ur best friend loves a boy/girl. you love him/her also. what do you do?^^

if me and my best friend were in love with the same person... well... uh.. and that person loved me... i would be honest as well. i would let her know that we likes me. if she is dumb enough to get upset about it and not wanna be my friend, then its a friend worth letting go. if he liked her, then good for her and him. but i wouldnt try to mess up our friendship over it.

It depends on the situation. when i was in college, i had this real good crush on some one. but she has a boyfriend and i feel i didn't stand a chance on her. then, she had group with my classmate guy who is more hand some than i am. she like him better even though i like her too. but i chose my studies. now, seeing them with their complications, i was happy that i let him have her because i wanted to be free all along. now, he has no choice but to work because of their child. i happen to be a god father

I think i would be doing the same thing you would do. I would wait for the guy to say if he loves my bestfriend or me.Whomever he chooses then i would respect that. I will have to have a heart to heart talk with my best friend first to make a deal with her that whomever the guy chooses, our friendship will still remain strong and we have to respect the guy's choice.

hmmhhm for me.,.,.,.,.i always love him,, but i think i will give the boy to my friend ,,.,m,,even though if i love him,,,,, i will forgive my best friend.,.,and i will give the chance to my friend.,.,

Well it has happened to me as my best friend was in a relationship with a girl and he didn't knew my girlfriend properly and then me and my girlfriend were in a relationship and my best friend got a break up and then my girlfriend and my best friend became good friends and then my best friend fell in love with my girlfriend and after some time even my girlfriend started liking him as a friend and then my best friend wrote her letters and gave my girlfriend gifts and still that guy loves my girlfriend and sends her letters and all stuff and I don't mind till something is serious between them and I trust my girlfriend she would never leave me and like me even he is popular and has many girls behind him but unfortunately he loves my girlfriend and I can't do anything about that because my girlfriend cares for him and if something happens to my girlfriend I going to like separate his hands legs fingers from his body and throw it in all 4 directions....

Chances are, both you and the friend would be more than willing to step down to let the other one have a chance. If I loved this person I wouldn't generally make the move, even if my friend didn't like them too. - I'm not that great at relationships as yet. Also my best friend is a little bit fickle, so if he was 'in love' with someone I also was quite fond of, I would imagine he would quickly move on without too much hesitation.

How can you both be in love with the same person though. You can both have a crush on the same guy but to truly love someone you really have to ge to know them a lot in a relationship. Without that its just crushing or lusting so its unlikely you will both love the same person unless you are both having a relationship with him.

Nothing can ruin a relationship quicker than too many people being involved. We can't choose who we fall in love with. all we can do is love with our hearts. If a person is loved by two friends, it is up to that person to choose and destroy a friendship in the process.

Well... its simple ... we are guys and our DNA's are always the same . If my best buddy and me are in love with the same girl , i would understand the girl's feeling first and then take the next step. If the girl has feelings for me , and thinks my best buddy as HER buddy (only) , i would speak to my buddy and let him know my feelings for the girl and talk things out . Its simple . Unless and until we guys talk straight we don't get things straight ...! However, if we don't talk ... chances are we might be each others greatest enemies for life !

well.. I will give prefrence to my girl rather thn giving to my friends because i want..what I want. :)

well i always let the person i like pick. if they pick the other person then they like them more its not always about what i want but it should be what makes the most people happy.

Nothing wrong with a little confrontation... I guess telling your best friend the truth about having the same feeling with somebody he or she is longing, is true honesty and deserves true friendship... If the friend doesn't understand then it's not our problem anymore... truth will set us free happy mylotting!!

go ahead , maybe the time can tell you how will you do