men's bad days! =(
By hushi22
@hushi22 (4927)
November 17, 2010 6:22am CST
when i was a nursing student i remember i had these two guy classmates who were both pissed off because the girls they courted didn't even bother to give them a chance rather gave the lesbians chances. woah....it was like a slap in my guy friends' faces.
they wondered why when in fact they have shown the girls how much they love them. the whole class really witnessed the effort and how they loved the girls, but they still failed to have them. the girls just said they prefer the lesbians because they feel even more loved.
those two guys took a long time to get over the situation.
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8 responses
@danverxxcore (347)
• Philippines
17 Nov 10
Hi I wonder why you're actually concerned about the boys. Have they even courted you? We're also from the same country and I'm not aware of any lesbians occurring in this country though. I also have no idea why those men couldn't get over the situation when they don't even have past with those lesbians. They must find someone else, there's a lot of fish in the water.
@danverxxcore (347)
• Philippines
18 Nov 10
im not pissing anyone off. okay? if you're not concerned what is it called then? I'm not against your post or anything at all. Please just calm down.
@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
18 Nov 10
I guess thats just how it is.
The problem really is that maybe those girls were not interested in men at that time. You were still in school after all.
Or it could also be they are not interested in men AT ALL.
But maybe, they are just using it as an excuse after all, your feeling for someone else cannot define how they would feel about you. They could help persuade them to change how they feel about you but it remains their decision.
@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
19 Nov 10
Well good for all parties then!
It's their choice after all. If they are happy who are we to judge right?
To each his ahem her own.. ;D
@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Nov 10
We don't know why this gals allowed lesbians to become their partner instead of the true guy. I know she has a valid reason why she make that decision. Maybe she afraid to be abuse. I mean she smell something fishy when she go for the guys. Alot of girl now is adventurous, they want to try something different. Or she might have a phobia with regards to men and women relationship that is why she choose to women and women relationship. She knows everything what is the real reason. Maybe she satisfy what lesbians can do with their relationship than a guy.
@hushi22 (4927)
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18 Nov 10
to be honest a lot of our classmates that time felt the same. like wondered why the lesbians when the guys were good looking, obviously crazy in love with them, and everything. then one girl said having a girl partner is far better than a guy because she could understand her in everything. =)
@rovered777 (649)
• United States
18 Nov 10
Man, this makes me feel sad as well, but its there choice. They might have genes that interpret love for woman only, and there is no need to question the qualities they have. Such girls usually are lesbians if they have it genetically encoded, or if they have been brutally abused by men. In the case of both, girls don't sympathize or share feelings with men. Its such a stunner for us men out there, but I guess thats how God created them. All people aren't born the same.
@thanks1961 (7033)
• India
17 Nov 10
Hi dear,
Some people are like that only. You might have heard that some baggers, if we give a good bed and pillow, they will sell it out and sleep on the floors. Here also, the fact is the same. Some people won’t be happy with the real life how it is and they want the original to be duplicated and deriving the happiness from the duplicates. They got experience only with the duplicates and unless they don’t realize how good is the original, they will always prefer the duplicates. It is their choice and feel pity, what else can say on this??
Best regards,
Thank-s
@fl0rencia (414)
• Philippines
18 Nov 10
I'm a girl but I know how they feel. They might really love the girl that's why they can't move on easily. If the girl doesn't want them in the first place, she should have told them. The guys felt insulted when the girl accepted the lesbians instead of them. It's not the guys' wrong, it's the girl's. The guys should just move on, and find someone that would accept their love.
