parents want to force u marry person u dont love.u love other person. u run?^^

love kiss^^ - boy is kissing girl and she is feeling shy^^
Portugal
October 22, 2010 12:14pm CST
hi guys^^ imagine that your parents want to force you to marry someone that you dont love. you love other person so what do you do? do you accept your parents decision and marry that person or do you run away with the one you love?^^ about me i would run with the one i love^^ wouldnt let at all my parents force me to marry a guy i dont love. i would be unhappy forever. no way ahah^^ what about you guys?^^ please share^^
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aerous
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
24 Oct 10
That's really a bad idea, my friend. Because even if you run and marry a person that you don't love the result is breakup...I know some people in that effect and all of them are experience broken family
aerous
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
26 Oct 10
That is we need to be careful in choosing someone that being our partner in life. Because marriage is a sacred things and I do believe that marriage should not be violated because this is the will of God and marriage is divine
sweetloveforeve
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
24 Oct 10
is better to have a broken family than marry a guy that you will be unhappy with forever. for me i wouldnt care. if my family didnt like my bf i would still be with him. i love him and i dont care what others say. i know that my bf loves me and is with him i want to be with so i wouldnt care if my family didnt like him. i would tell them that he is good and try to make them accept him but if they made me choose my bf^^
mustafarox
@mustafarox (453)
• India
22 Oct 10
Well I am a mama's boy so I would accept what ever my parents say but I am sure if I say no they won't force and if they force me I wouldn't do something like running I would try convincing that the girl I love is better than the girl whom they are telling me to marry.....
sweetloveforeve
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
24 Oct 10
i see that you respect your mum and is good that you respect her^^ but if she wanted to force you to marry a girl you dont love you shouldnt accept that^^ you say that you would try to convince her that the girl you love is better than that girl she wants you to marry but imagine that she says you have to marry that girl. wouldnt you run away? would you do what she says?
mustafarox
@mustafarox (453)
• India
25 Oct 10
Well I would run away but I would be back after my marriage because I know if I get married then only for some time they will be upset from me but after that they will forgive me.....
goldeneagle
@goldeneagle (6745)
• United States
28 Oct 10
There is no way I would marry a person I did not love, unless she was extremely rich, and I would never have to work again LOL
jmayangcoF
@jmayangcoF (279)
• Philippines
23 Oct 10
hgmhmhm,, hi ,, friend,.,.,., for if i am in that situation,,, maybe ,i will not marry that boy,.,.,.then .. i will go to far place or to run to be with my love one.,.to look for happiness.,.
sweetloveforeve
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
24 Oct 10
hi^^ im happy that you wouldnt marry^^ it wouldnt make sense to marry a guy without love ^^ just bcs our parents wanted to. that would be crazy ahah^^ is great that you would go to a far away place with the guy you really loved^^ and sure look for happiness ahah you are a romantic girl^^ you deserve to find a sweet person that loves you^^
kendrathil
@kendrathil (308)
• India
25 Oct 10
It is really a difficult situation.
kerrina
@kerrina (104)
• Canada
22 Oct 10
RUN!!!!!! lol, my parents hated my boyfriend until i proved he was responsible!
sweetloveforeve
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
24 Oct 10
ahah you would run?^^ thats cute and romantic ahah^^ im happy that you showed them that your bf was responsible and that they should trust him^^ that way you can be happy with him^^ even happier now that your parents agree with it^^ is not good if we like a guy and our parents dont like him. anyway you really love your bf so i really wish he loves you^^
Ayeizsha
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
25 Oct 10
I would talk with my parents first and then tell them how i feel about them forcing me to do something i really don't like. I will let them understand my feelings firsts. If they really don't listen then that's the time i will run away with my real love. I don't want my parents to be hurt with my running away and disobeying them that's why i will try to talk with them first.