Being SIngle is KOOL...

@Karunvig (714)
India
October 29, 2010 11:02am CST
No coomittments... NO heartbreaks and aches, still we find sum1 who can hurt us and crush our dream and emotions.. we know the result and still get committed... what you think... Being single is not cool ?
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10 responses
• United States
29 Oct 10
Not quite sure if many can construed it as being cool. It is a choice and preference for those who want to be single and for those who do not. I enjoy being in my committed relationship, although I have been single before and while it was good at the time, I am glad I am with my certain someone.
1 person likes this
• United States
30 Oct 10
I have a boyfriend, but we aren't getting married anytime soon. It's just a cool relationship.
@Karunvig (714)
• India
31 Oct 10
Good ot have a boundation free relation... ur single and committed too !! the best relation one can have...
• Philippines
4 Nov 10
Being a single gives you a lot of time for yourself and your family. But it can be lonely whenever you need someone to take care of you. Of course, your mother is there but of course they will take care of you because she is your mother. Single can be cool, there is no person will try to control you over your decision and all, but not all the time. there are times you will think there is someone beside you to look after you, to be inspire and to help you. Maybe it depends on how you think about your life. If you are single just make the most out of it and try to be live a life with substance.
@rexrevol (328)
• Philippines
1 Nov 10
I actually posted a discussion regarding being single as well. I cannot say it is cool. I cannot say it is not cool either. It's all in one's perspectives. So I'd say it can be both. ^_^
@mspitot (3824)
• Philippines
31 Oct 10
It depends on the person on how they manage themselves. I'm happy that you are enjoying you lie as single.
@Sanitary (3968)
• Singapore
1 Nov 10
Being single is cool, but at the same time lonely. WHen one is in love, at least they have been in a relationship before and they owned it once. But for a single, when they happen to meet man of their dreams but he's already attached to another woman, it's more than heartache for singles, as they can only see from far yet not being able to love them physically. Being single faces alot more heartache than being involved in a relationship.
@vandana7 (101028)
• India
29 Oct 10
I like being single. I dont have any commitments, any fears. I can sing as loudly as I want, I can eat whenever I want, I can sleep whenever I want. I can spend on whatever I want. Its just great!! Only one problem, when I get sick, I need somebody - :( Not that it is guaranteed that I will have somebody if I get married, because spouses can divorce or die, and children might prefer to leave me in some old age home. Weighing all pros and cons - I still feel being single is better.
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
30 Oct 10
You may have a point, but being single for me also has a disadvantage. You can't feel being loved when you are single. At one point in your life, you will be feeling lonely and sad. I have felt being single and honestly i have also said that i wanted to stay single if being in a relationship would hurt me in a lot of ways. But i realized that being in a relationship is much more happy and full of life and color.
• Portugal
29 Oct 10
i dont mind if i get to be single again as long as i have a guy that loves me and i love also. i cant be without love. i always need to love a guy or be loved at least. maybe is crazy but without love i really feel lonely. i need to feel that is a guy out there that im important too and loves me so much^^ but for now i didnt want to be single but maybe i dont have other choice bcs my bf is making things complicated
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
29 Oct 10
it's not about if it's cool or not. we know what might happen (that we might get hurt) but we still hope that this wouldn't happen to us. you feel the need to have someone that would support you, sure you'll say that hey I have friends I have my family, but someone who loves you it's more than a friend. anyway from my point of view it's better to be single that to have a relationship with someone who doesn;t care for you and hurts you all the time