did ur bf ask ur parents to marry u? did u ask ur gf father to marry her?^^

Asking parents or to inform about the relationship is a kind of respect and this is also a kind of good custom

yes sure^^ is more romantic also ^^ and sure i know that your country is traditional yet^^ you value family much^^ even some families all live together with father, mother, daughters, sons, the husbands of the daughters^^ right?^^ like all family in one house^^ that happens there right? at least i heard before about some families that are like that^^

yes sure it shows respect^^ im happy that you would ask your gf parents^^ but you would ask her also right?^^ before ask them. bcs she could be angry with you if you didnt ask her first or she couldnt want to marry. we never know. so you better talk with her first and then ask her parents if she says yes^^ thats what you will do right?^^

Yes we are away now. We are not yet sure when he will be coming back so we are hoping he can save money fast so he can come back really soon. I prefer not to get married yet because i want us to have a stable job first and be able to sustain a married life and stand on our own without the help of our parents.

sorry that you dont know when he is coming back =( i guess that makes you sad. anyway im sure he can come back soon if he can save enough money^^ in what country is he? sure is normal that you want to find a stable job first so then can handle your life without parents^^ i understand you^^ anyway you know if he is away why dont you also try to go to other country and earn more? a friend of mine that live in phillipines she went to an agency there in pinas and she found a job as babysitter in dubai and she will receive much money :) she is going to help her family. she will be there for 2 years and then will come back. why dont you try to see? bcs if your bf dont come back to you for now maybe you also could try to work abroad =) the agency pays your trip and all :)) you just have to pay your inscription i guess but i guess isnt that much :)

really gaiza?^^ thats cute^^ is sweet that he asks your parents too^^ but im happy that he respected you and didnt ask them yet^^ if he asked you many times is bcs he really loves you so much^^ but now you are away right? when will he come back?^^ anyway maybe you dont want to marry yet to save some money maybe for your future right? so when you have kids dont need to worry so much^^

yes i meant ask the girl first and then the parents^^ not the parents without ask to the girl^^ but i meant not just ask her^^ if ask to parents too is more cute^^ but just if the girl says yes^^ anyway the parents of the boy and the girl talk? thats good^^ that way they know each other better and the families can have a good relation^^

I think it's not that important anymore. what if the girl has no knowledge of the proposal and then all of a sudden the guy just proposed with out the girls knowledge. also in my country that too is becoming a trend.

pucca thats cute that in your country thats not a big thing^^ and that he asked only you^^ but in some countries thats important to ask parents too^^ is sweet but first he should ask the girl in a more romantic way ahah maybe a cute dinner ahah bcs just in front of the parents isnt really that romantic ahah^^ letran i didnt mean he ask just to her parents. i meant ask the girl and ask the parents. first the girl sure and then if she says yes he asks the parents too^^ just to be more cute ahah^^ but in your country that happens still right?^^ i think ^^

you never met your bf parents?^^ is ok^^ sure you still are young and have time to meet them ahah^^ is all ok^^ what matters is that you find love soon^^ you still have a long time to meet your bf parents^^ and about marry too^^ you are still studying right?^^ so yes you are a bit young to marry yet^^ im sure you will one day^^ with guy you love^^

thats cute that your parents and your gf parents had dinner together^^ and that her father said that when you finish college both can marry^^ even as a joke i guess he meant in reality too^^ but maybe is a bit early for you to marry bcs you are with her since only 6 monthes right? so maybe is a bit early ^^ maybe you should be together for more time^^ also maybe you should find a job first^^ unless your both families are rich and money isnt a problem for you both to marry^^

i see^^ thats great that you both are so rich^^ that way money isnt a problem^^ and you both can have a great life together^^ in india many people are not rich. can i ask you? do you donate some money to help poor people there in india? bcs if your father is so so rich he could donate a bit to help those people^^ i know there are a lot of poor people really but if you help some of them im sure they will be happy^^

Well we don't need to care about money as we both are born with a golden spoon and we both are rich enough and I don't need to find a job my father has his own factory and his own business which is now handled by me so I don't need to worry about money and even my girlfriends father is rich so she doesn't need to worry.......