my terrible bad luck :( why ? :(
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
Portugal
October 20, 2010 9:57am CST
hi guys^^ today for first time my bf seemed really interested in dedicate to our relationship. said that now we can talk everyday bcs he knows a site where we can send unlimited messages for free. i went to register in that site that is called ulink in case you guys also need it and i registered and it didnt send the activation link to my cell. so sure it wont work for me to send messages to him. i was so happy bcs thought finally we could have near a normal relationship and now we cant anymore. i messaged people in that site to see if it works but im afraid it wont :( i feel helpless bcs so much bad luck everytime we try to do something to talk :( i feel sad really. what about you guys? how is your relationship? all ok? i wish so if i had number like pinas could send him :(
14 responses
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
20 Oct 10
no saphrina the problem is that he cant use his computer you know?^^ when he can use im sleeping bcs is too late here^^ and in good hour for me his sister is using the computer so he can only use his cellphone. and he doesnt have load now so thats why he told me a site where we can send unlimited sms for each other^^ but didnt work in my country anyway i messaged people from that site already so i wish that they solve that problem soon^^
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
21 Oct 10
You know sweetie.
I honestly wish you all the happiness in the world, but this i just cannot get.
My boyfriend is just as far and he make sure to have everything that is needed to contact me each and every day.
Never any excuses.
So, this i really cannot get at all.
I'm sorry, you may not agree with me, but i personally think you should move on.
Long distance relationships is hard work and it seems the 2 of you just cannot really get it.
I hope this will work out for you, but on the other hand i hope you get someone who really deserve you as you seem like a nice and sweet girl.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
21 Oct 10
thanks sweety^^ but me and my bf is all fine^^ these days he asked his sister and his brother to help him and he is messaging me always^^ even using much money but he doesnt care only to talk with me^^ im very happy^^ i guess when he saw maybe he would lose me he changed his mind^^ he is really caring and sweet these days^^ i just want find a good job and go near him soon^^ thanks for your advises and worry and the best for you and your bf^^
@cherryamor (227)
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
Hi,
Sorry about that.You can ask your bf to send you roaming sim from the Philippines.We have telecommunications that offer sim pack for loved ones abroad.He can send you text messages anytime for only 1peso. Im not sure how much it cost for each text message from you. And I believe call is just cents something per minute.You can ask him to inquire to our local telecmmunications for more rates info.If you both have Phils sim its sure that messages are sent and received.Just try to inquire:-)
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
20 Oct 10
aww thats a great idea sweety cherry^^ yes i will tell him what you said^^ im sure he will know what you are talking about^^ before i sent him a letter and he received it but he said he sent me a letter also and i couldnt receive :( did you ever send any letter to people from other countries? bcs im afraid he sends me that and i dont receive like before =( thanks so muchy for your big help^^ you are great^^
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
21 Oct 10
cherry these days he is always messaging me^^ even asked help to his sister and his brother^^ yes maybe he knows what you are saying^^ tomorrow i will tell him about that^^ yes he went to post office already and the guy said i would receive but many monthes already. so i wont receive for sure. i wish you worked in post office so could help me ahah^^ thanks so muchy for your advises you help me really^^ have a happy day too cherry^^
@cherryamor (227)
• Philippines
21 Oct 10
Hi,
Thanks for the appreciation. Im very sure he knows what Im talking about,he might like the idea. I never tried sending letter or package to other country. Just ask him to keep the tracking # so he can follow up in case you dont receive it.
Have a nice day!;-)
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
21 Oct 10
thanks so muchy ravend^^ im too happy^^ you are a big big help muah muah^^ my bf is being so sweet these two days paying much only to talk with me^^ so will really help if you can tell me that site then^^ i will wait for your pm^^ thanks so muchy really^^
gaiza maybe the site my bf told me can work with you^^ with me couldnt bcs my country :( but maybe with you can work^^ this site is ulink.com.ph^^ try to register and send message to your bf and see if it works^^
@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
21 Oct 10
You know what it is very easy for you to talk to him thru text if you want. Why don't you get a roaming number.This works like a regular sim. you can text him from there but you can not call, though but at least it is going to be cheaper and you can talk all day without spending much.
You can also try ichikka.com where both of you can text mobile phones using your computer of using pc texting anotherpc or using pc texting a mobile phone. all you need to do is to register , both of you.
I don't have a long distance relationship right now, but I used to gave. And yes, regular communication is very much important to make the relationship works. it is your only link to him...
Goodluck, Cat.
@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
21 Oct 10
I think it is cheaper. My sister is working abroad. She is in the middle east and is using a roaming number. Why don't you try to inquire about it first or better yet, ask your bf if he can get you a roaming number from the Philippines but possible to use in your country. He will have to send you the sim but I guess if it works, you'll both benefit from it.
Kids are ok. They have no idea whatsoever of what I am going through. As for hubby, I'm casting this matter unto God's hands...
Take care...
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
21 Oct 10
eureka in my country i dont know about a roaming number^^ i have no idea how much it costs bcs right now i have already my internet bill that is big and i have to pay all monthes even just working here in mylot^^ my net bill is almost 35 euros that in dollars i guess is 50 dollars maybe. so is pretty expensive. anyway about chikka we use it^^ but he has to spend money to answer me^^ he did that today and yesterday but i dont want him to waste his money everyday just for us to talk. i dont spend bcs i use my computer but he cant use his so he uses his cell and waste money. if chikka was free in both ways would be better anyway till now things are getting better bcs he is dedicating well to our relation^^ im happy for that^^ thanks so much for your advises and for wish me good luck^^ what about you and your hubby? how are things? and your kids?^^
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
21 Oct 10
How about your cell phone text message, there is no unlimited plan available? It will be better if you can text him instead of using ulink if you can get it work for you. It save you a lot of hassle at least, right?
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
21 Oct 10
there is not any unlimited plan in my country to send sms to other countries for free. sure if existed i would like to try that but sadly i dont know of any like that^^ anyway i will try my best to talk with him for a long time^^ we need time for us and we never can talk for long :( i wish that we could do that but that doesnt happen too often.
@apoljuice1 (730)
• Philippines
21 Oct 10
You can use Skype to talk to him over the internet or IM him. Schedule a time with your boyfriend and ask him to talk to his sister if she's using the computer. An hour a day is just one off the many hours she can spend on the Internet. Make sure he can help his sister understand that you guys don't get to see each other a lot and it. Skype is really awesome and you get to talk to each other and hear each other's voices. Yahoo doesn't charge for messages sent to cell phones. I'm not aware if there's a limit, but he has to at least reply to every 3 or 4 messages you send from ym. You're not charged for the messages you send him, although he will be if he replies to you through YM.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
25 Oct 10
I wish you all the best, my friend. I have no relationship and never involve to anyone, my friend. I hope I can find too...
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
21 Oct 10
Good to hear that your bf is trying to find ways to communicate with you. What me and my bf uses is skype for calling. But the thing is he can only call me when im online which is not everyday because i don't have a computer at home and i can't wait whole day for him to wake up because we too have different timezones. He doesn't have a computer as well so he uses is mobile to access skype. Sometimes we use ym with im mobile status so he can send me messages but i have to reply of course or else he will be blocked and that causes too much when i reply. Try to ask your bf if he can use skype with his mobile. I need to check that site you mentioned i guess and see if it works for me.
Don't say you are in a bad situation, because right now i can see that you are in good luck since your bf is now showing he does cares for you to the point that he is finding ways to have communication with you. Just have more patience for true happiness is coming your way.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
20 Oct 10
Wish you all the best and hope it will work well good for you.
Regards,
Thank-s
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
20 Oct 10
thanks so much for wish me the best^^ and all work good for me^^ i wish the same for you^^ you deserve to be happy also^^ you also deserve to find a gf that can make you happy^^ would be great right?^^ why dont you try to meet new girls?^^ you should really find one that can love and care for you^^ you shouldnt be alone anymore^^ find someone^^
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
20 Oct 10
I feel really sorry for you honey,Here is one more site, I antyou to try and see if u can send messages from there , I mean International messages,its way2sms.com, try it and tell me if it works for you , i hope it works for you , best of luck
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
20 Oct 10
jag thanks so muchy for your help^^ yes i will try that site and see if it works thanks so much^^ i wish it can work so i can talk with my bf everyday^^ we are already far from each other so would be great if we could talk everyday^^ that he said we can now^^ so im too happy^^ that way we become closer^^ and happier^^ he is so cute^^
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
20 Oct 10
yes i tried again^^ but the problem is that in my country i have less one digit than my bf has in his. and in that site doesnt let me put all digits you know. thats why is so complicated. anyway yes i wish i could find other sites where i can send sms for free and he can send also^^ like chikka but when he sends me to computer he has to pay. just me send to his cellphone i dont what isnt fair at all if we could message each other or call each other in skype for free would be great really
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
21 Oct 10
Don't feel depressed dear. Everything will soon work out fine. There are still several ways where you and your boyfriend can communicate. Just tell him that ulink doesn't work for you and you have problems connecting with it. He might suggest some other ways. I don't know if the Philippine sim card can work in your country if your boyfriend will enroll it in roaming. That's the best method I could think of as of the moment. If he gets a sim card for you here and enroll it in roaming you can just text all day! Hope your boyfriend will contact you soon. Cheer up!
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
21 Oct 10
yes toni thats a good idea^^ other friend of mine here told me the same thing^^ that if he bought that sim card and sent me we could text each other all day^^ im just afraid that i dont receive his letter. bcs before he sent me a letter and i enevr received it :( so im afraid he buys that and then i dont receive it. he received mine but i didnt receive his :(
@dellabanedz (123)
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
I feel sorry for you since you experience that kind of thing but think of it as a way on making your relationship stronger..ahehehe! maybe its just one of the things that will strengthen your relationship? I guess.. About mine..its okay Im happy with the person I loved and be able to smile always. There are some misunderstanding or little quarrels but we'll make up in no time. Anyway, goodluck with your relationship and hope you can send messages soon. ^_^
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
20 Oct 10
thanks so much^^ i dont know if can happen our relation stronger bcs we had many problems already^^ about you im happy that you and your bf are happy together^^ and sure is normal that there are some misunderstandings sometimes^^ and is great that you can smile always^^ thanks for wish me luck i wish you too^^ and yes lets see if i can send messages soon^^ i wish so^^
@kendrathil (308)
• India
21 Oct 10
Do not think always in the negative. Just be optimistic and everything will come to your side.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
21 Oct 10
i always try to be optimistic and things never go as i want^^ is not so easy that i can just think good will happen without do nothing. if we dont try things wont fall like people say. anyway i wish that i have luck soon yes^^ the best that could happen was me becoming rich soon ahah^^ so then could travel and see my bf ahah^^ would be great^^