everything will end soon.

Your talking in riddles Indah. But I think it's something about past actions that you still regret up to this day, whatever it is I hope it will continue to be a secret for everyones peace of mind. But remember that secrets tend to reveal themselves when you least expect it. So be ready to face the consequences when that happens.

indahfth, we must continue our faith especially in hard times. Although we are humans and tend to make mistakes on a daily basis we certainly can learn to correct. I am as many are who does not judge people by their mistakes but rather by the way they correct them and continue on with life in the best way possible. I myslef have made many mistakes of which I am not proud of, I am my worst enemy and that is why I am very hard on myself, but I remain faithful to God to allow me to forgive myself even though he has. I wish you luck and pray that you too not be so hard on yourself, but rather gain the strength to correct some things and be helpful to others in need.

Surely there are options. You made mistakes. We all do. We have certain things we can do to reveal the problem and a resolution to it. When we are stressed we are apt to make mistakes. We are only human. I hope you can get to a fare resolution to this problem and get through it.

i believe every problems must be a solution. it is depend on us, do we want to solve the problem or just wait.

There are four powerful steps to solve every problem in life: 1. Recognizing the problem 2. Any problem there must be the source or root of the problem 3. When the root of the problem is found then the problem can be solved 4. The way out to solve problems Concrete examples? The first step is to recognize or accept that he had problem. He must dare to admit and decided to change things this. The problem is that she was repeatedly rejected her love. Many people if got problem, can only pray, let go, nrimo, and said that their problems are the forms of a trial from God. They believe that the problems they experience, because it is a temptation from God, then God was the one who must change this situation. I not agree with this view. Is not there dalinya that "God will not help change the fate of his people if his people do not willing to change their own fate. " The second step is to understand that the problem (symptom) that he experienced there must be a source or root of the problem. And the root of the problem is not lies outside itself, for example, why he always rejected woman of his dreams but the root of the problem lies within him, he was always interested in women with the same type. The third step, if the root problem which is in itself successful found, then it can overcome the problem. The fourth step is to choose the best solution that will be used in addressing the problem. After successful four-step above, so he can reap the wisdom of what he experienced.

Problems are natural obstacles that we all face in life. Everyone has troubling issues that surfaces within their lives at any moment. Have you ever heard of the old saying, "There is light at the end of the tunnel?" Well, it's true! I hope that everything works out for you, but you must have belief that your life will turn around for the best. I wish you well!

i can understand what you mean... i also make a mistake in the past and it cost me dearly now... but there is nothing i can do because i have to bear the consequences for my actions... but i try to forget about it and move on with my life... i learn from past mistakes and make sure that i won't repeat the same mistake again... take care and have a nice day...

When ever I have to face a difficult situation I look at the very worse that can happen and prepare for thst. Once I have the peace of mind knowing what I will do it rarely comes to pass. I imagine things so much worse then they turn out to be.

It is difficult to comment as I don’t know what it is that seems to be coming back to haunt you. If you made a mistake in the past you must know that it cannot be undone so the best thing to do is move forward from it and forgive yourself. I hope whatever it is that is coming back to cause you unhappiness can be resolved. I would stick to a lot of prayers for guidance if I was you.

Any mistake you will ever make, you must have the courage to bear the risk. You should also learn from the mistakes that you have to do, so you do not repeat your mistakes. Everyone will make mistakes, whether intentional or unintentional. What we need to do is to think well, before we do something.

first as indonesian, iam so sad to hear the jogja citizens condition and include you too..be tough because of merapi eruption.. second about your personal problems..i do know whats the effect if we got problems..we never focus to do something..we dont comfort to study, work or sleep and maybe eat too. but believe me, everyone had an own problems..if you think that you are say your end time is coming, believe me, still many outside you had same condition too lik you.. they all desperate but some time they need a motivation to wake up.. as your friends, i wanna say, you must wake up..wake up for your children... your children still needs you...you are his mother...

Hi Indah!. Are you at home yet?. I hear so many refuge already go back to their home. I think if God allow us to face a trouble even when it so hard,give your faith into Him he will give you the way out. Remember God has more power than any human in this world. Ask Him to help you and ask forgives to the one who you made mistake. I hope the best for you.

What can I advise to you is pray. Struggles in life is always there. It is part of human nature to face it. It is part of us to make wrong decisions in life. It is part of how we deal with life. Yes, you made a lot of mistake and its stressing you a lot, but you should be strong amidst all of these. You are the bearer of your future. Use what you have learned on your past mistakes. I've been to a lot of hardships too, but I prayed. Prayed for guidance in protection. And I trusted myself to face it and it do me wonders. You should try to talk about it to your family or close friends, maybe they can help you with it. There is no harm to try.

my friend i think you better consult your family about the problem that bothers you most which affects your life. Dont be afraid to face that problem of yours. Everyone of us has their own burden and so be it. Remember that in every problem there is corresponding answer.

As long as we are breathing we face all kind of problems. We as humans should admit our own shortcomings. We should do our utmost, pains-takingly and calmly, to resolve our own problems. Hope you are able to resolve your problems soon.

hi indahfth, i dont know what you did wrong but i feel that you have regretted all that happened although it is making you very sad because it will affect the people around you whom you love. being able to come up in the open will set you free. i hope everything will be fine with you indahfth. remember, no matter how difficult you find the things are now, tomorrow when the sun starts shining.. all is going to get better. you are strong. i know you can move on. ann

There is a saying that "secrets are not forever,you can never hold a smoke in your palms for a longer time,it will come out whether you like it or not" In your case,it's already done. You can never turn back the hands of time to regret and repent for it. What you need now is to face it bravely whatever the consequences it would give. Stand firm and face reality,this is it,this is the time to prove to yourself that,you are strong. If you were able to conquer and overcome trials in your life,there is no way that you can not overcome that one either. Believe in yourself and focus. Never let the mistake from the past turn you down. Good luck and have faith in God. Have a good day always

Sounds like your are stressed. When I begin to feel the way feel now I always look at my proudest moments when I made a positive difference in someones life. I'm a "the glass is half full" kind of person too! Some of the roughest times in my life came over the last two years, the end of which brought on two strokes. I'm still recovering. Breathe and think about the positive things you've done. We all make mistakes, how else are we going to learn?

Life which is full with challenge. Never give up easily. From the first day we were born, we have to go through so many problems and so many stages. Why we are still here? Because we never give up to survive. It is the same to all of the creatures too. Be smart and pray more. Wake up and start all over again and again. This is life.

Good you are on the positive side with positive attitude.Problem lasts for only few days and it gets solved, The life span of a problem is much lesser than out life time. We are not suffering from same problem till the end of our life. Now try to solve your problem as early as you can for the time being you said you buried.In this time try to solve the problem with the help of your family and your friends.Nothing will end as you think.So be brave face it I am sure you will come out of your problem and lead a happy life. Happy living