Relationship = Glass

yes i agree that is hard to make a relationship start again when it ended before. but maybe you can fix that relation if what made you break up wasnt that serious. if one of the people cheated yes maybe try again is a mistake. we are not sure if person will cheat again or not. but if was bcs of other reason like have to travel, or a misunderstanding can try again^^ you lose nothing by trying again^^ and if you let the chance escape you never knew what could had happened^^ so i guess it depends of the reasons for the break up.

ai agree with you but what do you do when you still love that person and he tells you he/she's sorry. will you have the power to tell him that you won't give him another chance? I don't think I could do it

That is not always true. Some relationships last forever it just depends on the people.

Some relationships can be compared to glass. some should not even be trieed to repair. Some are worth saving. You just have to take care that you are saving a broken relationship for the right reasons.

You know I had a few mixed feelings upon reading your discussion but after the several comments I have to admit I agree with you. As I have had my share of breaks in relationships but no matter how much I tried to return back to my wonderful life with the person, it truly never worked. I think my brain somehow preserves some form of ill feelings so a slew of mixed feelings still generate and although attempts could be made there truly is no way to get it back the way it use to be. As when and if you break anything glass and you find a way to mend it, at first chance you hit a bump and or loud thump, the glass shatters and next time harder than before. Same as how I see this with relationships my friend. I gotta hand it to you, you certainly make sense.

I believe all relationships can be restored. And it always depends on how deep is the reason for the "brokenness" of the relationship. It is easy to say forgive and forget, yet what's happening is just the forgive things, so i say. But definitely, there is no frogiveness if you can still brought up the easy even after years of that situation.

As a human being we arent perfect, that in every relationship there would sometime be a disagreements unless remained unresolved its difficult to mend. Nonetheless, the ability to forgive as well has its own limitations depending on the degree of the dispute. Trust is the most delicate thing that need to be taken cared for as much as you wanted to be trust worthy. Every choices made must be considered as what the consequences it would make, just make sure that before we let go, we would never regret what we decided on. Happy mylotting!

I don't know if i would agree on you on this. You see, i have broke up with my bf like for real and we end up being with each other after a few days. I think it depends on how the glass was broken, and how strong the foundation of the glass is. It may fall but will not be broken because the glass has a strong material and was being caught by a mat or carpet on the floor so it didn't actually hit the solid ground. Get my point? hehehe... Just like a real relationship, if the foundation is strong it won't break easily. And when it does break, you can still get to have the pieces together because it hit the carpet causing it to break only in big pieces.

Honey. It's just likebroken glass. But the saying goes. It's better to leave broken glass on the floor, then hurt yourself picking up the pieces. I hope everything goes well for you darling. Best of luck.

there's always two ways to view life..and all that encompasses for that matter. You could try to view it pessimistically or with optimism. As you have said, relationship is like glass. You are correct when you said that once it is broken, it would be hard to rebuild it again. If you will try to paste or glue it to one another, the glued ends would surely show, marking the otherwise smooth surface of the glass. How about if if you start from scratch? have the glass melted so that you can build another unscathed glass from it? just like in a relationship, you can try to go on and continue where you've left off, or you can rebuild your relationship from the very start. How?erase everything and start from the very beginning, start fresh and anew. if you really love the person, why not take the second chance at love again?

Yes, that's what i think as well. When a relationship has been broken, it's no longer perfect and no matter what they do, the scar is always there within us, though it can't be seen. Scars and wounds can fade away with time, but we can be reminded again if something triggers it. How can we possibly face the very same person whom lied and hurt us before?