When you and your partner....

I almost always worsen the situation by trying to repair it immediately in my own confused way. I am a great repair man though. I can make a woman hate me and within 15 minutes have her laughing and smiling again. We all have our faults, we just have to roll with the punches, so to speak.

Well, i tend to argue some more. But it only makes the situation worse. So, we just keep quite both of us. Then, we would start to talk calmly about the problem. We will try to fix the problem. Or the one who committed or started the argument should say sorry. So that everything will be fixed and no argument would arise anymore. It is really good that problems should be fixed rather than not talking at all with your partner. Because hearing out each side and expressing your feeling would help resolve the problem.

Every time my boyfriend and I argues on things, we settle it and we never let the day passed that we haven't talk about it. We really don't want the issues to become worst. So we talk about it and find some solutions of how we can change things when it comes to our relationship.

It's not a pleasant feeling when my partner and I argue. It does happen. We are only human after all. When I find myself in that situation, there has to be some time apart for my partner and I. When we have had time to reflect on what was said or done, we are better able to reconnect .

We try to fix our problem immediately. Although i can say that it's not really good because our tempers are so hot and our voices would really be very high and loud but we think that it's the best way to fix the the issue. We try to fix every problem on that certain day or time we had it, we don't want to let a day pass that we are not in good terms. It's just how we make things work for us..

My husband and I almost lost each other at the beginning of our relationship, due to some actions of his that were very selfish and hurtful. He has apologized a hundred times over, and is a wonderful mate now, but the hurt still lingers occasionally. The result is, we appreciate each other much more and realize that hurtful words could drive us apart. When an argument seems to be starting, we both realize that whatever the problem is (maybe we are tired or cranky or hungry) we cannot discuss the issue at the time without having a fight, so we put it aside and hold each other or do something fun, and leave the discussion for a time when we can talk without fighting.

My husband and I both used to continue arguing but over the past few months we have been working on our relationship and we have changed the way we do things. Now we try to sit down and talk rationally about whatever it is we are upset about. If we can't talk without getting upset we come back to it later. I do always want to clear the stuff up immediately though while he often wants to let it go and sometimes he doesn't even want to deal with it later.