how many times do you have your heart broken?

South Korea
October 5, 2010 4:27am CST
In my case i CAN Say twice..lol well the first one is I am really young I was like 13 and they guy is 17 it didnt workout for us because were far away and the day after I accept him to be my bf we never got a chance to see each other the phone is the only communication we have..and then one day I just heard that he has a new girlfriend..haha it so funny everytime I will remember how much I cry... the second one is when I was 17 I been iN A Relationship for 3years yes I met him when I was 15 and he was 3years older than me.. but then one day he wanna break up with me coz I couldnt give what he needs(***)lol WELL iM SO happy I didnt do it..but becuase of that 3years being together I cried a lot too...after a few days he tried to get back to me then I accepted him but then I found he continue to meet her..and then I just separate and got a new man,,and proudly to say im still with this man for 4 years now..:)
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@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
5 Oct 10
I have few ex but I only really got heart broken by the first. I stayed in my room, locked myself in, and started crying for days and days and days.....many days. I met him when I was 19 then we broke up when I was 21 because he said he found someone else while being far away from me for many months. I didn't blame him, maybe he just wasn't someone who could hold on for many months not seeing his partner.
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• South Korea
5 Oct 10
yes thats true distance is a very hard opponent...anyway that how I broke my hate for the first time... but it is just a puppy love I think..but for your case..cheer up its better that you know hes cheating than to never knew it at all..anyway did you forgive him?
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@Ramaditya (1227)
• Indonesia
5 Oct 10
I lost a lot of girlfriends in my past, but I think I only got my heart broken once. It was my first love. Her parents did not agree to let our relationship to be continued. It was the worst broken heart in my life (2003).
• South Korea
5 Oct 10
awww..sometimes parents play a big part in the relationship..Im so happy my parents where not like that..to all of my relationship..maybe becuase We are really open to each other.. But thats ok Im sure by now you already move on?
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@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
5 Oct 10
I have my heart broken only once. Because I was love someone truly. But she never loved me. So when I get propose to her then she rejected my proposal and told me that she never loves me. So on that time I feel hurtled. But now I am okay because now she is very far from me. But I still love her and always waiting for her.
• South Korea
5 Oct 10
aw u got a good heart buddy..who knows maybe someday she will also realize thatyour the one:)
• Malaysia
8 Oct 10
I think i had my heart broken twice, first by my first boyfriend. He was an amazing guy but we seldom talk and in the end we broke up. We were too young and too shy for that kind of relationship. But never the less he is still one of my sweetest memory in high school. second was when i thought i was losing my partner because my parents did not approve and when we have big fight.
@khronus (10)
• Philippines
5 Oct 10
i have it once... but im having hard time to move on. i dont know why or still i love her, 7 months pasts.. i hate being like this thinking of her always everyday, day or night.. i cry a lot even im a man. (-_-) I wish that I can getover her. She broke my heart...
• South Korea
5 Oct 10
outch..I gues you have to go outside..and meet your friends..for me seven months is too long..specially if shes the one who broke your heart..all I can say is just wait..time is the best medicine..try not to cry anymore when you get over you only laugh to those days..where you look so nuts becuase of a not wotrh it person..so just wait and try to socialize
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@monmon20 (58)
• Philippines
6 Oct 10
i got my heart broken twice for the same man. he cheated on me... i asked him if he still loves me and said does but he loves the girl he is with more than he loves me. but after that the relationship ended and we got back together. after 3 years he broke up with me again without letting me know his reasons. we got into our last fight just because he left his phone. he said a side comment saying if you dont want to accept my sorry then dont.. i got really irritated then told him that he could not say sorry for another 5mins then he gives up immediately. he changed his number and had a new account in a social networking site. there was a girl who sent him a message in his old account. the account i knew his password. i felt something strange like there is something more. the girl said i hate you. i asked the girl why and told her who i was. i told her that i am a friend of the account holder. i asked her if she is his girlfriend and was she pregnant. the girl said yes she was his girlfriend and that she is not pregnant anymore. i am only 22 and i admit the i still love him. i dont feel any anger towards my ex or even the so called girlfriend. i am not even sure if the relationship is true or not. because i asked his friends and family they don't even know the girl. but the girl knows the names of his closest friends and family members. i am single now for 3 months and this month we were suppose to celebrate our 5 years anniversary. i miss him and i am still hoping. stupidity but i really don't know what i should do to gain him back or how i could move on.
• South Korea
6 Oct 10
I dont know what to say I think what he did to you is so painful.. but if we will look it in a practical way..honestly maybe you have to wake up! he did it to you twice and it sounds like he thank you for granted..yes you love him but sometimes love is just aint enough..stop thinking of him anymore you are like that for 3months now..and Im for the next coming months youll get over..just give yourself a time.. and stop contacting him anymore.. evryone deserves someones better...
• South Korea
6 Oct 10
goodluck hun:)
• Philippines
6 Oct 10
i have stopped texting and calling him. i feel something that the last relationship he had was just a lie. because i became friends with the girl and asked for her help. she promised to help me but when the day that we were suppose to go to his house i could not contact the girl. she left me hanging saying she had to attend to something important... i knew she was giving excuses only. my ex friend, ex boyfriend and family members does not know the girl. im really confused. i know i should move on but how should i move on when everything i did reminds me of him.
• India
7 Oct 10
Well I guess 13 breakup's I have had till now but they didn't hurt me much because I just had a crush on everyone there I didn't get that feeling of love for them but now I am in a relationship whom I really love so I don't won't any thing to happen between us and if it happens I will almost die..