216 (23)
• United States
29 Sep 10
i kind of feel the same way you did when you first started. I started a bit ago and it takes me a while to even pick where to give my opinions because i dont know what people will think. I realized that people are pretty accepting here, and i am starting to get more and more comfortable with posting here
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
Welcome at mylot. People here are enjoying because they feel welcome too. We are all welcome to make money and to learn too.