cheat
By keessrose
@keessrose (51)
November 28, 2010 2:18am CST
would you tell your partner if you cheated? Is telling the truth worth the pain? do you consider kissing someone else already being unfaithful... this is what my friend asked me.
I'm not a man and I don't live in a very liberated country, but I am open and exposed to such things...
yes it may be cheating but for me, it's not that much if there's no love involved, if it's for physical pleasure, it's forgivable, but if there's emotion involved, it's a different thing...
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5 responses
@simonelee (2715)
• China
29 Nov 10
Hello there. If ever i committed something behind my partners back i probably admit it to her than keeping to my self and be bothered all the same. It is not easy to admit a sin especially if you cheated to your love one but it is much better to tell to her than pretending that everything is perfect. We know that truth is painful but our partner deserve to know the truth and it is also the only way to free our mind and conscience.
As what your friend stated i still consider it as cheating either physical or emotional involvement it is still cheating. If that's how your friend define cheating then it conflicts the world, our relationship with our beloved one will be miserable,we live in a dishonest world. And if it's not cheating then we can use it an excuse, right? Then only our conscience will judge us if that is how we define cheating....
@keessrose (51)
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30 Nov 10
wow very good point, sometimes we make other statements, to justify a mistake, making it sound reasonable... but it's just an excuse actually... trying to clear one's conscience...thanks simonlee
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
28 Nov 10
The decision to confess cheating on your partner is not an easy or pleasant one to make. So many feelings and emotions will come out. Suffering the consequences on confession may not be what you choosee to do but it will be the best way to save a relationship and go on with life.
@Auntiescarf (842)
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28 Nov 10
I consider kissing to be cheating. I would prefer someone to tell me if they had cheated on me, as I wouldnt want to think that my relationship is going good if they feel like they need to kiss someone else.
