someone give u 3000 dollars out of nowhere. do u believe his good intentions?^^
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
Portugal
October 26, 2010 8:31am CST
hi guys^^ imagine that someone lend you 3000 dollars out of nowhere. do you believe his good intentions or do you think he wants something else? for me would depend^^ if he was very rich and saw that i really needed the money and was my friend and gave me i would think he is very sweet^^ but couldnt accept. but if he still insisted much and was so so rich i would accept but always would appreciate and would be always his friend^^ but if wasnt my friend if was just a stranger that gave me that when we just met since like few days i wouldnt trust much. bcs give that much money suddenly is a bit suspect. so i would refuse. what about you guys? what would you do?^^ please share^^ 
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14 responses
@joimarquez (1836)
• United States
3 Nov 10
nope coz he probably stole it from somebody else and wants you to keep and when everything clears out, he'll come back and get the money from you...and you better have it or else...LOL
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
4 Nov 10
ahah do you think so?^^ 
you have a big imagination really^^ ahah so you better keep the money and run away then ahah so he wont catch you^^ so cant ask the money back ahah 
anyway is suspect sure if someone gives all that money but we never know^^ maybe his intentions is just help you^^ if he sees that you have money probs and he is very rich he can give you and help^^
you have a big imagination really^^ ahah so you better keep the money and run away then ahah so he wont catch you^^ so cant ask the money back ahah anyway is suspect sure if someone gives all that money but we never know^^ maybe his intentions is just help you^^ if he sees that you have money probs and he is very rich he can give you and help^^
@goldeneagle (6745)
• United States
28 Oct 10
Well here is my position on this issue. I would take the money, and I would use it in whatever way I wanted to use it, but after that, I would have no further contact with this person. This way, he could not expect something out of me because he felt that I owed him something.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
4 Nov 10
yes i see what you mean^^ but i wouldnt do that. bcs if you accept the money and then never see person again seems a bit like you are not thankful. at least i would like to be friends with this person if i saw that he just wanted to help. besides if was someone that likes to help others you would find that out by news or something. anyway sure if wasnt someone that likes to help and isnt known nowhere is normal that you wouldnt see this person again. that way couldnt ask you nothing thats true^^
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
4 Nov 10
yes i see what you mean^^ but no one offered me that^^ ahah would be good if a rich person offered that but thats impossible^^ anyway is like you say maybe to give that big amount is bcs maybe wants something back. so really better we didnt accept unless was someone good that just wanted to donate that money bcs didnt need it^^ that way we would be safe^^
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
4 Nov 10
no one offered me that^^ i was just wondering if people would accept the money or not^^ me i wouldnt accept unless was from someone so rich that just was donating money bcs knows that i need^^ otherwhise i wouldnt accept bcs is too much money and i would be worried in giving it back. so i would refuse if rich person offered that but if insisted and really didnt need the money i would accept and be always thankful.
@blackcloud (97)
• Philippines
27 Oct 10
I'm just being true to what will I say,o.k,for me it's really hard to believe those things giving you that much for nothing and not waiting for anything,hmmmm...i just can't imagine that,maybe his/her intentions may come later.That is what I see.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
4 Nov 10
yes i understand what you mean^^ that maybe sooner or later would show his/her true intentions. anyway maybe just wanted to help. imagine that near you is a very rich guy that has a lot of money. he sees your family has money probs he could give you that just to help you^^ if he had so much money maybe didnt need it and would be happier if someone could use it to have a better life^^
@louis6161 (92)
• China
27 Oct 10
I can not believe that some people can give me 3000 dollars without any reason, it is stuid if I beleive it.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
4 Nov 10
i know what you mean^^ yes is strange if someone wants to give you all that without ask nothing back. but maybe id was too rich and saw that you are having money problems maybe would just give to help you^^ sometimes people give bcs have much money so rather use it helping others^^ i guess it depends if the person has much money or not. and if wants to donate it^^
@tonyllenium (6252)
• Italy
27 Oct 10
ok not a problem!!You want give me 3000$ right now?i will accept ..when somebody want so much give me money i will take it i don't want he can turn into a big delusion..
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
3 Nov 10
ahah tony^^ i wish i had all that money^^ if i had i wouldnt need to worry so much^^ i could help my mum paying bills and even save it in bank^^ wouldnt need to worry so much with money^^ is good that you would accept but be careful^^ when people give much sometimes isnt good. but sure can be also good^^ and sure can be a delusion =( sorry that i cant give you.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
26 Oct 10
I would indeed be leary of anyone wanting to give away this much money to me without a specific reason. Most people are just not that generous. i would not accept this money without further research into the situation. i would want to stop a problem before there was one.@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
3 Nov 10
yes thats normal that you would want to see the situation first^^ isnt normal that someone comes and just offers us 3000 dollars without a reason. anyway if that happened to me i would think that person is so sweet^^ but sure could also be a trap. also i would feel bad to accept that much money. i would only accept if the person was very rich and didnt need that money really.
@umabharti (3972)
• India
27 Oct 10
hi, some people wil be tat they do some thing like giving money however no bad intention in them just to help or make someone needy to be in good terms.Many in this world are there such human beings who do gve away money when asked by the needy no matter theya re rich its a human thng.Some do help without the needy person having any knowledge about tat.so as u said it depends.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
3 Nov 10
yes there are good people that give money without expect nothing back thats true^^ and sure some people are not even rich and give money anyway^^ those are even greater bcs they also have difficulties but give from the little they have^^ i admire those people^^ i also admire rich people that do that :) that means they have a good heart^^ they could save all the money for them and they dont do that^^
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
26 Oct 10
$3000 out of nowhere and for no intentions in return or what so ever.. That is really unbelievable.. No one would really do such stupid things nowadays. You are right, if its a stranger and would just give you that amount that is very suspicious that man might doing something illegal that is why he would like to hide his money to you and then now you will be blamed for that. Such a terrible thing might happened. But if its a friend and would do such thing to me I would accept it, but think it as a loan and I'll gonna give it back as well.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
3 Nov 10
ahah i didnt think in that what you said^^ yes maybe he would give that to blame you for a crime that he did. that would be too bad really. but sure if was a stranger giving it it could be any reason. people that win much money dont usually go and offer a big amount to a stranger^^ unless know that person and know his difficulties and decide to donate^^ and that would be sweet sure^^ is good that you would give it back to your friend but if he gave you that is bcs isnt expecting you to give it back =)
yes maybe he would give that to blame you for a crime that he did. that would be too bad really. but sure if was a stranger giving it it could be any reason. people that win much money dont usually go and offer a big amount to a stranger^^ unless know that person and know his difficulties and decide to donate^^ and that would be sweet sure^^ is good that you would give it back to your friend but if he gave you that is bcs isnt expecting you to give it back =)
@hati3kuro (269)
• Malaysia
27 Oct 10
have u ever watched an Oprah program called "Pay it Forward"? My first guest would be that man participating in it... lol
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
3 Nov 10
i heard about it i guess^^ is it about some group of people that have to use much money and try to make events and stuff? if is that one i heard it already^^ so would be that guy why? bcs he is the one donating all that money? ahah yes i guess that everyone would like to receive much money^^ but is too hard to find someone that can lend us money without ask nothing back^^
@dollar3235 (2062)
• India
26 Oct 10
It completely depend on the situation, if I am in need and I feel that the money will help me to get out of my difficult situation. I will certainly accept the money and once I am at the right position of my career, I will certainly return the money. However, if someone is offering the money just to show that S/he is at a higher position, no matter what, I will never ever accept the money. It is easy to accept money from strangers but not from the friends who have inferiority or superiority complex.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
3 Nov 10
yes sure^^ is cute that you would give it back when you had a better career situation^^ anyway i dont think that the stranger would want it back or wouldnt give you^^ a friend doing that to show he has more money? that would be too stupid. sure you wouldnt accept neither anyone i guess. that would be really too stupid. and that wasnt a friend for sure. was just someone showing he is the best bcs has a lot of money.
@jajamasorong (163)
• Philippines
26 Oct 10
Well, refusing thy blessings is bad ;)
I wouldn't let the opportunity slip away.
Infact, a fellow Filipino OFW help me set up my blog. It cost him around $100 and he also upgraded my account in a site gave that cost $25. And what did he ask for? $125 USD by the end of June. :D But what did he do? He didn't charge me at all. He actually made my birthday as an excuse for me to not pay anymore! ^_^
He's really an angel from heaven. The people I wouldn't trust are those giving candies... Yes, sweet candies to little children and then they'll put those children in dirty dark vans and then they'll suddenly disappear. :)
Hope this counts!
-Jaja
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
3 Nov 10
so i see that he didnt charge you nothing^^ he helped you for free totally^^ thats very cute what he did for you :) is true that sometimes strangers can be sweeter than other people^^ is very cute what he did for you and i wish that you always stay his friend ^^ what he did for you not everyone does. he did it all for free^^ i guess that he never really wanted you gave the money to him^^ thats why he said is your birthday present^^ as an excuse to dont accept the money back =) that guy is amazing^^ i wish i had a friend like him^^
@linknodes (33)
• Philippines
27 Oct 10
I wouldnt accept it because nowadays basing on the statistics record the scam cases are increasing enormously woot! and people giving without expecting in return are very very rare! also I've seen lots of videos of trick cases, the victim are usually girl. Becareful always because nowadays their are lots of evil lurking while angel are very very rare. =(
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
3 Nov 10
i guess you are right^^ is true that someone could use a bad trick to catch innocent girls. is true that angels are rare. angels are those very rich that help without asking nothing back. and that dont say they gave when give it^^ or if say dont publish that on tv. anyway we all should be careful sure if someone gave all that money. if was a good intention wouldnt be a stranger giving. unless that stranger knew your situation and pity you and was very rich and donated to help you^^ that then yes is possible to be with a good intention^^
