if you dont see your lover for one day you miss him already?^^

Portugal
October 29, 2010 12:21pm CST
hi guys^^ imagine that you dont see your lover for one day^^ do you miss him already?^^ about me i miss my bf always^^ bcs we are so far^^ i wanted to go out with him^^ be near him^^ but i cant i really wanted we saw each other soon and im working for that^^ i will work hard to go see him soon^^ but right now things are not great between us :( i dont know what will happen really. but i love him. what about you guys?^^ if you dont see your lover for one day you miss him already?^^ please share^^
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@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
30 Oct 10
Im already used to always not seeing my bf everyday. And even so that's our case, i still miss him every single day that we are apart. Even if we get to talk on the phone almost everyday, it's still not enough for me not to miss him. It's just different when he is near me and when he's far.. I wish we can see our bf's soon.
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@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
1 Nov 10
Believe me, i have been in that stage of feeling him not having time for me. But what i did was simply understand him even more and understand his job too. We were fine after all the sincere talks and open communication. We find time despite our busy lives now..
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• Portugal
3 Nov 10
yes^^ i understand^^ but you are together since 4 years^^ and you saw him near you before get distant. but me and my bf never. we always been distant. and now he never has time for me. is two days we dont talk. i didnt receive any message from him. also a friend of mine filipina said that is only 20 pesos in a netcafe to come online. so he could do that even if his sister uses computer at 6pm till all night long. we could talk like at 10pm in pinas or something. he can find a way if really cares.
• Portugal
30 Oct 10
yes i understand^^ he works far from you so is normal that you dont see him always^^ anyway i wish that soon he finds a good job near you^^ and sure talk on the phone almost everyday isnt enough but at least you are sure that he loves you^^ thats what matters^^ about me i wish to see my bf soon yes^^ but sometimes i feel that he doesnt have a space for me in his life. he is always too busy for me so things are not great like always
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@sender621 (14894)
• United States
30 Oct 10
When we are in a romantic relationship, we can always miss the one we love. it doesn't matter if it is a day or a year to be apart. I would miss the one i love.
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• Portugal
30 Oct 10
ahah yes thats true^^ i always miss my bf ^^ but i dont know how things will go anymore. i try to make things work but he is always busy. i dont know what else i can do. i do everything for us to spend time together but always something comes up for him to do and makes us not talk. im tired sometimes to understand him. i feel is always me understanding him and he doesnt understand me
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
30 Oct 10
Yup! I miss my love if I have...because having to love someone really great!
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
31 Oct 10
I'm a reasonable, lovable and respect much about girl. Because girls should be respected and must be love not giving them pain or not hurting them
• Portugal
31 Oct 10
thats cute that you say that about girls^^ yes we deserve respect and love^^ dont deserve to get hurt^^ and sure boys should give love to girls only and not pain^^ or hurting us. anyway my bf doesnt know that bcs he always is so busy. he doesnt understand that hurt me that way for sure. or else would change a bit. anyway i dont know what else i can do.
• Portugal
30 Oct 10
im sure that you can find a girl soon^^ and sure having a love is great^^ im sure that you can find a girl for you^^ as long as you are sweet and caring girls will like you^^ we girls just want a guy that loves us really^^ and that we can love also so^^ as long as you are a gentleman girls can like you for sure^^ wish you the best^^
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@umabharti (3972)
• India
30 Oct 10
Hi, we never miss the person if we dont see or talk or have any information regarding that person because he or she is always in our thoughts and heart.Such love is called as True love. True love is rarely found.The person who gets that sort of love is the luckiest on the earth.
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@Jotomy (6322)
• India
30 Oct 10
yes of course....
• Portugal
30 Oct 10
thats true that who finds a true love is lucky^^ is hard to find someone that loves us truly^^ i always give much time for my bf but sometimes i doubt if really i am the girl meant for him. he almost doesnt have time for me. so maybe im fighting against destiny. i will just wait him to do something. i wont do nothing anymore. i really wont. jotomy yes^^ true love is hard to find^^ and if we find must keep it well^^
29 Oct 10
i possibly would if i am used to seeing them daily, but absence makes the heart grow fonder and when you next see them there is some good making up to do.
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• Portugal
30 Oct 10
yes sure is normal if you see her everyday and then stop to see her^^ but is like you say will be better when get back together^^ maybe love can grow more bcs distance is an obstacle^^ anyway when will you find a gf for you?^^ why dont you go for drinks with friends?^^ you could relax sometimes^^ you could ask your wife to take care of your son a bit and you would go out a bit with friends^^ and meet maybe a new girl^^ who knows?^^
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31 Oct 10
love can grow with distance, but im talking like a week or 2 maximum, then you are back in eachothers arms, but what you have is different as it could take years to see your boyfriend, you have never spoken to him in person, laughed, held one another, if you ever get to do this it will be for a short time and then your home again saving up for years to go and see him again, that is just pure absence, that isn't a relationship. Your never together.
• Portugal
3 Nov 10
no craigy^^ if i save to go and see him i be with him^^ i wont get back without him. unless he doesnt want to be with me. or else i stay there with him^^ i find a job and pay a rent there^^ is all ok as long as we can be together^^ for sure i wouldnt save and then get back here again and then save again. would be too bad and sure wouldnt be a relation.
@anjimo (25)
• China
30 Oct 10
Of course. Though we always quarrel with each other, we can make it up as soon as possible. We have been together nearly one year, almost seeing each other every day. But I still miss him when I am alone. Even his name can bring me courage
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• Portugal
30 Oct 10
ahah is ok that you argue with each other^^ thats normal^^ and is good that you always make things right^^ almost one year?^^ thats a long time^^ is great that you see him almost everyday^^ thats important in a relationship^^ and is normal that you miss him when you are alone^^ you are not used to be without him around^^ his name gives you courage?^^ thats cute ahah^^ what is his name by the way?^^
• Portugal
31 Oct 10
he has a very big name^^ but i like it^^ is it chinese name?^^ sounds like^^ anyway im happy that he is good for you^^ and that you miss him^^ wish that you have a great day with him^^ you are lucky to have a good bf that loves and cares for you^^ keep him well^^ have much fun^^ and wish you be with him for long^^ the best for you and him^^
@anjimo (25)
• China
31 Oct 10
His name is zhouyicheng. BEST FOR YOU!
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
hello again cat, Whenever i missed my love,i just open his account and look at his face and it makes my day He is also far from me and,of course i missed him too. Wishing to hold him one day and feels that he is mine (aha) I just hope he feels the same way too (uh uh) Have a great weekend ahead dear
• Portugal
29 Oct 10
hi again ^^ thats cute that when you miss him you see his account^^ but why is he far from you? where is he? is he working abroad for your future? sorry for it anyway sure you can hold him ahah im sure that he misses you too^^ for what you told me you have a cute story together like movies ones ahah so must continue like that^^ also why dont you go meet him soon?^^ you have a job?^^ have a great weekend too^^
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
30 Oct 10
yes dear he works abroad and i am also working here. He is coming this November and we'll met each other soon Have a great Saturday
@Jotomy (6322)
• India
30 Oct 10
hi jai... have a great weekend..
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@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
30 Oct 10
Of course! I always miss my husband when he is not around. There was a time when he has to go out for some school activity and I was alone at home and I miss him so much especially i was eating lunch along at that time.
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• Portugal
30 Oct 10
he also works in a school?^^ i thought that was only you that were a teacher^^ so you work in the same place?^^ or now you dont work anymore? anyway is normal that you miss him^^ maybe you are used to always have him around^^ so when he goes for work and you have to finish your lunch alone is normal that you miss him even more^^ that shows you love him^^
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• United States
29 Oct 10
It is a bit different for me as my boyfriend and I live together, so we do have a great deal of time together as opposed to you where as you are both so far from each other. So I can imagine you do miss him even a second. As for me one day is okay but after 2, I think I could get sick. My boyfriend is leaving November 1st as he has an Acting job out in TN, he will be leaving for 17 days before I can see him again, as I will then be flying out on November 17 to be with him. I will be with him until December 23rd then we come back home together. So I will be very lonely all by myself as we live alone and I am use to seeing him daily. So we can both comfort one another my friend as i will be lonely as well.
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• Portugal
30 Oct 10
yes sure is normal that you would feel sick for not seeing him bcs you live with him^^ sorry that he will be away from you for some days. is good that you will go meet him soon^^ but 17 days is much. but im sure he will call you all the time^^ if he is an actor thats a good job^^ he will act in a theater?^^ and sure we can comfort each other^^ you are sweet to me^^
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@keshia2007r (2880)
• United States
30 Oct 10
my situation is a little different. me and my boyfriend has been throught it all for 3 years now. so i/ we can go just one day without seeing each other. happens all the time. but back when we were just getting to know each other, i did miss him even if we were a day apart. thats pretty much how new love works. as long as we talk on the phone. its fine. but we don't see each other everyday, thats for sure. (we don't live together) but do stay in the same city.
• Portugal
30 Oct 10
yes three years is a long time^^ is ok if you dont see each other everyday^^ is like you say as long as you talk on the phone everyday is ok^^ some contact way is important everyday^^ even if is only a few text messages^^ so you know he is ok^^ also if you live in the same city is even better^^ that way could even meet everyday if you had a lot of free time^^
• China
30 Oct 10
wow friend ? why not change other kinds of subject but love , lover or missing lover ? lol. just joking . don't care about it .i know that you must be so happy with your lover .so i agree with you so much. and if one lover one so much . and he will miss her day or half a day . that's the life. and thats the feeling we have. thank you. come on for your subject here.i love it.
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• Portugal
30 Oct 10
ahah yes i always write about love mostly ahah^^ but my ideas are ending ahah^^ anyway im happy that you like my posts ^^ im very happy that you answer it^^ also you can check my blog too^^ i created a blog where i will write love stories and readers will be able to choose how the story will go ahah^^ so if you want pass by and give me your opinion^^ if you want check it in my profile^^ and sure is good that you miss your gf when dont see her^^ we miss people we love always^^
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@iamjesca (185)
• Philippines
30 Oct 10
Me and my boyfriend lives in the same area. So we got to see each other for like everyday. Sometimes, when I dont want to go out like for 3 days we dont see each other even if we are in the same area. It must be really tough to have your boyfriend far away from you. We have been away from each other when I was in College but now I am back to our town. So, we get to see each other often. I really hope that everything will be ok between you and your guy. I hope that you will finally be together with your boyfriend. It is really hard to be away from someone you dearly love.
• Portugal
30 Oct 10
thats great that you and him live in the same area^^ sure is normal that while you were in college had to be away^^ but im happy that now you are together again^^ also is ok if you dont want to see him everyday as long as you call each other or say something^^ yes is hard to be away from my bf bcs we know each other for a year but didnt see near yet^^ we met online only^^ and we are together since one month^^ and few days^^ so sure is complicated to be far. but i wish that we can see each other soon^^ thanks for your sweet wishes^^
@mokhas (8)
• Indonesia
30 Oct 10
yes off course. but for me when i'm missing her i just pikc up phone and dial her number. i think its normal and happen to most of us
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• Portugal
30 Oct 10
yes sure^^ is good that you call her when you miss her^^ and sure thats normal that people do that^^ or go on a date^^ to spend more time together^^ thats good that you miss your gf when dont see her^^ is good that you are a caring guy^^ she is lucky that her bf cares so much for her^^ im sure that she cares for you too^^ you deserve a caring gf^^
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