Why getting MARRIED is necessary ??

@Karunvig (714)
India
October 29, 2010 10:58am CST
Is it necessary to get married, if u have bf and happy living just like that OR u dont like any one and want to live alone till the end of life... Specially in India if one is not married then people point of the person and make life tough for him / her... what u think guys u living in India, will be necessary for you to get Married ??
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@Royalty10 (196)
• Guyana
1 Nov 10
I think you ought to do whatever makes you happy. Life is too short to live by other people's rules. There will always be some people who wont like what you are doing but the only way to live this life without regrets is to do what makes you happy and at peace
@Karunvig (714)
• India
1 Nov 10
yh rite.. Marry if u feel that u will be happy after that and be single if that makes ur life beautiful !!
@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
30 Oct 10
I'm also not living in India but this topic does interests me. It is a choice to get married, anyone can decide to never get married as well. As for me, my partner and I really love each other and we just want to achieve a lot of things in life together, and being married is one of it because we really want to have kid. We want to run a business together, we want to have our own family to cherish and to go to holiday together. But we will never do all that without being married because we will me be more responsible to our achievement if we are officially married. We also want to get married with each other as an assurance that we will be together for better or for worse, and it is also a respect to our relationship.
@Karunvig (714)
• India
30 Oct 10
true... If u have that much f guts tht u can live without ny support and knw hw t shape up the life easily then n use and shld nt be frced to get married with... Just live happily and enjy the life :)
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
30 Oct 10
I am not an Indian either but i still do believe that one has the power to get married. It's an option and a choice for a person to get into a married life. I don't see anything wrong with getting married, as a Catholic, it is one of the seven sacraments and i believe in its holiness. So if a couple really love each other, why not get tied and bound by marriage in the eyes of God?
@Karunvig (714)
• India
30 Oct 10
i am nt sayng tht getting married is a crime.,... I just want to tell that NOT getting married is not a crime.. thats it !! Let ppl live their life happily and the way they want to.. some times enter of a person creates problem and have problem in relationships.. !
• Philippines
30 Oct 10
hello karunvig! I am not from India but i think you're not the only country who thinks like that. I mean, looking queerly at those individuals who opt to be single for the rest of their life. For me, getting married is not necessary if you are much, much more happier being single. You see, marriage' goal is to pro-create which is the mandate of the Lord God. However, i don't see any law, sacred or man-made which condemns people who are single and happy. That is one of man's choice, his freedom to choose blessed singleness or be married. Unless you are the only heir to a kingdom, for which you must actually marry and produce offspring to continue your lineage, nobody can force you to do something you're not happy with, whether you live in India or anywhere else in the world. As it is, our world is already over-populated. remaining single and celibate (thus this include? lol) would do the world less harm i guess.
@Karunvig (714)
• India
30 Oct 10
well u can give birth without marriyng also :P lol.. yh thats true one can remain single and happy life time :)
@Sanitary (3968)
• Singapore
1 Nov 10
There are different culture and customs for every country and religion. To many, marriage is the start of a new life with the person we love, and it's complete when there's a baby in the house. That's the perception for many people regarding life, and being alive means a must to get married. I don't know about the others, but that's what i think as well. I want to get married, have a good husband by my side, knowing he will be with me forever. Nothing beats being loved and cherish by the man we love, and having children to accompany us til the get married, have a smooth future, and the cycle goes on.
@ipenk1000 (207)
• Indonesia
30 Oct 10
Yes.... all people have the right to marry and live happily with people we love..
@Karunvig (714)
• India
30 Oct 10
I think thy r happier if thy dont get married to anyone... not all remain happy if thy are married... its luck destiny and lots other things matter which is their in the hands of man
• United States
30 Oct 10
Well, you could do what Gene Simmons has done. He has a common law marriage. No real strings attached, even thought he has been with his lady for several years and they have two or three children together. Marriage is a choice.
29 Oct 10
I don't think its necessary that people should get married if they love each other, You don't need a piece of paper and a ring to prove you love someone and to prove that you are going to stay with them. Alot of people nowadays live together and have children but don't marry each other, just live as a couple. I am married myself but thats mine and my wifes choice. Some are just as happy being single... each to their own choice i think.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
29 Oct 10
Marriage should never be seen as a necessity. it should be something we want for our lives. Obligation to marriage will not bring us true happiness. It should be a willing commitment from ourselves to the one we love.
• United States
29 Oct 10
I would imagine that if it was a requirement in ones country then people can determine if it is fair or not. But as a person who lives in a society that does not judge us as to whether or not it is necessary then I say again, totally a preference. I have seen married and non-married people, so as long as they are happy their character should not be judged by such.
• Portugal
29 Oct 10
i dont live in india but im sorry that in india a boy or a girl that dont marry has a hard life to marry or not is our decision and other people shouldnt judge us. sure i want to marry but those that dont want i dont judge them. imagine you didnt find right person in your life? will you marry just for marry? sure not. we should marry when we want to and find right person. also they can find right person and dont marry. is their decision and is all ok^^ we all think differently and deserve respect.
• China
30 Oct 10
hello friend.above all, i want to ask you a question. who will you consider when you come to a bad thing ? human has his or her own feeling in the world. we need to protect someone or be protected by someone in our life. no matter who you are . so marriage is a best way for this. so divorce is general in the world. but we will cannot forget one when we live together so long time after marriage. so this is what i think .
@Jiabsa (511)
• India
30 Oct 10
If we won't marry we will fall in sin. So we should marry. Whenever we get marry our live become meaningful. We have to live for somebody. Otherwise our life will be a big waste. We get special care and love from our better haves. That kind of love and care are impossible from our parents. We also get special gifts from heaven...Do u know what is that gift? Children..........Yes, children are the special gift of God - when we become father/mother our life become more meaningful.
• Philippines
30 Oct 10
For me it is just for formality and stating that you are committed to someone for eternity
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
I am not from India as well but I give my two cents for this discussion. No matter what status you are in life you still have responsibility but then of course the degree varies. Choosing a married life also had a lot of advantage as well as being single either way has its down side as well, some people prefers to be with someone and choosing to love the person for the rest of your life. Its not an obligation to get married but sometime you need to show your feelings with actions, hope you got what I meant.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
29 Oct 10
it's not written anywhere as far as I know that yyou have to get married. it's ok as long as you don't want to do it and prefer living single. the thing it's that as humans we're social animals, we feel the need to interact with other people and it will be pretty hard if you don't have anyone around to talk to when you grow old. personally i would like to get married and have a family...I wouldn't like to stay single for the rest of my life
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
Yes I believed that to get married is Important in a relationship to get married rather than living together without commitment or knotting a tie.I f you love a person then It time for you to ask her hand to be bless by god.Before setting up a family I think its crucial to get married.