3years of relationship ends in Break ups

I was in a 5-year-and-a-half long relationship and even got engaged when I called the whole thing off. We both went on separate ways because of some differences that we both shrugged off in the earlier part of being together, but which became really apparent and couldn't be dismissed in the latter part of our relationship. It wasn't a nice break-up, and I think no break-up is nice, however it wasn't a nasty one. We're both civil and we didn't shout at each other nor had a very rough argument. We talked things through and agreed on ending the engagement and the relationship. There was no third or other party involved. It was our belief that was different, which made everything different. He's now happy with his new-found love, and I am happy with mine. We haven't seen each other nor talked to each other now that we're in different relationship but I know that we will still be civil towards each other.

hmhmh no actauly in my past bf,, i've been in experience only in 11 months ,,, and for me it is so hard to move ,,, and especially you had been encountered many obstacles in the relationship..,.,., and for me if i am in that sitation,., maybe i can move on in a years.,.

Well it is just normal to have misunderstandings, but not to fight on a regular basis okay. I have been into that stage as bf/gf and for 4 years of being sweethearts we have learned a lot from each other even if we are geographically far away during that time. Location can never be an alibi to break apart, nor does misunderstandings as long as both of you loved each other more and patch things up before it gets ugly. If differences are just the reason, well I don't regard that since we are of both different cultures and belief before, but because we have love, it overcomes the rest. Now I am 3 years married to my husband who is also my bf of 4 years and we are going to be in love for the rest of our lives because the love of God is the foundation of our relationship.

I have been together with my boyfriend for 2 years and 9 months, we had and have a lot of fights before. And he has tried breaking up with me a number of times, I think its because it is hard keeping up with me, I am such a stubborn girlfriend hehehe. I do not want our relationship to end after our third year, and I know it won't. Maybe it all depends on the couple, how they handle things.

I am in a 4 year relationship now and so far we are still holding on to each other..fortunately!! We always have petty fights and misunderstanding but we make sure we make up afterwards. It's not until we reached our 4 years that we keep on fighting and we have a lot of misunderstandings that it came to a point that not a week that pass that we don't argue. Mainly because we are far away this time and you know how hard a long relationship is. Good thing and i should thank God that he keeps our relationship really strong that no matter how hard the storm that pass us by, we still continue to be strong and stand up. Luckily we are still happy together even if we are apart :)

I've never been in that kind of long relationship.If I in your shoe,for sure.i can't move on easily.

I am currently in a five year relationship and although it is not perfect it is working nicely for the both of us. I was married for 12 years and ended up divorced, long story but he was not prepared to give up his single life. So it is difficult to let go, but in the long run sometimes when in the this type of relationship where as you just do not get along you have to learn to move on. Not an easy task but how can two people be so miserable all the time.

I never tried that one. But I just want to add my opinion about that scenario. For me, it's just a test.Since, you already reach years, they just want to test your relationship.

in a 5year relationship i did not get a meaningful impediment. i was happy still be able to share with my partner. we only make an agreement that we must respect, love and trust one another. and we try not to do violence in our relationship. in our emotional state is often not controlled and easy to anger but once we realize we're sorry and we apologize to our partner.