Do you believe a relationship sometimes fighting is unhealthy relationship?
By mbeumagueD
@mbeumagueD (7)
Philippines
4 responses
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
30 Sep 10
It is case to case basis. If your fighting with your partner is being already a routine that you can't be able to solve your issues then that is already unhealthy. I am not saying that fighting is good but the advantage of it is that it makes your relationship stronger and only shows that you are not perfect couples. I mean there are other lovers especially women that are afraid to have argument with their partner for the sake of their relationship to be saved. They even thought that being quiet would be enough to end up the argument or fighting. But the truth is it is just becoming more complicated to the extent that they can't be able to settle it. For example if the woman was just being quiet to the wrong doings of man it has the tendency that man abuses it because it is tolerable for his partner that it is becoming the right thing to do until to the point that he can justify his wrong doings.
@lynnemg (4529)
• United States
30 Sep 10
I think that if two people get along all of the time and never disagree, one or both of them is lying. I say this because no two people agree on every little thing all of the time. I can't say that fighting is healthy for a relationship, but I will say that I feel that disagreeing about some things can be healthy. This indicates that each person is an individual and capable of having his or her own thoughts and feelings and does not feel the need to supress those thoughts and/or feelings simply to please the other. On the other hand, those couples who continually fight and argue about every thing usually end up resenting each other and find that they have little in common. I think that there needs to be a lot of agreeing, some disagreeing, and a lot of compromising to make a relationship a good one.