Who wears the pants in your relationship?

@gjax57 (897)
United States
October 31, 2010 6:17pm CST
Do you believe in Dominant/Submissive relationships...have you ever been in one?..just curious.....
6 responses
@Bannybanzie (1397)
• Philippines
1 Nov 10
Okay. Guys are the heads of the family but it doesn't mean that ladies should just be under them. But guys should listen to what their wives say because girls got a lot of good qualities. It would be better if two people are sharing ideas and then formulate the best decision they can think of. Good communication will always be the best factor of successful relationship.
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
1 Nov 10
I believe im the one who wears the pants in our relationship. But when i asked my bf just now..he said he is the one..eheh..and said well yeah you maybe the one wearing the pants but i love you anyways (how sweet ).. I think im the dominant one in our relationship but i give way sometimes, my bf just loves me so much that he wants to give me everything that i wanted..and i always win the fights..im such a spoiled brat he tells me
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@tammytwo (4298)
• United States
1 Nov 10
We share the responsibilities and we each deal with problems in the household. Neither one of us 'wears the pants' in the relationship. We try to be equal partners. Love and marriage is about equality, not one dominant partner over another.
@vjenkins86 (1478)
• United States
31 Oct 10
My boyfriend always says that he wears the pants in the relationship and that he's going to put his foot down, but i always tell him that if he puts his foot down I'm going to step on it. lol. But seriously, I've never been in a really Dominant/Submissive relationship
@2004cqui (2812)
• United States
31 Oct 10
Depends on what needs to get done. I am best at finances and figuring out what we can afford. He is a great handy man. We both have spent our fair share of time being the biggest bread winner. We often have to "dibs" the next meal we want to cook. He is a very good cook. For 27 years we've been in it together, period. I shoot better then him and hike better than him. He is better than I am at lots of stuff. We listen, share and learn. We are also patient teachers. We have fun!
@2004cqui (2812)
• United States
31 Oct 10
Oh ya, when we were engaged he tried to tell me "my place". I gave him back the ring.