making love is better after LQ...

@hushi22 (4928)
November 18, 2010 2:24am CST
hmmm...let's see what mylotters think about this concept. a lot of my friends said that making love with your partner is more interesting and exciting after a lover's quarrel. is it true? why could it be?
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• Philippines
18 Nov 10
Haha, good question hushi22. On my end, I think that is true. My husband and I, I think are hot-blooded people, we are 2 different people that sometimes we argue about petty things, and after cooling off, we just laugh it off, and I think making love after quarreling is sort of our what you call, "kiss and make up". Lol!
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@hushi22 (4928)
18 Nov 10
oh...that is so cute... =) thanks for the response frenzy...
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• Philippines
18 Nov 10
You're welcome! good day :-)
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
4 Mar 12
I also think sometimes we love other person more after a quarrel because we tend to know how much we love the other person after that.
@chuyins123 (2112)
• Philippines
18 Nov 10
Maybe? But I guess this question best be addressed by the married ones. Because I'm a prolife and anti-PMS man. So I have yet to find it out when I get married to the future luckiest woman in the world. hahaha :D God bless you hushi!
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
30 Mar 12
I also think the question is probably for married people because most probably it is not good to have relations before marriage. I hope you find a good wife soon.
@hushi22 (4928)
18 Nov 10
ahhh...but thanks for the response pal. i am sure you will find it out in your time. =)
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@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
18 Nov 10
Some believe so that it is good because it is a way of "kiss and make up"..It is one way of saying, "let us forget that stupid fight". Although, after that hot or flaming making love, can you call it making love really? The issue which caused the LQ will still be there and forgotten, but not resolved.
@hushi22 (4928)
18 Nov 10
flaming making love...very nicely said. hmmm...i think it can also be called love making. why not pal?
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
18 Nov 10
Well that's what they say...they would say that a bigger quarrel would occur after an LQ haha. I guess so, I mean, we do the same thing...I don't know why though.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
18 Mar 12
I also think sometimes love becomes stronger and the feeling for a person becomes stronger after a quarrel. It is great to have a quarrel once in a while, but none should not carry it too far.
@hushi22 (4928)
18 Nov 10
hahaha! tbh, i am curious why such thing happens. hmmmm...i will definitely understand it in my time. =) thanks for the response pal. =)
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@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
18 Nov 10
I am not so much believe in this concept, all i know is and according to my own feelings it is depend on the love both you have to each other. Love quarrel sometimes lead to separation and there is no sweet honeymoon right after the scenario. I believe still to the love we have inside our heart and even in the middle of the quarrel and struggle still there is love to overcome all the pain. This is according only to my own opinion and experienced. Have a nice day!
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• Philippines
18 Nov 10
well, i also have a friend that also mentioned this kind of stuff, after a fight another fight will happen, but it will be in the bed now. i laughed when he called him, their ultimate fight. i guess, it became exciting its because, we do all know that a little quarrel in a relationship is just an added ingredient to the recipe of life. after you had burst out your feelings, you will feel relief, and the last thing you will know, your sharing your love with your love. :)
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@hushi22 (4928)
18 Nov 10
yeah that is also a very common concept with my circle of friends esp the married ones. =)
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@djbtol (5493)
• United States
18 May 12
For those who are able to quarrel, and then put it all aside so they can kiss and make up - I say that is great. The important thing is that they can have a discussion and disagree on one topic, and at the same time show each other that their love relationship is far more significant than the issue they were quarreling about. One of my regrets is that I cannot go back in time and work harder on making that my reality.
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
2 Dec 10
I think it is true in my case. Most times when I hurt my partner I feels a guilty feeling and feels the need for love and wanted to show my love to my wife. I think we should not carry too far and should not quarrel often. Once in a while quarrel is okay and I think one of the reason is that we know how much we love the person only when we miss the person's love or miss the person.
@jdyrj777 (6530)
• United States
19 Nov 10
Personally i never thought so. For me it just drove a wedge in there. Created a distance.
@celticeagle (167015)
• Boise, Idaho
19 Nov 10
I think this coud be true on several levels. You have just expelled some emotions and for some doing this is aroousing. Also, you feel more confidant about the other person's feeling after a quarrel and so the love may seem right on the surface. So this lend into it as well.
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
19 Nov 10
A lot of people who are married and is in a long term relationship always says this is true. I think i would have to agree with them. Because everytime we have a lovers quarrel with my bf we always make up afterwards by making "lambing" in our dialect or in English, say sweet and loving words with action. But since we are far from each other, we are more into words. Sweet loving words that we rarely hear during our normal days. Maybe this thing happens because couples tend to make up after the hurtful things being said and done.
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
19 Nov 10
Exciting in a sense as it really perks up the senses and nerves causing more enhanced libido on my part...after the heated argument, comes a flaming interaction of body and soul..lol!
@fl0rencia (414)
• Philippines
20 Nov 10
I guess it's true because it's your both ways of making up. I think it's fun and fine. But what if you quarrel a lot? Hahaha
@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
9 Mar 13
That is right....I feel the same condition. Maybe after a lover's quarrel, we feel find out our love again and fell that we cannot be separated. After a lover's quarrel, usually a couple fells that they are love each other.
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
19 Nov 10
I am not so sure about what others think, but we don't make love if we have a quarrel because my partner is unwilling to. We seldom quarrel, which is the fact, because most times I avoid quarreling as it will only ruin our good feeling to each other.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
18 Nov 10
Sometimes that little spark we find when we quarrel puts on a different light on the situation. it can bring out feelings we didn't know we had. it can give new tenderness and joy to where it may have been lacking before. Emotions get triggered in the strangest of ways.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
18 Nov 10
Hi dear, I don’t have anything to tell much about from my own experience. But few things I can say that after having such silly arguments and quarrel, when the situation become cold enough, people tend to normal and sometimes make fun of the same and it is quest common among couples. Sometimes there may be disagreements on certain things and it is natural that some kind of arguments and it is not necessary that it will end up in separation or divorce. The fact is that we should not make way for such happenings and if there is any chance of the same, we should stop such topics from the very beginning itself. When I was in college, two of my friends – the boy and girl were in love and it continued for 4-5 years. Finally there were so much of disagreements among them and their family. Finally they decided to separate and not go for marriage. They had higher complexes and many arguments every day. I was the witness and I fed up with such things. Once they decided to separate, I felt bad and I tried so much of effort for both of them and also discussed with both the families. Finally, they got married. So small tug of war and quarrels are common, but such things should not be enlarged and finished within a day. Hope you enjoy such things and the union afterwards are good and pleasing and may have more love thereafter. Regards, Thank-s
@stylewaves (1060)
• India
19 Nov 10
I think it will be really interesting but i am not married , so i am in doubt only
@angel107 (307)
• Germany
18 Nov 10
A kiss and make-up eh? hmm... I also heard that and saw it on Gossip Girl with Chuck and Blair(if you know the series you will understand me). Basing from the the things I have heard and saw (because I have 0 level of experience when it comes to this topic)it is indeed exciting. There is a sense of longingness to be near the other partner because when two people fight, they feel a distance between them and when they make love it will be more intense.
• India
18 Nov 10
according to me its 100% true. its my personal experience.