What makes you stressed?
By daiweian06
@daiweian06 (1405)
16 responses
@fianne (1057)
• United States
11 Nov 10
i get stressed when i want to write but i can't think of anything to write about! grrr! it is so really annoying and frustrating. i have some ways of getting or earning money, i mean, but still not enough. but it doesn't give me stress since i believe i will be able to earn more soon, i just need to work hard.
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@daiweian06 (1405)
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14 Nov 10
I think it will help you if your going to watch a movie or read a lot of books about your topic. You can add something or make a twist on what the real story is. Yes just think about the money and then think about your inspiration why you need to do that.
I think in your job you need lots of imagination and experience so you can relate.
Good luck! Just do your best in it.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
11 Nov 10
Hi dear,
Yes, if money is not there, all will get stress enough. But there are reasons for heavy stress due to various other reasons. Work presser, anxiety, students who are studying for higher grades and their exams, pregnant ladies who are suffering from health conditions, what else no? Everyone has its own reasons to have stress. Like you, even I am also stressed with money matters. What we earn is not good enough to survive our daily needs. Apart from these, family requirements, work place problems, utility expenses etc will cause stress. But if we manage everything properly, the intensity can be minimized to an extent. If we are able to foresee the expenditure and manage them with our income, stress will be under control.
People those who have to meet unexpected incidents and are not having enough money in hand will be a victim of stress for all times.
Regards,
Thank-s
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
12 Nov 10
Hi dear,
The period of learning is the painful as well as the best days of everyone's life. It was my policy that while studying, study well and while playing play well. So I request to accept the same method because, I think you are fully dedicated for your studies and (I don't know what are you in your studies) manage them in your control.
And this is the time you can attain maximum benefit from the studies. Be concentrated on your studies and make better results which will give you a higher level of living in the later part of life. However, thanks for your comments and don't take any tension. Approach with a cool and peaceful mind, then you can able to control everything.
If you have tension, you need to manage the situation also if you are relaxed, you need to manage the situation. So, resolve it with a cool atmosphere rather than solving the same with harder mind.
Have a nice day and wish you all the best in your studies.
Regards,
Thank-s
@daiweian06 (1405)
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13 Nov 10
thanks 1961- I think you know everything about stress. But whatever it is and what makes us stress we have to resolve it as early as we can. Like if our income is not good enough so i suggest to have another one. Not all source of income needs lot of time. But sometimes its all about how we can deal with it.
@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
12 Nov 10
Hi daiweian06, it's true that money talks in society and this shows that how essential money to us. Other than the daily expenses we need money to buy stuffs that are essential to us, like makeup, clothes, etc to make us to look decent in the working place, but might be these are luxurious to others. For we have different needs in our daily living.
Apart from money problem, there are yet certain things would get me stressed. I love my family very much and I hope all them live a healthy and happy life. I would go stressed if any of them falls sick or encounters severe unresolved problems. Fortunate that all of us always help one another with all one's heart to get the problem facing solved. Therefore love and unity of a family is really important indeed
Have a nice day and happy posting
@daiweian06 (1405)
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14 Nov 10
I agree! We really need to have money. Now a days to live descent and to enjoy life you have to spend more and earn more. If you want the best make ups, bags or shoes it cost much or expensive. But still you need them.
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Right now i choose to Work from home and earn money while im still health so I decided to become a Herbalife Independent Distributor and now still finding a job to earn more and have a new customer. I want to help them in their health concern. Because i do believe in "Health is Wealth".
@ganeshprabhuk (1722)
• India
11 Nov 10
Dont get stressed for all small things. There are lot other things to get stressed. These are very petty issues to get stressed. Spend wisely and you will never be stressed.
@daiweian06 (1405)
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14 Nov 10
Sure i will! Yes what i am going right now is to find additional job to earn more. So i can spend buy all of the thing i never had and to save lots of money too.
Im a wise spender i think. I buy only the things that i need. And refuse to go to the mall and have just a window shopping. So i wont attract unexpected expenses.
By the way thank you for your advice.
@clouds0327 (1389)
• Philippines
20 Dec 10
I also get stressed when I don't have money too. I don't know but I am more irritable and quiet when I don't have anything to spend. Especially now that it's Holidays and I need more money... I already loaned my earrings and not sure how to get it... Urggghhh.. Need to have more part time jobs I guess.
@daiweian06 (1405)
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21 Dec 10
Yes your now here in mylot. I think its a good source of income aside from enjoying yourself staying here. You really have to do something to earn more. Then spend your money wisely. Like me I buy lot of stuff last month and this time Im working to have a cash.
Good day!
@daiweian06 (1405)
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15 Nov 10
Our money comes in and out, simply as that. So better to have more income and less expenses. Advisable to have two jobs at the same time to earn more. We really need to work hard to achieve it.
Then help other people in giving some blessing to the less fortunate. For them it helps a lot. Its better to give than to receive. And god will bless us abundantly.
@shaggin (72129)
• United States
11 Nov 10
There are a lot of things that make me feel stressed but the thing that makes me feel the most stress is when my ex bothers me. Just hearing his voice on the other end of the phone is enough to set me off and put my nerves on edge. The days that I dont hear from him at all I feel so much more stress free.
@daiweian06 (1405)
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14 Nov 10
You really hate you ex. It means you had a bad day with him or bad experience. I think he still loves you but not really reasonable.
Just like what happen to me. After 2 years that we are apart my ex met her present girlfriend and i heard that they already celebrated their 2 year anniversary. so i decided to find someone who is much better that him.
And now i met this guy who is my best lucky charm or just an angel in disguise. much much better than my ex.
@daiweian06 (1405)
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14 Nov 10
Im a Marketing graduate. I just remember when we are in College. At first we are all afraid in doing our thesis. If we will not pass we will not graduate next month. Then if we pass so we will graduate.
Then while we are doing our Thesis we just enjoy and starting loving it because its our own choice. That's what we like to do after graduation. We choose our own business.
As we finish our Thesis. We got the "Best in Feasibility" award.
In short just love what you are doing. Enjoy it! Actually you have no choice.
@daiweian06 (1405)
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14 Nov 10
I wanna be a Millionaire
So FEELING GOOD
Buy all of the things
I never had
I wanna be on a cover
of Forbes magazine
Smiling next to
Oprah and the Queen
Make sure that you will share all your blessing and then God will bless you more. Just be good to your parents, to everyone. Have a golden heart.
@bwaybaby (903)
• United States
11 Nov 10
I actually stress quite easily- so much so that I'm on some light meds to deal with anxiety. School stresses me out- I want to do well, and there's so much to do. I worry about the future- will I get into grad school or law school? Will I be able to get a good job? Money stresses me out, although I took some time off from school and worked so I have a good chunk of change in the bank. Little things stress me out, hence the meds.
@daiweian06 (1405)
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13 Nov 10
Like what my boyfriend always telling me. Dont mind all of the things make me sad. Dont think more about the future. Everything that may happen to you is according to God's plan.
If you really want to have a good job in the future so make high grades. And if tht was not enough. Just enjoy your life.
they tell me that if sometimes you almost done and everything is still not enough. So you only have to do is to accept it. It means that is not your destiny.
But dont loose hope. Just always pray and relax.
@daiweian06 (1405)
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13 Nov 10
Yes, some of my coach always telling me "Fake it until you make it".
Dont mind that its hard to make money or else it will happen to you. Just mind that money is everywhere and you can get much of it in the future and then it will come true.
No one can tell us what is the best way to earn money but whatever it is do your best.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
11 Nov 10
I have a great many things in life that continually stress me out but the main factor is the fact that I am not working on a steady job like I am accustomed. Which leads to the fretting that without any money I cannot pay the bills and let alone my basic needs.
But I am taking it a bit slower these days with the stressful moment so that I can think a bit clearer.
@daiweian06 (1405)
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13 Nov 10
If the things right now is not a good source of income so it should be not effective at all. Or make another one as source of income. Double time to earn more. Dont just depend on the people around you who will only give the things that you need.
Make it by your own. Just be independent.
Dont mind that everything that happening to you is already very stressful. Sometimes it is the only way the God challenge you. Just relax yourself.
@daiweian06 (1405)
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13 Nov 10
To release your stress you really dont have to go on a vacation. To have lots of time. Or to spend much money.
Sometimes we don't even know how to express our feelings.
Just think about the things that makes you happy. If food is the answer so eat outside and enjoy yourself. If you just want to be with your friends do it once a week. If You want to have a dog then have some.
You know yourself well. Just find where you are comfortable. And release your stress more often.
@calpro (930)
• India
11 Nov 10
Hi,
The source of Stress can be anything,some would feel stress when they don't have money,for some it would be work stress,for some it would be family it all depends on person to person.
But financial crisis and drowning in debts is something which is really a cause of concern. Not only you, even I feel so stressed out when I am running out of money.
To avoid financial stress it i better to "earn more and spend less."
I try to keep my spending just below my earnings,but sometimes it is really out of my hands.
Have a stress less day.
@daiweian06 (1405)
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13 Nov 10
Yes in my case i need to earn more income. Have to spend lesser on my stuff. Im trying to spend something or buy things if i really need it. That's why i refused to go to malls.
I think everyone can relate. Even rich or poor people has financial experiences.
But so far i dont want to have any debts that i dont think cant make it. I will not follow those people who tend to have a debt and didn't pay and starting to have a interest and getting bigger debts.
@daiweian06 (1405)
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11 Nov 10
Just like my mom. She is so stressed out after school. She is a grade school teacher and tired if she gets home. When i was just a little girl, she tell me that we dont want to be a teacher like her.
When we are only in grade school we saw her making a lot of things late at night or early in the morning for school.
Made lots of report. Then woke-up early in the morning just to prepare things for us. I think being a mother is also a stressful job.
@beeh13u (1037)
• Philippines
11 Nov 10
I am stressed too because I have no money. I thought that after graduating college, I'll have a lot of money. I still have no job. I can't ask money from my parents though. They already paid a lot of trainings for my resume. I hope this holiday, I'll receive money from relatives. LOL :D
@daiweian06 (1405)
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11 Nov 10
Not really don't have money. But i want more. More money to spend. So funny! Just want to help my family on our expenses and so on. I want to improve our appliances and furniture. Buy our new computer.
Just a simple dream for our family. I want to have money for my future. For the fullest.