u have a bf online and meet him near. are u afraid he doesnt like u when see u?
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
Portugal
October 27, 2010 4:44pm CST
hi guys^^ 
imagine that you have a bf/gf online^^ and you will meet him/her near^^ are you afraid that he/she doesnt like you when he/she sees you? about me im a bit afraid that my bf when sees me near changes his mind 
i didnt lie to him about myself^^ and he knows im a bit fat and saw my face already^^ and he says he loves me for who i am^^ but still im a bit afraid that he changes his mind. i know im silly but im afraid a bit^^
what about you guys? would you be a bit afraid?^^ please share^^ 
imagine that you have a bf/gf online^^ and you will meet him/her near^^ are you afraid that he/she doesnt like you when he/she sees you? about me im a bit afraid that my bf when sees me near changes his mind i didnt lie to him about myself^^ and he knows im a bit fat and saw my face already^^ and he says he loves me for who i am^^ but still im a bit afraid that he changes his mind. i know im silly but im afraid a bit^^
what about you guys? would you be a bit afraid?^^ please share^^ 1 person likes this
5 responses
@misheli (552)
• Philippines
28 Oct 10
I wont be afraid because he if he really loves me then what ever look I've got he will accept me. If after meeting each other he will not like me then I should be thankful because I know that he is not the right man for me. If you really the the person you will accept him/her for who they are.
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@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
30 Oct 10
yes you are right misheli^^ but i would be very hurt if i met my bf near and he didnt like me. but i already told him how i look like and he saw me also so he knows how i look like and loves me so^^ maybe is just my insecurities^^ and me sure i love him and accept him as he is^^ i love my bf^^ and all i want is meet him soon^^ he is all i want^^
@craigy123456789 (1759)
•
27 Oct 10
no not affraid, it's there loss if they don't want me. I may not like her but personality is more important than looks
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@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
30 Oct 10
yes craigy i understand you^^ is true that personality is better than looks^^ but i think that also is important to have chemistry^^ but i guess that if you see person in cam and feel chemistry or attracted the same will happen in reality^^ but sure if you see only a pic and then see near is different sure. some people look better in pics than in reality and other ones look better in reality^^
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
28 Oct 10
hello cat,
This is very timely my dear 
My bf is coming this November and yes i admit that i am a bit afraid,nervous and excited.
But the fear is overpowering that he might change his mind when he saw me 
Well,do i look ugly dear ? (huhuhu)
Have a good day always
My bf is coming this November and yes i admit that i am a bit afraid,nervous and excited.
But the fear is overpowering that he might change his mind when he saw me
Well,do i look ugly dear ? (huhuhu)
Have a good day always@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
30 Oct 10
hi sweetie :)for sure you dont look ugly^^ he will come this november?^^ but i thought that you got out of your wedding for a bf that was near you^^ you have kids also isnt? so now you have a new bf that didnt meet near yet? im sure that he will like you bcs you are a good girl^^ and is so cute that he goes to see you^^ i wish that my bf could do the same for me^^ would be so romantic^^ have a good weekend^^
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
Don't be too afraid. If your bf really loves you then for sure he will love you no matter what. You're just being paranoid because you haven't met him personally yet, but for sure he will love you for just the way you are. 
If i have a bf online, i too wouldn't lie to him about how i look and what my physical appearance may be. If he really loves me then he will not change his mind after seeing me personally.
If i have a bf online, i too wouldn't lie to him about how i look and what my physical appearance may be. If he really loves me then he will not change his mind after seeing me personally.@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
30 Oct 10
ahah yes maybe im just being paranoid^^ he says that he loves me for who i am^^ and he saw me already^^ but still im a bit afraid^^ anyway if he did that i would be too hurt. im working to go see him and if then he didnt love me i would be too hurt. anyway i wish that that doesnt happens^^ also i dont know if i can still see him or not. is needed a lot of money really.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
30 Oct 10
yes i think you are right^^ anyway about me i always told the truth to my bf^^ he thought that i was thinner than him while we were still friends and i said im not^^ i wouldnt lie. i said to him a bit fat^^ so he already knows. anyway he said that he loves me for who i am^^ and about my face he already saw it by cam^^ and he knows how i looks so^^
