Is cheating always happens in every relationship?
By audsalas
@prettyauds (258)
Philippines
November 3, 2010 11:45pm CST
There's always a topic about cheating with partners or friends,and that makes me wonder. Can cheating on partners can't be avoid?
6 responses
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
4 Nov 10
It can surely be avoided dear friend. Once a relationship is based on trust and there's a lot of communication going on between the two of you, nothing could go wrong. I've been married for almost 7 years with my husband and we trust each other so much that we allow space for each of us to grow. We have never cheated on each other although we seem to admire other people. It doesn't hurt me a bit when my husband would look at a beautiful lady. He's just looking and I was looking too, so there's nothing wrong with that.
It's all about trust my dear friend.
@prettyauds (258)
• Philippines
4 Nov 10
I hope so... if ever I/ll decide to get into a relationship again. More power to your marriage life! ^_^
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
4 Nov 10
It can be avoided i think. Just as long as the relationship is really very strong and no matter what the temptations are both would really be struggling not to cheap. I haven't cheated yet on my bf nor plan to do so. My bf haven't cheated on me yet..haha..was trying to but stopped it he knew it will ruin our relationship.
@prettyauds (258)
• Philippines
4 Nov 10
I think so too.. But with what I'm seeing around me,I mean with my friends,it made me think that cheating really always happens. :(. But I'm happy to hear that your bf stopped to cheat on you. Wish my ex could have done the same. :(
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
4 Nov 10
Absolutely not. There is no guarantee that cheating won't happen, but it is not absolute that cheating always happens. Open communication and open sexuality can help to prevent the possibility. If you know how to please your partner and they know how to please you and you both make sure to give and take then there is no need to look outside the relationship.
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
4 Nov 10
I think that this idea can be right in business relationship. We can't avoid it.
@david_valles (24)
• India
4 Nov 10
I feel cheating never happens in relationships that is based on true love and respect. According to me, cheating doesn't happen in all relationships. Cheating on one's partner is a cruel and brutal act, I feel.
For people who cheat, are immature, nasty and don't really care for their partner/relationship/love. They don't understand what love and relationship is all about.
I've never cheated on anyone, in any of my relationships and I expect the same from my partner too. Hope I don't find a cheater ever; for its hard when a relationship that you were looking forward to develop breaks because of it.