Interfering and Matchmaking Aunt

Philippines
November 22, 2010 12:59pm CST
I've really close to this aunt of mine when I was still a child, but when I started being courted she was always against the boys who visit me, even more when I had my 1st boyfriend. Worse, she had liked my bf before my fiancée now but I didn't love him...have you experienced this? my parents are okay, but I love my aunt too and I want her to accept the man I will soon be marrying...can you suggest what I should do??
2 responses
@camposkat (306)
22 Nov 10
I guess it's just a matter of introducing your fiancée to your aunt and let them get to know each other better so that any presumptions or pre-judgemental thoughts by your aunt about him will eventually all fade away. :) If that doesn't work then just show your aunt how much you love each other and care for each other so that will not have any doubts about the guy's loyalty and love for you. If it still doesn't work, you may need to speak to your aunt about it that you've done your part, your fiancée has done his part of reaching out to her and if she still cannot accept him, then she probably is being one-sided and not being open-minded at the situation. Good luck and congratulations on getting engaged! :) I hope it all goes well with you and your aunt.
• India
22 Nov 10
if you like the boy you marry him are if you not like him said to your parents and try to convince them they will understood your feeling friend try to express your self only you have to take select on your life don't defend on others and you don't want to kill your feeling means your loosing your happiness for others only listen to the words of your dad and mom not others wish you happy life friend