Do you simply ignore things and leave?
@primeaque86 (8108)
Philippines
November 21, 2010 2:53am CST
Okay, I want you to kindly answer me, in your own smart opinion, do you try to ignore things? Oh, that one... I don't understand when some people just try to ignore it... Can bringing it out helps? Sometimes i try to ignore things, yes I do, but I guess there are some particular that ignorance is not the solution. What can you say about this?
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@gambama (90)
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22 Nov 10
You have to set priorities. You have to ask yourself some questions:
1. Does the situation interfere with your functioning?
2. Is what is going on something that contradicts your morals?
3. Would saying/doing anything help the situation/
4. Would ignoring things make the situation worse?
AFter you answer these questions you know if to try to do something or ignore something that bothers you.
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@primeaque86 (8108)
• Philippines
23 Nov 10
Thank you so much for this my friend, oh yes, this is very helpful you know! Sometimes, it does interfere, and sometimes it does contradicts my morals, here I am now, I guess this is a crucial part... sometimes I do some actions, but sometimes, I thought it's better to get silence and leave away! Sometimes there are things that need attention the very moment it occur, but there are times that leaving it, taking a lot of time thinking would help! Thank you for sharing and happy mylotting!
@primeaque86 (8108)
• Philippines
26 Nov 10
Yes, and i am always doing that now here my friend, as often as possible i want to think many times before making any decision, it is better to determine the future consequences. Musing every night helps a lot, sometimes we need a break for something, and in that period we can be able to make a pretty decision, and we can make some important action in the next rising sun. This is a big help. Thank you very much and great mylotting everday! More power and see you next.:-);-)
@primeaque86 (8108)
• Philippines
21 Nov 10
Oh thank you, at least that one would know you just ignore bad situation to prevent temper going out of limit, and you know you are right, this whole village would have a nice freaking trouble if someone like you would just ignore him, that i think, what do you think my B?
@primeaque86 (8108)
• Philippines
21 Nov 10
But are you alright? You know, when we are going to talk about it, i could not help myself from imagining tantrums and hard whips my B...
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
21 Nov 10
No I don't ignore I do listen and see and watch . But I don't do anything I don;t want to , well mostly. To others it seems like I am ignoring the rules or whatever , but I have seen that whatever isn't how I do things and I won't do it that way. If that means I don't do it at all it is ok.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
21 Nov 10
That's a great trait to have. Wanting to solve a problem or to get to the bottom of things is wonderful way to be.
@primeaque86 (8108)
• Philippines
21 Nov 10
Oh yes that is a good trait my friend, but i know it is not really applicable at all times, several times i feel like breaking my head trying to solve some problem, when in fact, i can relax, and get it in solving back again if i can back to my senses so that i can think of much better solution.
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@primeaque86 (8108)
• Philippines
21 Nov 10
You are just standing with your principle and value in life Sarah, and I am happy to have a friend like you... Sometimes we need to stand what we think and feel is right, and we are entitled to it, no one should argue in that way! Sometimes i want to ignore things, but this my attitude never to leave one, so i would always find my way to get into it, and solve it at least the end of the day.:-)
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@primeaque86 (8108)
• Philippines
26 Nov 10
Wow, if i was not able to give my best response earlier, then you have it. You are right, perhaps if we are going to look deep into it, then it is not ignorance at all., yet a sort of hiding or running away from it temporily. I even mentioned that it is a temporary ignorance of the problem for some time to let you make up your mind... And to this friend here below, i like that idea, but you sould be talkative with sense to make your lotting productive, yet you must learn the pretty simple secret. Thank you guys and productive mylotting.:-):-)
@craigy123456789 (1759)
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22 Nov 10
I try to listen to people, we all have our opinions on things and opinions do vary. We don't all think the same way, we should atleast here what people say, it is only fair but it does not mean we have to agreewith what they say. I would not ignore a person or ignore things that they say. If we all agreed with each other on everything then it would be a boring world. Ignoring what people say or do is not needed, we should be able to voice our opinion with it being heard, we should respect each other enough to be able to say what we all think.
@primeaque86 (8108)
• Philippines
23 Nov 10
Argument somehow makes a thread healthy and productive my friend, oh yes, we have different opinions and we could not just agree to other idea that easy, it should conform to our own principle first! Somehow there are situations that needs attention right away, and there are also times, that ignoring it temporarily would help, well it all depends on your mood and available approaches. Thank you for sharing and happy mylotting!
@theundergrad (18)
• Philippines
22 Nov 10
Your right!!! Nothing is solved by simply ignoring it. Sometimes it's better to give a damn to almost anything that arouses. There is no such problem that can't be solved, and if we intend to solve it, we should talk about it. Ignorance just makes things worse! Especially when we want it to be noticed. Damn that freaks me out! You know that feeling when we see it already then nobody cares. It really hurts....
@primeaque86 (8108)
• Philippines
22 Nov 10
Thank you so much my friend, you are absolutely right, ignorance would never solve a problem but would just make it worst... but this is not an 'absolute' approach too, as I believe there are also cases that ignorance might lessen complication, but in general, it is much better and courageous to face the problem right then whatever it is...
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
22 Nov 10
hi p rime it depends on the situation for one thing. when I worked as a nurses aide I usueally could not just ignore things as it might ber something that might kill or seriously hurt the patient. but if it was simply a matter of an uncooperative patient I might ignore her or his p protests and go ahead with my job anywayt,it all depened on eahc individual situation. in the library i OFTEN did igmnore some situations as there was nothing I could do to alleviate or help the situation myself.I followed the orders I was given to do my job.If people became too noisy i would go over and politely remind them that there w ere other people who were being bothered by their noise and usually p eople would cooperate easily.the thing was always to depend on common sense.
@primeaque86 (8108)
• Philippines
22 Nov 10
Yes, And I learned it from here again my friend hatley, with you here! I have learned a lot of things from you, somehow other people would say that they are just getting here for cents, but eventually this community would become part of them, and would comfort them when they are in trouble like me here... Oh yes, to ignore things would always depend in the situation, sometimes we have to do necessary actions, but there are also times that we have to ignore things and leave it for a while. have a blessed day my friend hatley!
@ladysakurax (1161)
• Canada
21 Nov 10
It all depends on the time, moment, and the subject in question. Let's say that i am at class and someone is calling me, i would ignore it because it would be a hassle to leave the classroom and bother the other students. If i am at home and my bedroom is a mess, when i am a very lazy person, i woudl do it if it's an eyesore and it's distracting me.
@primeaque86 (8108)
• Philippines
21 Nov 10
Very good my friend, yes, that is one of the best example... The word ignore is applicable for a certain circumstances. Sometimes there are things that need prompt actions, yet there is also this time, that to ignore it completely or temporarily would work better. Thank you for sharing and happy mylotting.
@emerillus (467)
• Philippines
21 Nov 10
It depends on the thing being ignored. I totally ignore people trying to annoy me because they are not worth my time and to stop them from annoying me more. They will eventually stop. In matters of cleanliness, I can't just ignore if my room is in a mess, a lot of things not in their proper places and dust on the windows because I get annoyed seeing those and would become calm and relaxed to be in a clean place.
@primeaque86 (8108)
• Philippines
21 Nov 10
Very nice idea my friend. That is right, ignoring depends on the subject matter. If we say people who annoys us, then we can leave them alone. If it is a problem, if we then think we cannot find solution for now, then we can relax a bit, come back to our good senses, and if it is about things, yes, if we see room or something that needs attention, then we must do action properly, and ignoring might not so applicable. Great day...
@calpro (930)
• India
22 Nov 10
Ignore things like what? If it is related to me and it effects me in some way or the other I do not ignore it. If it is something like national problem or state problem in which we do not have any control I simply ignore it.Just merely discussion about it for hour s does not make any sense to me. when it is my problem or my family's or even my friends problem I cant ignore it and leave.
I try to console and solve it in the best way I can. Simple whether it is related to your life or your family also your friends just don't ignore it. Anything beyond just ignore.
Happy Mylotting
Calpro
@primeaque86 (8108)
• Philippines
22 Nov 10
Hi calpro, thank you for coming in again here at my post, I really appreciated it and the responses you gave with weight. Oh yes, things could not be just ignored it it would mainly affect us or those people who are attached or close to us! There are also problems that beyond our control like what you said, so we better ignore it or we would break our head from thinking. Have a good day calpro and happy mylotting!
@xiaoanorincess (237)
• China
21 Nov 10
yeah,sometimes I try to ignore things or even people!but the question is taht it didn't work.I will become more and more annoyed!so the best way to deal with a problem is to face it and find the origins of this problem.escap from it will do thing worthwhile!
@primeaque86 (8108)
• Philippines
22 Nov 10
That is also a good idea my friend and a good trait... somehow we could not really ignore things at all because it keeps tailing our back and bothering and annoying us most of them times and we feel uneasy, so the best thing to do is turn back, face it, and solve it to the best we can! Happy mylotting my friend!
