What is your opinion about having a lesbian friend?

As a lesbian, I am not uncomfortable having a straight friend. LOL I think you shouldn't BE uncomfortable. Because she is your friend! If you can't accept her, then your not a real friend to her. Might as well not be 'friends' with her than to be uncomfortable. If she was your friend BEFORE you found out that she was a lesbian then think about, why you like her as a friend? She is a real person like you and a girl, only difference is the preference. That she likes girls. But if you knew that she was a lesbian from the start (that u were friends) then you were not really her friend because you said you are uncomfortable. I hope you understand that and don't worry. We are people too.

what ever friends you have, they are all humans..i have a lesbian friend to & im not bothered at all..

I like having lesbian friends because they can be as strong as men. They can be of so much help during cat fights. Lol. I actually have 2, a couple and so far, I have no reason to feel uncomfortable around them.

I believe there's nothing wrong having a lesbian friend. We must treat each other fairly and equally. It's also good to know lesbian people because you get to understand them better because you can interact with them.

I have a couple of lesbian friends, and I treat them as I would my straight friends. They are quite fun to hang around with because I can break free from the girlish squeals of some of my friends; I can be the tomboy I was in grade school and they wouldn't scold me for not combing my hair. Hanging out with lesbian friends is like hanging out with your guy friends only you can still talk girl stuff with them.

Hello cassijie74 i have a lesbian friend just like you ,it will be uncomfortable at first,but as long as she shows no interest on you ,you two can be friends,and you 'll get used to having a friend like her.Its a unique life experience,isn't it?And i think that we should respect our friends' lifestyle,we all have rights to choose who we love ,so just let it go ,a lesbian can also be a sincere friend .

I think it is fine, to have a gay/lesbian/bi friend. They are people, and just because they may like your gender, it doesn't change who they are, and the type of friend they are.

I have no problem with lesbians or gay men. Their sexuality is only one portion of who they are. It is all the other aspects of a person that I am more concerned with, personality, honesty, integrity etc.

You certainly have every right to choose who is and who isnt your friend and would be wise to do so. That said, if this girl is someone you like and think might be a good friend, you should spend some time getting to know her for more then just who she shares her bed with, if your to uncomfortable around her, discuss it with her. I'm sure once everything is out in the open, you will both enjoy each others company more. I myself am bi, I have lots of straight and gay/lesbian friends, as long as we know and respect each others boundries we get along great. Hugs Tianna!

I don't have any problem with them, it depends on their personality.

yeah, it's really quite hard as when you try to befriend with them, they think that you like them, but when you put a distance between you and them, they'll think that you're somewhat against them. it's difficult.

Well, I do have a lesbian friend. It does not mean I'm one but I do talk to her and treat her as a human being. I don't approve her lifestyle but I still treat her as a friend. But everyone may have different opinion. If you really could not accept it, it is better don't. It is better than forcing yourself to befriend a lesbian without sincerity.

Hello cassije! I do not have a friend like her. I think we should not consider them though as different, we should respect them as they are since they have the same need as we have like being accepted and to feel belonged, it would hurt their feelings if you show that you are uncomfortable with them. I understand that it does not make you accept your friend overnight however, you may want to know her positive qualities and focus on that rather than her preferred sexuality. Cheers!