best way to make kids eat every meal

@tigeraunt (6326)
Philippines
November 29, 2010 8:08am CST
dear mylotters, we know how important every meal is for a kid and even for adults. but kids do not know that for them even if you say so. as parents, we want them to obtain the nutrition that they need at every meal but what if they dont want to eat at times? as a parent, we should establish eating times on weekdays and weekends. it should be maintained. you can determine when an appropriate time is for a healthy snack and when to tell them they need to wait until dinner. also establish two snack times and one dessert time. dont load the kids on soda before a meal. limit the children to one slice of bread while waiting for the main meal. small moderations like this can go a long way in promoting health and wellness for your growing kids. do you have any other tips to make kids eat every meal? do share. ann
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@bin22l (160)
• Guwahati, India
16 Dec 10
Kids do not know what to eat and what not to.But it is the duty of the parents to give them nutricious food.But most time we the parents get trouble to feed kids.So in different time we play different tricks to feed kids.Whether those tricks are good or not we do not know.Will it be have some impact when the kids grow older?The best thing is that the kids be given nutricious food mixing with the foods they like most.Do not make a routine for the kids for meal. give their meal when they like.
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
19 Dec 10
hi bin22l, kids would prefer play than eat. and they can go a long way without food but i dont think that is healthy for growing ups. i would use psychology to make them eat on time without forcing them. but they need to eat when they need to and not just because they want to. i guess routine is not the word.. it is necessity for them to eat right and on time. also, that is partly discipline. thank you so much for your idea. do keep responding. very much appreciated. have a nice day. ann
@Kalyni2011 (3496)
• India
8 Dec 10
i never encourage kids to eat junkfood, chocolates and candy, when they go to school, they are given a small luch box, that contains home made things and they carry water bottle too, they are given money, but advised not to buy chocolates etc.. it is our responsibility to keep the healty in all respects.. thank you so much for this discussion cheers kalyni
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
8 Dec 10
dear kal, i can see you are so fond of kids. lucky are your nieces and nephews. but i say the granddaughters are really special. right? we will share with them everything except, being toothless thank you for your comments. God bless you and have a very nice day. ann
@angelsmummy (1696)
29 Nov 10
Well my daughters are aged one and two and from around 5ish months they have been weaned... I tried baby led weaning and thought it was fantastic!!! I have not had a problem yet with anything they have eaten or tried... I guess I am lucky as many of my friends children have issues eating. I think its best not to put too much pressure on them.. I never ever let my girls have soda, they are only allowed milk or water, fruit juice if we are out.. Just try to let them eat in their own time
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
11 Dec 10
hi angelmummy, i prefer to train them to have a time habit with regards to eating. when they are trained that way i too will be able to manage my time well. thank you for your comment. have a very nice day. ann
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
2 Dec 10
There are a lot of vegetables that children don't seem to like, based solely on the principle of the vegetable. However, I have found with my children if I offer them something to dip their vegetables in, they will eat almost every vegetable. My eight-year-old now tells us that her favorite vegetable is asparagus and the first several times that I offered it to her she wouldn't touch it at all. I think this is a great tip for parents.
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
16 Dec 10
hi dora, its the variety of taste that the children are after. and we parents are after the nutrition that it brings. but of course, we also want to teach them the value of forming a habit. as they grow older, the habit will give them the discipline needed for them to be able to manage time.. and so on and so forth. we all know, everything starts from a little move.. and as they grow older, habits will become rules in their minds, and people with discipline will grow a healthy, organized life. have a very nice day. ann
@calpro (930)
• India
30 Nov 10
Hi, My son is 4 years old and to make him eat his meal completely is a difficult task for me. My wife does this with so ease. She does not allow any thing to eat before 1 hr of taking meal. She tells him the advantages of having a complete meal in the form of stories which involve his favorite characters like power rangers, Spider man etc. How they eat to get so much of power etc. I think this works and she also waits for him to be hungry, she will not allow anything to eat or drink before meal.
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
19 Dec 10
hi calpro, the technique is so good. story telling would really make the kids look up to her and the characters in the story and follow examples. thats what i call smart thinking, right? have a nice day. ann
@mustread (224)
• Bulgaria
29 Nov 10
My parents used to fool me by saying " eat this for mommy's health "and I ate a full spoon , then " eat this for daddy's health" and I ate another spoon. I loved them too much and didn't let anything to chance . That's how my parents used to feed me , but you can try adding something your kids love in every meal , like a gummy bear . Or you can tell them that after dinner they will go watch TV for an hour , or have 2-3 gummy bears to eat.
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
19 Dec 10
hi mustread, i love the psychology. relations would just make you more closer. have a great day. ann
• United States
7 Dec 10
My son is only 4 and there are times when he doesn't want to eat much. I don't force him to eat it. If he eats he does and if he doesn't then he doesn't. He will tell me when he's hungry and I will get him something to eat or a snack or something. He wanted a piece of leftover pizza for lunch today and he also wanted some grapes. He ended up not eating hardly any of the pizza but he ate all the grapes. Then a little later he ate some mandarin oranges and some other snacks. He also has a cold right now so he's not been wanting to eat too much because of that.
@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
29 Nov 10
Sometimes children can be picky to the food. And sometimes they don't want to sit down well and finish their meals. In order to let them be interested in eating the food, I think the best way is to let them participate the cooking. Children like cooking and they are very happy to help you. And when the meal is finished, they will be so proud of themselves and they will finish the meals. I love China
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
18 Dec 10
Hi tigeraunt, I used to rake my brain trying to make my 3 children eat while they were growing up ! each one had different taste in food . But, thankfully none of them were difficult eaters and as long as I made their favorite dishes they would eat their meals with the least amount of fuss ! I guess that it is best to cook what they want and bring in any nutritional changes in small doses so that it doesn't seem glaring! I used to make Rice, Rotis and Chicken curry which they loved and also place a huge plate of salad which they would eat without fussing , or add vegetables to the meat curry , which they love to this day ...
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
29 Nov 10
My kids love cheese, so to get them to eat broccoli I add some cheese. Of course, you probably won't want to add cheese to everything, so that's when it gets tricky. If you serve soups or chilis, you can always add vegetables. Just sneaking good, nutritious food into every day meals is how I get it done. I also add spinach into my meatloaf. My son hates spinach, but loves meatloaf and will eat a good serving of vegetables like this. I can't wait to see other responses to this discussion.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
30 Nov 10
hello, The best way i know to make my kids eat and have their meal on time without having difficulty is,cook their favorite dishes. Thou sometimes it seems eating the same dish or menu all the time,but it has to be that way just to make my kids have their meal on time. Of course it should be healthy too,the good thing is my kids eats vegetables. My youngest son loves veggies a lot and my second son loves chicken. So,most of the time,i cook chicken and veggies at the same time. Have a good day :)
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
1 Dec 10
Hi, Being a mother, I have to make sure that my son is having a healthy meal everyday. I never let him eat outside food,I will do the cooking for him everyday. I do believe that home cooked meal is the most healthier food. As my son is not meat lover, so he likes to eat any kind of vegetables. I have to change my menu everyday,so that he will have chance to try out different kind of food. In between, he will have his snack, always a healthy snack like barley soup or greenbean soup with cake or bread. As my son is easy to get heaty,no biscuit for him. You can also set up bento set for your kid, make it more fun and looks nice. And do remember to join your kid while eating because when he sees you eating, he will eat also and we are having fun eating together.
• India
29 Nov 10
Anny dear We must give training to kids in all possible ways, for all things, once they learnt it is so useful in the long run, they should not be given fast foods, in my home my grand kids are always given home made snacks, that has minimum oil, chilly etc. Soda softdrinks we never give to kids, we don't take ourselves or keep in home.. Thank you so much for sharing this nice, informative discussion. Professor. . Cheers have a lucky day ahead. God bless you. Welcome always.
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29 Nov 10
I am blessed with a healthy two year old boy who loves his fruit and veg. Please don't throw things! I know I am lucky! I have to say though, I am pretty strict with him and always have been. I think there are a few things that have helped him enjoy his food. 1. I started pureeing strong dark green vegetables when he first started weening at 5 months. Brocolli, cabbage, sprouts, leeks, cauli, lentils. I know it was mean but he didn't seem to mind and now he enjoys them (I think!) 2. Unless he is ill, I don't pander to him. When he refuses his meal he doesn't get another option. Also, I have never really been in to puddings. He will either have fruit or a yoghurt. So I don't mind him skipping his main and only having hte dessert, because I know he is still getting something that is good for him. 3.(And this is a do as I say not as I do one) Don't make food-time a battle. Kids won't go hungry. They aren't stupid. So relax. IF they refuse and kick up a fuss about dinner time, offer them a piece of fruit or milk so they have something in their bellies and give up. Keep going for a few days an eventually they'll twig that they only get what is served up. 4. Eat the same as the kids. If they see you eating it and enjoying it, they will too. Of course, I know I am lucky and maybe none of hte above has helped at all to make my son enjoy his healthy food. Maybe it is all down to luck!