your lover is sick. if you could would you switch places with him?^^

care much^^ - girl is holding hand of boy she loves^^
Portugal
November 2, 2010 4:02pm CST
hi guys^^ imagine that your lover is sick. if you could switch places and be you the one getting sick instead of him would you do that? about me i would. i love my bf and i didnt want him to get sick. i would switch places. i could make him feel better^^ and he could be happy ^^ so i would do that. even if he didnt do the same for me i would still do that. like now am working so much for seeing him and him.. what about you guys?^^ what would you do? please share^^
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@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
4 Nov 10
I would, if i could..but the thing is the illness affected him and not me. It's quite impossible you know. I think i will just be there to soothe him and care for him.
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@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
5 Nov 10
He is only in another country for 7months now. So that means we haven't seen each other for 7 months straight, we only see each other once in a blue moon on web cam since he doesn't have computer. I don't really know when he will be coming back..2-3years maybe.
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• Portugal
5 Nov 10
7 monthes? thats too much. sorry that you cant see him very often at least you continue talking everyday with each other^^ thats very important. he will come back only maybe in 3 years? but in what country is he? in europe? bcs if isnt in europe maybe you should tell him to go to a european country. to save good money for your future^^ other day my bf said that is needed like 16 000 pesos to open a small business there. that is 1000 euros in my country. that we earn if we have a job and work for two or three monthes :) if is a full time job you can have that in two monthes. so maybe if he isnt in europe he could bcs he would earn much and maybe in two years could have money to live happy there in pinas and you guys wouldnt need to be more time apart from each other^^
• Portugal
4 Nov 10
thats cute that you would if you could^^ and sure that would be impossible bcs he was the one getting sick and not you. i just meant if you would do that for him^^ i really wish that your bf knows that you love him^^ and that very soon he goes and be with you^^ when does he plan to go to pinas and dont go travel again? is already 4 years that he is travelling so much for work
• Australia
2 Nov 10
No I would not because more often than not it is self inflicted and what kind of an idiot would I be to switch places with him then, he gets the fun and I would get the illness. I would do it for my kids though anytime.
• Portugal
3 Nov 10
i see. you would do that only for your kids? but if your hubby loves you why wouldnt you do that for him? you dont love him? bcs if we love we always want to switch places. for me for sure i rather be sick than my bf^^ i love him so much and i dont want to lose him^^ he is very important in my life^^ and i wouldnt want he be sick and i be healthy.
• Australia
3 Nov 10
Don't get me wrong, I love my boyfriend very much but he is rarely sick unless it is a hangover which is self inflicted so he only has himself to blame. I do give him sympathy when he is hungover but maybe he should not drink to that extent and then he would not feel like crap the next day. He is not the father of my kids but if my kids father was to get sick I would more than likely wish him to suffer a lot. I know that sounds really bad but my ex husband was a real jerk and deserves every bad thing that happens to him.
• Portugal
4 Nov 10
i dont get you wrong. sure if he gets hangover is all his fault. and he is lucky that you even are sweet to him. there are girls that cant stand guys that drink. anyway thats cute that he is with you even you have kids^^ bcs some guys are really stupid about that. sorry that your ex hubby was bad to you. and no doesnt sound really bad i know you say that bcs he hurt you too much right?
• United States
4 Nov 10
I would for sure switch place with the one I love if he was sick. I don't like it when he's sick cause I know he's in pain so I'd rather be in pain then him. He's the same way. He wishes he could take away the pain for me with what I'm going through right now. Good discussion.
• Portugal
4 Nov 10
thats cute that you would switch places with him^^ yes sure is normal that you wouldnt want to see him in pain and you rather be you the one with pain. is cute that he worries so much with you and that he wish he could take the pain away from you^^ im sorry that you are in pain i know that you want to work here in mylot but at least rest your head for some hours. im also working hard here for many hours to help my mum and sometimes my head starts to hurt. rest once in awhile ok? while eat and that^^ i will give you two tips to be well paid here in mylot^^ try to always write at least 4 or 5 lines per comment. maybe 5 is better :) and in your discussions try also to write 6, 7 lines per discussion^^ that way maybe you get better paid^^ also attach images to your discussions^^ those are my tricks to earn good money here ahah^^
• Mexico
4 Nov 10
Hi sweet love forever: I think that's a hard question to answer in abstract, but if I think about this spectial person that would be the love of my life I think that my commitment to this person would make me able to do this sacrifice. Thanks for asking us this question. Have a nice day. ALVARO
• Portugal
5 Nov 10
yes im happy to see that you would think about her^^ and would switch places with her if you could. is like you say in love we should do sacrifices. we all know that in reality we cant switch places even if we wanted to but if we would do that that already has a great meaning^^ means that you love her really and her life is more important than yours^^ thanks for your sweet answer alvaro^^ have a nice day too^^
3 Nov 10
No i wouldn't, i would rather someone who i didn't like be sick though instead of me. Although at the moment im not well as i have chicken pox.
• Portugal
3 Nov 10
ahah you would choose someone that you dont like? ahah but if you couldnt do that? you would do that for your gf right?^^ im sure you would bcs you seem a sweet guy^^ sorry that you have chicken pox i never had that but my sister had. i guess your throat is aching much right? at least do you have something to help you? i will tell you something that helped my sister. people put that in their necks here in my country to cure that. raw chicken. if you put that around your neck it helps you feeling better =) my sister didnt want that but my father put it and she was better^^
• United States
3 Nov 10
i would not do that cause i know me being sick is not something that i would want them to deal with. so instead i would just take care of them till they get better.
• Portugal
3 Nov 10
but that way you got sick and they didnt. wouldnt you do that to save your gf? if she was very very sick and could die or something wouldnt you do that? is sweet that you would take care of her but between your health and hers you prefer yours? love is also sacrifice for the one we love. you wouldnt do that for your best friend? if she was sick and someone said she would die soon. wouldnt you want to be in her place so she lives and you die?
• Portugal
3 Nov 10
yes but i meant sick like dying maybe. or even being sick only. anyway i see you would switch places only if she was dying^^ thats cute^^ sorry that you get in bad state if you get sick anyway is sweet that you would take care of them ^^ thats a good thing^^ at least that shows that you care for their health^^ thats good of you^^
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• United States
3 Nov 10
Me being sick any kind of sick is very bad and its hard to take care of me when i am its better that i take care of them. and yes i would die i the palace of my gf but being sick and dying are two different things and i know me being sick even if its just a cold leaves me in a bad state because of the damage that's been done to my body so it would be better for everyone if i'm takeing care of them.