Did you reveal all about you? Yes/No.. Why

no, I like to keep some things for my self.... a secrets I don't want my wife to know about me. But I am true to him her, my attitude etc. only I don't want to share my other secrets to her.

We can't be loose talking to each and everybody. Everybody should maintain a distance with any relationship to maintain his/ her privacy. Some secrets can be revealed to friends but not to family members and vice versa. We all should learn to maintain this level of confidence and that is important.

I only reveal all of my secrets and feelings to my husband, whom I have been with for more than 22 years. I am closer to him than anyone and I feel I can share my deepest, darkest feelings with him. I don't share everything with my other family members because I can't always trust them to keep my secrets or to understand why I feel the way that I do.

As for me, it depends on the situation. It's not bad if you don't reveal all about you as long as you are real and you are not pretending to be someone else. Sometimes in a relationship like to your partner, isn't it good to keep something on yourself? Isn't it challenging when your partner doesn't know all about you? Because later on when you or both of you know it all then it is not challenging at all because you know everything about the person.

Yes I do. I do tell everything to my husband. I find myself at peace when I have opened up to him. Feel light once I tell him. But to others, it may seem I am very secretive. I dont let anybody know my feelings to anybody. There is also one more friend of mine whom I can rely upon. But there are few thhings that I dont tell her too. So finally its only my husband I completely rely upon. :) How about you.

I am normally open minded. I share and love to share everything with my friends and family. I believe if you share happiness increases and sadness decreases. So I share everything with my friend and family.

nope, i don't reveal all about me. but there is someone i usually tell to almost all about me. sometimes, there are things that you need to keep for yourself. it doesn't mean that you feel ashamed or embarrassed about it, it's just that you need to keep it for yourself, that is the same as giving importance and valuing yourself. as for me, partly that is one reason, but there is an incident why i cannot open up yet. but anyway, i will be able to open up myself to myself so i will be able to open up to others when the time is right.

Yes, I reveal all about me. And I think it is not bad to become an open book for every one to read me. The people could not open the cover of their real personality, they afraid and feel inferiority complex. They do not feel pride on their life. I opened my eye in a poor family. I worked hard and reached up to a post of a respectable officer. I could be considered as a literary personality. This and many other things are there which I want to show the world. I am an open book to all. I am 60. It is also pride of my life. People gift me there respect and I distribute my love which is also open to all. Why should I reveal may self. I am gaining a lot as I am not hiding my self. Thanks dear visavis. I wish you best of lucks.

i guess everyone have. i also not reveal some pieces of me to my family. i think it is better for them not to know it than if they know it. secret sometimes need to a better situation

Well, It's depend on the situation to reveal who I am. I need to know first the person carefully before revealing who really I am

Yes, I hide lots of stuff from my man. I do share important things with him... but there is a lot that I don't share because I don't want to hurt him. I keep from him that his mom and his son drive me crazy. They are some very manipulative people that give me a headache every time I'm around them. But I know that his mom won't be there for ever and his son will grow up and move out and then it will be just us and he and I have a good thing going so I suck it up and pop and Excedrin when they start their crap. He doesn't need to know what gave me a sudden headache. Although he would be slightly stupid to not figure out that his over-sized 11 year old spraweled on the floor screaming like a 2 year old did not have ANYTHING to do with it. Lol.

I try to be as open as possible but there are things that are best kept a secret worth keeping.

The answer to this will always be yes, ok i am single at the moment but when i have had girlfriends in the past i have always made sure that i have revealed everything. I have done many things in my life, i am an honest, caring, loveing, trusting person, this is the way i was brought up and i am proud to be me. I have however made mistakes in my life but that is a part of life, we all make mistakes and we have to deal with that and we also must learn from themn mistakes so that we do not repeat them again, otherwise we do not learn and we do not change the way we are. I believe that when entering a relationship that you both feel is strong enough to last then you should always open up with things that may drive them away, if they are to leave you then so be it, but why ever tell them so late on in a relationsip or not at all and they find out and then you possibly lose them anyway, then that time with them is just wasted where you possibly could have been with someone who is happy with you and does not judge you on things that have happened in your past. I have and always will be honest with my past, if they are not happy with that then that will be the end of the relationship, i will not hide anything and so the one person that stays with me atleast i know they stay with me knowing everythng about me, that then is acommitted relationship that is built to last, we all have skeletons in our closets, we all have a past so best to be honest and upfront about things rather than risking your relationship later in life, however even if you do hold things back, for some people this may not bother them, but they may have atleast wished that you would have been able to trust them by telling them earlier.

I think that are some things that are better off to be left alone.Not because we did something good or bad but not everything should be told.I bet every person has a secret that we take to the grave and not tell a soul.

I don't reveal all of what I am here online and it will never be a good idea also for anyone to reveal all of their information and identity here. But if that is between my husband and I, we are just the ones to talk about it and I won't be discussing it here or to anyone who is not the first person concerned about since it will never be important for the whole world to know. We are not celebrities that all issues should be showed off here like a media circus and paparazzi are aware of. If there is any problem that I have with my family, with my friends or my beloved, I talked to them first and settle it and never will I ask someone that I don't know which is also not the major person involve. I keep my life simple and private, and I don't involve what others just say.

Hello visavis, Yes, I do. I almost do that every time. But on the other hand, I am a very reserved person. Reserved in such a way that I don't reveal every little thing about me. I leave very personla things to myself. I got few close friends who know my little secrets. Secrets that I know they wouldn't reveal to others but still I leave some things unsaid to them. I don't know exactly but I seem to choose what I feel like saying and depending on the person I am dealing with. There are things that I can tell to A that I can tell B and there are things that I can tell C that I cannot tell A and B.