How far is this true ?

@Karunvig (714)
India
November 10, 2010 10:11am CST
Do you believe that Destiny / GOD / Luck plays a vital role in building and break of a relation or more than this u believe that our attitude and ego reflects the future of the relation.
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@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
11 Nov 10
Definitely God has nothing to do with it. I think it has to do with the couple. It depend on how they handle their relationship, how they make it work and how they handle each emotions. I also believe in destiny. If they are really meant to be then i think no matter how time or how hard the challenges are they still continue to love each other.
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
17 Nov 10
Well in that case, i guess they are really not meant to be. They are better off in different partners. I believe in love, both couples should be feeling it and not one sided relationship.
@Karunvig (714)
• India
16 Nov 10
what if i say that one from the couple is paying attention and other is not.. ??
• India
11 Nov 10
For anything to happen there are so many factors influencing it. We do not know all the facts that is the reason we attribute the cause to destiny, God and luck.
@Karunvig (714)
• India
16 Nov 10
Or should i put it other way round.. we name our failure as Luck and deestiny !!
• India
16 Nov 10
Or we may put it the other way around, and name our unexpected success as luck and destiny !!
• Canada
11 Nov 10
If you ask for Gods help to find a partner he will help you. But the both of you have to do the work to make that relationship a healthy long last one. We are not robots so of course we have to learn about each other, to treat each right and so forth. If you love each other and nuture the relationship there is no reason you can have a life long wonderful time together.
@Karunvig (714)
• India
16 Nov 10
if both of them love each other thn the relation is success but i have many relations where either of them is not tht much committed to the other... still relation goes on and breaks after marriage...
@simonelee (2715)
• China
12 Nov 10
We make our own destiny with God's guidance. This what i believed. Well, attitude and ego greatly affect our relationship but we do need it. We must weigh things to balance everything in able us to handle every situation.
@Karunvig (714)
• India
16 Nov 10
Just like it... 'we make our own destiny with God's guidance' I wish i can also apply the same in my life...
@Sanitary (3968)
• Singapore
13 Nov 10
We hold our own destiny. Though i have to slightly agree that luck and fate plays a small role in our relationship, but if we don't take the initial to know more about the other person, destiny is deemed useless too. U can always bump into the very small sweet looking girl, over a period of time, and she's often smiling at u. BUt if u don't take any actions, she will give up on u, and by then it's all too late.
@Karunvig (714)
• India
16 Nov 10
May be u r right .. until and unless efforts are put we cant even give birth to a child
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@daiweian06 (1405)
11 Nov 10
I think so. I believe in destiny. All that happenings in our life are based on God's plan for us. But you can ask God in different things. And attitude are so true if you would ask if it needs to achieve success. I know that attitude is the best thing. Like dealing with your friends, family and your love ones. You have to be good all the time so God will blessed you as always. (That's what i heard in church and my mom always telling to me).