Do you pretend everything is okay?

yes, i pretend that im alright though deep inside i know im not. theres an inner turmoil that i dont want to show the public. i prefer to keep silent.

I mostly hide my feelings unless I need to show them too. If I do show them, I usually tell them why I am upset as well. That way, they know the reason I am in a grumpy mood and most of the times, they try to make it right.If the misunderstanding has nothing to do with them, I put a smile on my face and pretend everything is alright, and deal with my husband later.

This is common in everyone life conflict or misunderstanding between husband and wife. My husband not trust on me and he feel I dont understand anything whenever I try to give the advise in anything like my FIL wants to purchase dining table I am telling glass dining table is good he is agree but my hubby said hmmm keep quiet you not understand anything. So I leave to give my advise. Dont worry solve your problem also.

I am close to my sister in law before because I don't think that she has an attitude. I always entertain her when she visit us but I notice that shes abusing our kindness to her. She always borrowing some amount from us, not just once but almost everyday and she promise that she will give it back until years pass and she still not giving back what she borrow, I just tell to my self its okay until one day I heard that she is telling some bad things about me in other people even I did not do anything on her. So now when she come here in our house and will borrow again, I close all the doors because I already start to hate her because of what she did to me.

Hi friend, My wife is the only daughter to her parents, so i don't have brother in law. My wife always gives importance to my brother and his wife, she always invite them with smiling face. She consider him as his own brother and my family is her own family, so there is no need to pretend in front of others