Aside from food, what's the best way to win a man's heart?

Hi! I think you need to be patient and polite with your husband to win him. Constant nagging and shouting on trivial issue can put him off. All the best to you.

Hello elsMarie, I don't know about you're case because i don't have any clue about you're boyfriend. not all men are the same, some men do have a want from women. most are usually physical features, and very positive attitude. Though, I want to share my experience. it was the first time that i had a relationship once, I focused on my studies way better than my highschool years. from that, part of me started to emerge, later i realized I was so inspired that being the best in the class made me had friends. but the relationship didn't last long as she and I wanted to just be friends. she's now working in dubai as nurse. For me, I want a women that will inspire to "release" my potential. yeah, when a women does win mine, i do the impossible. sad though, am back to the state that i was in high-school.another thing is that, when the woman accepts who I am, and i noticed she suffers silently from my negative things, that's when I change slow. but for now, my perception of having a women in a relationship nothing more than "pain later" and headache.

To magnetically glue a man's heart, she should be fun, sexy and most importantly easy to be with. She should be able to trigger something inside him that goes much deeper than the common physical attraction that men can do and experience for many women....if he's going to feel and know that THIS woman is not just any woman, but the ONE WOMAN he wants to be with. Man likes woman who can communicate intellectually and is confident. Nagging is the weapon that kills a good relationship.

Coddle him! Men love to be coddled!

Devotion. Bordering on Stalking (only in public places tho).

I find that any girl that has interest in me will arouse interest from me to her. Any guy would at very least feel flatter when a girl appreciates him. A nudge and a push in the right direction can sway any man's heart.

Sacrifice your tv show, to let him watch football ! ....?

Just be yourself. A man knows from the beginning if he wants you to be his so why try to do something that isn't you? I used to ask myself the same question then when I met my husband he said he knew he wanted me to be with him for life. Just one thing don't sleep with them right away or until your married. It sounds wierd but it's true. The guy who really wants you will want someone who is not easy.

Hey eLsMarie, I don't know how. Maybe a girl should just have a natural charm. I know I do! Last Friday I was at the clinic for a check-up. I was at the very bottom of the list for my turn. So while waiting, there was this guy beside me. He was glancing at me and it's not hard to notice. My phone turned off and I don't have a watch so I don't have a choice but to ask him what the time was. After that we talked for 2 hours straight. He was the one who keeps on talking. We shared ideas and opinions throughout the conversation, more on religion and love. It was like we were friends for 4 years. There was something in his eyes that were saying like "I've never met a girl like you". When I got out of the clinic, he was still staring at me and smiling like there's something else he wants to say. Can't explain it. It was so surprising that we like the same movies and tv series. We were like lost soul mates. Going back to the question, a guy likes an interesting girl. With my age, 20, they like someone smart. It challenges them since guys shouldn't be outsmarted by a lady. It's not on looks alone by the way.

just a simple care, if you are careful about man whom you love, you can easily win the persons heart & another thing is Trust, you have to create a trust for you in that person....!

I believe, being true to one's self and to your man and not trying hard to be someone else. Being thoughtful, caring and loyal and loving ofcourse, is what my fiance always tell me that made him fall in love with me. :) He had always wanted someone who would be sweet and caring to him, something he never saw or experienced from his ex. :)