Few facts about girls that a guy should know
By ellyse2003
@ellyse2003 (1463)
Philippines
November 1, 2010 9:01am CST
Girls are very complex and there so many facts about girls that a guy should know that we over look so often. By nature, we assume that we know everything about girls, but sadly this is as far from the truth as possible. You should also know that every girl, each and every single of them, just want to feel special, especially in relationships.
-Girls hate liars. So if you had to lie, ensure that you will never get caught.
-Girls always consider actions greater than words.
-Girls wants you to show what you feel about them.
-Girls are drama queens. This may be something beyond you realm of understanding, but be patient and know that every girl will make a big deal about pretty things.
-For guys, you have to get used of apologizing, because whether you did something wrong or not, you will be always the one apologizing.
-Girls are very self-conscious by nature, the sooner you accept that, the better.
-A girl will always think she's fat, no matter what. You have to comfort her and convince her otherwise.
-Never fool around with a friend or relative of a girl whom you're with. Girls loves to talk about things, so you will be caught sooner or later.
-Speaking of which, girls loves to gossip. This is the way they entertain themselves when they are together.
-When it comes to gifts, something more meaningful and thoughtful is far more important than price.
-If you're out with your friends, she want you to see how involved you are. She will kiss you in front of them and make you feel like an embarrassed jelly bean. Your friends may laugh at you but they are jealous. Learn to reciprocate these feelings.
-Always remember all those damn dates and birthdays. This is important to them. This is a must! You should not forget this. Better store it in you phone.
-Finally. Always compliment her. Girls loves being the center of attention. So what's holding you back? Compliment everything about her, her hair eyes, body. etc..
Good luck guys! I hope you enjoyed these facts. Happy mylotting.
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17 responses
@ladym33 (10979)
• United States
1 Nov 10
As a girl, well woman I can pretty much agree with everything you say except a real woman will admit when she is wrong. I guess that is what seperates the girls from the women, and we are not all drama queens. I personally get sick when I see a grown woman acting like a drama queen or playing games, some girls just play games and act rediculas to get attention. Not all girls think they are fat, and when they are not fat they are usually know that, they just want you to tell them how good they look. Sure some do think they are fat, but if we look good and say we are fat we know you will tell us we are not, we kind of thrive on that kind of thing, but just as you said we love to be complimented.
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@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
2 Nov 10
These are facts about girls and not a grown up lady. I read this from the latest 2010 edition of survey about girls, they talked to several girls and some of them are married too but they stick to the topic about single girls.
@urbandekay (18278)
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20 Nov 10
"Girls are drama queens. This may be something beyond you realm of understanding, but be patient and know that every girl will make a big deal about pretty things.
-For guys, you have to get used of apologizing, because whether you did something wrong or not, you will be always the one apologizing."
These are not true of every girl, only of bad ones!
all the best urban
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
20 Nov 10
I am a drama queen, so you're telling me I'm bad? I only do that when I want some attention from my husband or I'm asking a little favor from him that he can't give. That's the only way I get his attention so I have to make a little drama. But this discussion is not just about me, some here agrees about being a drama queens of their partners and some of them are not.
As always, guys do that but really depends on the situation.
Nice meeting you here. By the way sorry for the late reply. Have a nice day.
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
24 Nov 10
It's. So I'm bad. Well ok. Officially, you don't know me.right? I'm just making a discussions here and that's me. I can't change that. As long as I'm happily married I don't have to worry about being a drama queen.
@urbandekay (18278)
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21 Nov 10
Yes, being a drama queen and never apologising are vices not virtues
all the best urban
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
3 Nov 10
I am a female and to that list I would add that girls are talkers by nature, we use many more word every day than a man does and when we ask, “What is wrong?” we need more than, “Nothing…”or “You wouldn’t understand…” well try us! You may be surprised! Remember too that sometimes a girl needs to be heard while she vents, you don’t necessarily have to fix her problem, just listen! A good listener... why is that not on the list? (LOL)
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
20 Nov 10
Sure is. Sorry for the late response. We should really include that too. I do agree that we really have a lot of words to say and expressions. If I can only edit my post then I will re-write this. I think I have to include that to the part two of my discussion.
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I could not of said it better!@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
8 Nov 10
These things about girls really excites me, I was reading an article when I saw these facts. I hope you enjoyed reading this.
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
2 Nov 10
@iloveyou. Why not share this to your boyfriend? By this he can understand you more and be able to know how to make your relationship stronger too.
@iloveyou1 (18)
• United States
2 Nov 10
Wow you made up a great list...
this describes me && other girls i know done to the T.
I wish more guys will relize these things expecially my boyfriend...lol
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
1 Nov 10
Hi dear,
If you are talking about the girls in general, there is little bit exaggeration. Yes, we cannot comment certain thing in common and there may be exemptions. All what you said is about you, I like your nature and you have mentioned here what a girl should be and everyone wished to be about a girl.
These all are good concepts and in fact, the current generation girls have gone beyond a lot ahead. Even though I had a long time relationship with many girls, (good friendship) from different age groups and I like the company with girls a lot. Hence I know the hidden nature and habits of girls and their thoughts and feelings about various things. There was a time we used to discuss, debate argue and analyse the characteristics about girls nature.
Whatever you mentioned here are almost right. But unfortunately, out of hundred, hardly we won’t get any such girls around. But there are good featured and understanding girls around us.
Regards,
Thank-s
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
2 Nov 10
I'm not talking about girls in general, I just said it, its all about fact. This was the latest survey about girls this 2010. Survey meaning they talked to a lot of girls out there single and married. It good to know things about girls. When I read about this I was, wow, like I never though I'm like this to my guy and when I asked him, yeah you're kind of like that but not all of it. The facts describe not only one girl but many girls with different kind of characteristics. We (girls) differ from many things, some girls likes cars some of us don't. I like sports, but some of my friends love parties. I love being alone my friends loves night out. Well, I think you understand what I'm trying to say. Happy mylotting.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
2 Nov 10
Hi dear,
You are absolutely right. All are different in nature and their character. As you said, there are certain habit have common in all. Everyone wants to be good in nature but circumstantially, have to change little bit here and there. However, it is nice to hear from you again and have a nice day you too….
Regards,
Thank-s
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
3 Nov 10
You should also share this to your friends. It was quite amazing to know this facts because I myself is not really aware of this but when I read about these lists, it was like reading the whole me. Happy mylotting.
@cowboyofhell (3063)
• Philippines
1 Nov 10
The summary is pretty simple. Girls only want to live in a simple world. It's just a matter of knowing what keeps them comfortable, no need to enumerate all those.
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
2 Nov 10
But its fun to know about these stuff and after researching this I was like, amazing, I haven't even know about these things even I'm a girl. Well, let's just have fun and enjoy. Happy mylotting.
@manilatop10 (371)
• Philippines
2 Nov 10
#1 Liars
Everyone Lies ... accepting the reasons why is important diba?
Eric
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
2 Nov 10
On the top of the lists among the girls, they tend to know why you lied before forgiving you. They'll still trust you but you know and feel something changed. All people do, they change when somebody lie to them. They change the way they feel about that person. Anyway, these lists are just facts.
@RebeccaScarlett (2532)
• Canada
2 Nov 10
I have to disagree that actions are always more important than words. For example, men will show they love a woman in many little ways, like fixing things around the house or doing favours for her, but if he never says he loves her, most girls will get quite upset. We want to hear the words I love you.
The drama queen/obsessed with pretty things is a stereotype. Yes, many girls are like that, but I am not. I do not want my husband to buy me pretty things because they are useless and a waste of our limited money. I would rather he surprise me with cuddles!
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
2 Nov 10
Actions speaks louder and I did not write more important. Both of them has a big difference. Actions speaks louder than words, meaning we can feel it even a guy doesn't always tells us that he loves us. I don't say that this is you, I'm not referring to one girls only. These are the usual things that we see from a girl, a typical girl. I did not include pretty things as things that can be handled but cherished and an important memory. About gifts, read it again. We girls wanted priceless things. Cuddles, that's what I'm talking about. That's the way I am too, I'd rather choose my husband to cook for me rather than buying me an expensive phone.
Commonly, girls are not materialistic. I wrote it there but in a different way.
@johney264 (544)
• China
2 Nov 10
thanks for share the great idea abou t girls. because I really think you are right and this time for me I need a girl now I want a girl to marry me, i need a girl complete my life, but if I close to a girl I don't know how to express myself and how make the love girl fall in love with me, most of time I confuse what thoughts in girl's mind. so I don't know what to say and what to do can make myself a good impression on girls. some time I pretend that I don't need a girl. so I thinks for your discuss I find a way to go.
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
3 Nov 10
This will certainly help you out on how to talk and be close to a girl. I'm very glad I found this because as a girl, I really don't know about this. When I read this, I saw myself in these lists.
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
2 Nov 10
Yes, this would certainly help guys out there and all the guys who are in love with their girls friends only starting a new relationship.
@Krizz420canada (531)
• Canada
1 Nov 10
Good list but truthfully all us guys know that. We are not as stupid as women like to think sometimes. We like the woman to think they are right and in control becaus ewe knw that is usually what makes them happy!lol Its just my opinion so please no females get mad or guys get insulted but from everything I have experienced in 15 years that's the way it appears to me.
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
2 Nov 10
So we are stupid? As a girl, I always wanted my guy to be his center of attraction and even it's my fault he's the apologizing to me. But well, it really depends on the guy on how will he handle a girl and make her happy. Anyway, we all have different experiences so I can't compare my experience to you. Have a nice day. Nice meeting you.
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
2 Nov 10
I really love this one when I read this from the facts about people. I thought I was reading everything about me, I saw myself in these facts since I'm a girl too. Good to know you liked my discussion. Hope to hear from you again from my other discussions.
@unique16 (1531)
• United States
1 Nov 10
Hello ellyse2003,
I agree with everything you say here too about what girls like. I would also like to guys like this in return for the most part too. The right guy will enjoy by his girl too.
Wonderful topic.
Thanks for the share.
have a great day
Sincerley Unique16
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
2 Nov 10
I posted facts about boys too and someone requested that I should also post facts about girls. So I made a research and these came out. I really enjoyed reading this and I'm glad you enjoyed it too. Have a nice day. Happy mylotting.
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
1 Nov 10
Hi friend, i have saved a copy of this, i will share this in other sites..
Thank you so much for sharing the wonderful tips lol.
Professor. . Cheers God bless you.
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
2 Nov 10
Great facts about girls huh. I too enjoyed this stuff when I read this. I was really searching for facts about girls and this one caught my attention. Sure, you can share this to other sites too for them to enjoy this topic. Good luck and happy mylotting.
@nikramos (698)
• Philippines
1 Nov 10
hi ellyse. you know what, this is a great list. i have been telling my boyfriend about these things a lot of times before and it frustrates me that he never remembers all of it. there's one big thing that i learned though and that helped me cope up with that. i have to learn in return how guys normally are. and as a part of it, they dont have enough memory to take note all of those you enumerated in the list. while it is true that we are major drama queens, to them they dont mean any harm and having to say sorry for missing one of these is a big wonder to them.
maybe compromise is the best thing to include whether in a guys or girls fact list. 
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
2 Nov 10
Thank you to that. we should include that too. Sometimes guys can't really understand girls so with this discussion I hope this will help them to know girls more and how to understand us. I'm glad you enjoyed this discussion. Have a great day.
