How would you react?
By acey76
@acey76 (1276)
Philippines
12 responses
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
18 Nov 10
Oh My! That would be a pain in the neck. It is very harsh and hurting because it would feel like it was so easy for him to find someone new. I think, the only thing I can do is leave and not letting them see me crying in pain and shock. Even though I want my ex to see me react, it would be useless because he is no longer mine.
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@joystick (1675)
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18 Nov 10
They are an ex boy friend so why would it matter, it would be very different if it was your actual boy friend.I think that there are alot of people that are really jealous of their exs being with new partners.If they did not want or you did not want to be together then that is the way it is, just a case of getting on with it.
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@Wizzywig (7847)
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18 Nov 10
It would be none of my business who he was with or what he was doing if he's an ex no matter how soon after the break up. Maybe he was seeing her before, maybe their relationship's just moved very quickly. Either way, if he's an ex, then we may still be 'friends' but he's in the past as far as anything else goes.
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@jugsjugs (12967)
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18 Nov 10
To be honest with you he is a ex and that is why i would not really care.If you were still in love with him then that would be hard,especially if he was the one that broke it off.I think that there are alot of people that break up and then wish they had not of broken up the relationship.
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@summerfed (82)
• Philippines
18 Nov 10
I experience this kind of situation because my girlfriend before is my classmate, and we broke up and after how many days she already with someone, and that someone is also my classmate, I see them everyday sweet to each other, My reaction? I'll just ignore them! :)
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@ankit_620 (496)
• India
18 Nov 10
i don't know may be i wont react at all and that is what will annoy her the most.
Anyways if we broke up a week ago thhen there is no point in reacting to it as we are no more related.I won't care what she does with her life, I got my own to handle.
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
18 Nov 10
This is a picture that would really send my heart reeling. part of me would be crushed that my boyfriend had moved on so soon. Another part of me would be angry that he could find someone else other than me to be so loving to. I'm not sure i would be ready to confront them. if i did, would i come off looking neurotic and embarrass myself over a relationship that is clearly over?
@ybong007 (6643)
• Philippines
19 Nov 10
The word ex makes all the difference. Sure, it's annoying to see an ex being sweet with someone because it could mean that he or she has moved on already and is now having a good time while you are still sulking and hurting from the break up. The best thing to do is to divert your attention and just accept that fact that the two of you are no longer a couple. I'm sure you still have your friends. Open up to them to unload some of the hurt you are feeling. Feeling miserable is only temporary and everyone whose been through a breakup all go through it. Time will eventually heal everything.
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
19 Nov 10
That is actually rude on my part. It all means that the reason he broke up with me is because he has someone else. Honestly I can't imagine myself handling jealousy.
@stylewaves (1060)
• India
19 Nov 10
I`ll just think and laugh about the sufferings and laugh how he is going to suffer !
@saqi78 (1402)
• Malaysia
18 Nov 10
Hi Acey
It really hurts when you see ex-girlfriend in the hand of other, even if you dont love her but still she was with you for a long time and you ll really feel very bad if you see her in this type of situation.
For me, I ll just leave the place and ll never see them back. But if I still love her, then ll wish for her good life and ll pray for her everlasting love...:)
Have a good day...:)