Do you like fat girls?
By RamRes
@RamRes (1723)
Argentina
October 11, 2010 1:22am CST
Hi MyLotters
I'm thinking a lot about this matter. As a man, I like to watch girls, no big surprise. But I feel attracted by those kind of girls and women, who don't have the "perfect" shape and have some overweight. Those girls that sometimes may think that they're ugly or so, or simply want to have some a few less kg in their bodies. I sometimes see them and say to myself, "that woman is really nice", while I know that some friends may say "how can someone like her?".
The modern society in many ways stimulate this latter way of thinking, pushing girls to be more thiner and thiner than before, up to dangerous point to their healt. And that society dictates that that kind of womem are horrible. I'm against that.
Once, I've dates one such girls, that became my girlfriend for some time after. I really enjoyed being with her, not only because of her personality and our good relationship, but also liked her phisicaly.
So, I'm raising this question, what do you think about those people that have not so perfect bodies? Nice or not?
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18 responses
Who started that thinking that slim and thin women are beautiful. That made me trying hard to loose 10 pounds now, and I am afraid to say that I failed miserably.
@getbiswa2000 (5544)
• India
11 Oct 10
Come on. You really don't have to try so hard to loose weight. Life is too short to waste in all these things. The truth is that some of us think that thin people like Angelina Jolie are beautiful, while some others think a little overweight like Kate Winslet are the real pretty ones. And someone like me, would love them both.
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@RamRes (1723)
• Argentina
13 Oct 10
I'm single too, maybe we can date some day, let's talk by PM hehehe 
Back to the discussion, you've mentioned a great side effect of all this, those without that "perfect" body may become crazy to have it, and believe me there are many guys out there who will look at you saying how much they like you. The desesperation to lose weight only to adapt to the social standards is even worse than the real problem itself.
Really, try to be happy with yourself and whatever body you have :)
Back to the discussion, you've mentioned a great side effect of all this, those without that "perfect" body may become crazy to have it, and believe me there are many guys out there who will look at you saying how much they like you. The desesperation to lose weight only to adapt to the social standards is even worse than the real problem itself.
Really, try to be happy with yourself and whatever body you have :)1 person likes this
@getbiswa2000 (5544)
• India
11 Oct 10
Hi,
Men always prefer compatible. Now the compatibility doesn't always mean a genetic match here. May be you're not much health conscious yourself. May be you don't like people being obsessed about health as you believe that there are other more important things to pursue in one's life. This philosophy often influences your choice. May be you are more attracted to nice and charming behavior than a seducing body. The things you love most will be the same things that you would expect from your potential mate. Normally people who are deficient in some respect will try to pick up girls who have the related deficiencies. Not being in perfect shape is sometimes considered a deficiency, socially. But some people like you and me will consider personality, intelligence, kindness etc more interesting than physical traits. Sometimes you feel for someone who has a very specific flaw because you have that flaw yourself. The sense of compatibility is often originated by such form of empathy. Thanks.
God bless you.
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@RamRes (1723)
• Argentina
13 Oct 10
What an explanation!! great words. And very true too as I found myself acting like that in many ways. But also I may add that 100% compatibility is imposible, all us have differents behaviors and some match and some others don't. Life would be very boring if all partners thinked exactly the same as us.
On the topic of this discussion, I don't think myself looking and liking fat girls because I'm fat myself. I'm not perfect, not atletic or so, but not the opposite too. And those extra kg simply like me, they seduce me as much as thin girls do. At least, not consiently, I don't think looking the same body as mine, but one I like to stare at.
@mizcash (685)
• Canada
11 Oct 10
Who is to say who's shape perfect or not. society has deemed certain size more attractive than the other but, it is what the person like.Let me ask you a question "do you go to the store to buy bones or you go to buy a nice steak or meatballs"? People like meat on their bones. For those that wants to be skinny and dried up, let them and leave the fat girls alone, as long as they got their health under control.
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@RamRes (1723)
• Argentina
13 Oct 10
Sadly, the society tends to say "that is the perfect body she's nice, all others are ugly". And I tend to disagree with that, all us have a good and nice part, the right to be as we want and be loved.
Everyone has their own tastes about everything, and some may differ with what the society considers normal. So what's the problem, as long as we are happy?
@ivaylo2009 (973)
• Bulgaria
11 Oct 10
But here is the question not to buy something.Appreciate your response.
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@rosdimy (3926)
• Malaysia
11 Oct 10
There is nothing wrong with a fat girl except that almost everything related to her is bigger.
A physically bigger person requires a higher maintenance cost. Food and clothing are the obvious ones. The person exerts a higher wear and tear rate on things like the furniture, and vehicle.
Personally I do not hate fat girls. I prefer staying away from them because I could not maintain their lifestyle.
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@RamRes (1723)
• Argentina
12 Oct 10
That's only a very materialist side of things.
Yes, some things are true, but that in no way restricts anyone from being (or not) with a person. I will never choose a girlfriend based on how much she will cost me (and besides, the fact that she's fat don't make a big difference in the global cost of life). I can expect anyone saying that don't like the fatties because the aren't sexies (which is NOT true), but never because they're costly. Consider, they also work and helps pay the daily expenses.
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@rosdimy (3926)
• Malaysia
12 Oct 10
I was only trying to be realistic, not materialistic.
It cannot be denied that there are fat girls who are pretty. Many are cuddly. Maybe it is my luck, but the ones that I have met ate triple the amount that I did.
t is t rue that some of them work, but many expect the man to pay for their expenses.
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@jamzy_amor86 (182)
• Philippines
11 Oct 10
Hi RamRes! I appreciated it much when you said that you are attracted to ladies who don't have the "perfect" shape. Since I for one, is that kind of person. Though sometimes I felt bad when someone scrutinize me with the way I look. But I am really grateful that there is still a guy like you who looks at girls beyond what eyes can see. God bless!
@Royalty10 (196)
• Guyana
12 Oct 10
I hate that the supposed fashion icons define what is sexy and try to tell us that this is is the way we ought to look. I am happy to say that in my country, Guyana, guys actually like women with curves. If a person only find women attractive when they are curve-less or as we say in Guyana, not thick, maybe those guys really want to date another man. Women are supposed to have curves.
So my dear there is nothing wrong with you liking women with a little weight. That is usually a woman natural body structure, especially when she has passed her twenties.
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@RamRes (1723)
• Argentina
13 Oct 10
Hehehe what a rare thing that on Guyana, never eared of that. So I'm happy with that, as I like fatty and curvy girls, I'm supposed to like women and not men 
I'm feel good with my election. I look with pleasure at those girls and like them. But of course not all share my feelings.
I'm feel good with my election. I look with pleasure at those girls and like them. But of course not all share my feelings.
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
11 Oct 10
for me, it all depends on appearance the girl that's, though she did not have a good body (fat, for example), but if she can dress up which beautiful and always dressed matching, I think it will always be able to attract and become the center of attention
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@RamRes (1723)
• Argentina
12 Oct 10
Well, I agree, the dress and cosmetics can also make a big difference and turn many girls into beautiful women. Maybe, I was not as focused on that, as I tend to watch the fat girls regardless of the dress.
But let's face a situation, eventually, sooner or latter, the dress goes away :D and in those moments you have to like your girl too
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@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
12 Oct 10
Yes I like fat girls. Because sometimes I have met many girls who are looking fat but they are also looking very sexy. So I think I like fat girls because sometimes many fat girls also looking good.
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@loralie1106 (208)
• Philippines
11 Oct 10
For me it would be unfair to judge a person by how he/she looks. I appreciate you, your not the picky guy type. What is important is you like the person, not becuase she's hot and sexy but her whole human being. Not because a girl is fat is she's ugly. It is still in the heart where we can find true beauty
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@RONDOLAWE (774)
• Indonesia
11 Oct 10
to me nothing wrong with girl who has not perfection of body , we just said wow that girl so beauty and awsome but we can have it coz he so higher placed and female expensive but if we like some fat or women with a disabilities why not love is blind
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@kskumudha (50)
• India
12 Oct 10
I am a fatty and healthy girl. All my friends and relatives are very much jealousy on my cheeks because I have a cute chubby cheeks. So all likes me. I have a cousin sister. She is very very skinny. She has good structure but she not looks good and also she gets sick at least 4 times a month. I am very healthy. Rarely, I had fever but it gone off within a day.
@ivaylo2009 (973)
• Bulgaria
11 Oct 10
I,m also dating with girls with a few less kg but i don't like them because i,m slim nature you know the physique difference is a good reason to disapprove.But actually fat people can be perfect as a human,i mean as a character.Thats why i don't refuse them and take advantage from each possibility to date with them.
@amelialsc (162)
• Malaysia
11 Oct 10
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Now you can say you like the gorgeous girl over there, but after several years you will find her really unattractive because she is boring? she is not as intelligent as you or probably she has other guys around her? When you like the person, no matter what flaws she has or what she has become, you will love her and advise her to change for the better. Definitely the society welcome thinner girls as more attractive, but seriously said, all girls have their own beauty and you will never know how to be satisfied if you keep searching and being discontented with what you have .. =)
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@RamRes (1723)
• Argentina
12 Oct 10
Of course, when there is true love, everything else don't matters, you'll be happy with that person because you like her. And in that case, both will be happy, and don't care if they're not so perfect as society dictates. It's after all each one preferences the ones most importants.
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@kendrathil (308)
• India
11 Oct 10
Beauty is always related to one's aspirations. here are fat women who are so beautiful than the slim ones. Well, it depends on one's feelings.
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@chrislotz (8137)
• Canada
24 Sep 11
The size of a person doesn't make them who they are inside. I don't think there is anything wrong with you liking bigger girls. I know a girl, my daugher's friend, that is 5'0 and weighs about 300 pounds, she won't tell us how much she weighs, and she never has a problem finding a boyfriend. She doesn't think she is fat so neither does anyone else when they are with her. She holds herself up really good and is proud of her size. She always seems to find a new boyfriend when it doesn't work out with the last one.
My daughter, who is beautiful and has a great body, is friends with her and they go out together and she gets more attention from the boys than my daughter does. She exudes sexyness because she likes herself just fine the size she is and men see that. She exudes confidence in herself.
Cheers and happy mylotting my friend,
Chris 
@jnorton47 (49)
• United States
12 Oct 10
I like voluptuous, curvy, full figured women. I think big girls are sexy.
@andy77e (5156)
• United States
14 Oct 10
Ah middle of the road. I like girls who take care of themselves, but not skinny either.
Women are supposed to have curves. A flag pole does not have curves.
But at the same time, curves implies more than one. A beach ball has a curve... but only one curve.
I don't want to marry a flag pole or a beach ball. I just want a nice girl who takes care of herself. Beyond that, a moral, virtuous woman.
@blackhillsgold (88)
• United States
12 Oct 10
fat chick here.
see my response to a similar post from "Will you date someone whose obese?"
