Waiting For Your Partner Almost 30 Years......

Good question mate I'd like to wait, but i dont think i will wait. Because without communication for 30 years loosing all the time is simply too much to waste. What I will do is I will either travel along with her, or ask her to quit the job. But in any given situation I would love to travel with her. if that is not possbile I am very sure in the next 30 years I will get a chance to be with her

I believe in out of sight and out of mind, so I just can't wait that long. 30 years is jut so impossible in my case that I would rather find somebody else than wait for that someone no matter how much I love him. Love is more than that and I deserve to be someone else if takes too long years to wait for that person.

It depends entirely on the situation, would only work if there's NO Technology or modern society involved. there's a lover that hasn't each other for a long time. 15 years later, the woman found an old letter saying that the man loved her. but that was 15 year old letter. she relunctantly called her but the guy was also waiting for her too. after 15 years, they reunited and i think they got married last year

Hello welcome to mylot Lol my wife is always with me since last 44 years, well because of this 'if' in your question, i say i will wait till end of the world in case it is needed.. Thank you so much for this discussion. Professor. . Cheers have a great day ahead. God bless you. Welcome always.

No I will not wait Honestly I will only go for a relationship that have a communication because that is one of the most important thing to do to make one relationship works. No matter what he promised to me, anything can happen in between of those 30 years. Hmmm...if there's no communication at all, how can I be sure that he's still alive as well?

30 years? my god what a big number you chose ahah well i dont know i mean im only 20 years so wait for a guy for 30 years i would be like 50 years when meet love again ahah i dont think i could wait that longer unless he talks with me everyday on the phone. that way maybe i could wait bcs would feel his care. i believe in true love i really do but 30 years is so complicated. but if i really felt he was the one for me then i wouldnt wait i would just tell him wait a month please i will find a job, will receive my salary and buy the ticket and i go with him ahah i dont care what i leave behind as long as im near him^^ wait so long without him wouldnt be possible for me. i need my love near me. and sure i could wait one year in a normal long distance relation but more i couldnt unless he cared for me everyday really. but is like i say i would go with him ahah^^

woww... 30 years is really a very long time to wait for somebody... i don't think i can ever do that... that is just too stressful for me as i can't stand a long distance relationship... i can't stand loneliness and living by myself missing the person that i love... so i can't do that... 2 years is the maximum i am willing to wait for my partner and no more... take care and have a nice day...

That is a Hell of a LONG time to be waiting for a partner. I don't think that people have to wait 30 years to see each other anymore.

i think neither of us will survive this situation without cheating if it's going to be that long...30 years without seeing each other? i think it would be better if we set each other free, and be with someone else instead...we all need love - to love and be loved. and although IT IS POSSIBLE for a long-distance relationship to work out, i don't think it's gonna be a satisfying one. and thoughts of paranoia about the other one cheating will always come into each other's mind.

if he really loves the woman, then he will never leave the woman. he will refuse to work out of the country, or he will bring the woman to go with him to other country. because i've really know the real story. it is about my cousin who engaged his lover before he went to USA. he promise to come back and marry her. but the thing that is happen, he fallen in love with another woman in USa. suddenly married, and said goodbye to his fiance. isnt it cruel? but it is reality. who can wait for that so long and still be faithful to the partner? if i were her, the answer is definitely NO

Hi, If this question is hypothetical I am fine with it, but If somebody is really waiting I should say I am sorry for them. In my opinion ther is no point in waiting for a person who has not communicated to you in the past 30 years. That clearly says he/she had forgotten you for life and there is no point in wasting your time waiting for them. A person who loves will never lose contact,If by any Inevitable situations he could not contact that should be for few days or months but not for years together. It should be real innocence waiting for them and dreaming about them they would come back. Life is short,live it to the fullest. Happy mylotting Calpro