Bf's ex sent a friend request...

Hahaha we're the same. My bf's ex added me on fb a few months ago. I don't even know her. I only know her cause my bf saved all his gf's pix on his wallet LOL. They're friends on FB but I was shocked that she added me as well.. I think she just wanted to see my pix and compare who's more beautiful. Hahahah well she's a lot more beautiful, I can't deny that. I just don't wanna be friends with her. I mean what's the use lol.

I would wonder what on earth you all wouldhave in common since she is no longer in your BF life. I mean it doesn't sound like she was close with you while she was dating your friend. It could be that this is her way of snooping and keeping up to date about your ex, so no pun intended but I would just leave it there and eventually delete it.

i see what you mean. but i guess if she was nice to you before you can add her. through facebook she cant do nothing bad to your relation^^ your bf loves you and if you accept be friends with her is a sign that you are not afraid of any in your relation. that you are secure he loves you and that you accept his past. im sorry that that girl hurt your bf much. but if she was nice to you before and continue friends with your bf maybe you should accept^^ also you say that she has a new bf right? so i guess is all ok. maybe she just wants you as a friend there and nothing else. dont think more and accept it ^^ im sure that this wont do any bad neither to you neither to your relation^^ you will just be nice like you are always =) wouldnt be rude if you ignored her request but maybe she would think you dont like her or have something against her. so is good that you accept. but dont need talk with her unless she says hi. dont worry more ok?^^ i guess you are afraid that she comes to close to your relation right? i trust that nothing can destroy your relation^^ is 4 years you are with your bf and he loves you so much. accept her as friend will be only a nice thing you will do. a sign that you trust in his love for you

I would not accept her because it seems like she wants to add you so she can look through your page, photos and be a stalker somewhat.

Hi gaiza! I guess it would be okay for me to add as friend on facebook my bf's ex, as long as she would not bother you. I would not really care if she sees all my updates, all the pictures and all. What is there to hide? She's no longer part of his life anyway. Adding her on facebook does not mean you are already friends with her. Don't let her think or feel that she is a threat to you relationship. If I were on your position, I would add her as a friend and that's just it. Never do the first move though to communicate with her. I already experienced this. They will just add you to get updates or to see what you look like. But I act like I don't really care at all. Don't let it affect you. Stay happy and pretty. God bless.

I would ignore the request. I shouldn't bother adding her, I'm not that insecure to care about his past. Also, I'm the PRESENT. That's all that matters. Adding you in facebook is probably just for messing with your head. You should ignore it and move on. It's just gonna be another issue for you. Also, I'm going to try to put myself in her shoes. if you were a mature and confident person, why would you add your friends current Girlfriend? I mean, that's just wrong. Even I wouldn't do that. That's just too low. Lol. I pity her. She should move on.

At least you should be glad that the request was not send to your bf. Whether to accept or not, it is all up to you. If you don't feel comfortable, just decline it. Don't leave it "unattended".