I get bored always!
By rsaburnido
@rsaburnido (35)
Philippines
December 3, 2010 3:28am CST
I don't know why i get bored always, I don't have a lot of friend and nowhere to go in this kind of situation. I always search on the net where to go when I am bored and I stumble upon mylot. Please share your experience on how to avoid being bored always.
I want to make new friends but I am afraid maybe they don't like me..sigh..I am afraid if they will reject me. Please share with me your best site where you enjoy the most and I will surely check that one. Thanks for reading this post. God Bless and have a great day!
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14 responses
@whitestich02 (1056)
• Philippines
7 Dec 10
for me i spend my time using my computer and also sometimes i feel bored because i dont know what will i do on that day. have a great dayto us and keep up a good work.
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@Monkeyrose (2840)
• Canada
4 Dec 10
Actually I find mylo t the best way to make online friends. I find everyone here very polite an nice. Its also good to join blogs on websites of things that your interested in.
Are you trying to find online friends or friends in real life?
If you are try ing to find friends in real life you can try sites like meetup.com. They have all kinds of groups in different areas that have specific interests. Often they have meetups. This how I met some people to go rock climbing with.
I will add you on mylot as a friend. This place is great. I have been a member for 4 years.
Good luck with curing your bordem and making new friends!
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
9 Dec 10
There are lots of things to keep one busy. When we are idle we become more bored. I think one of the best way to avoid boredom is to be with children or kids around. Most times we will become happy and most times we forget our stress and depression. I would watch cartoons like Tom and Jerry to keep me happy and to avoid boredom. Sometimes I will visit seashore and spend the time on the beach. This helps me to refresh myself.
@gi2h_san (162)
• Indonesia
11 Dec 10
hai rsaburnido
i think we have the same problem.. just imagine i have been off for 44 days but im not going nowhere. it's true that i dont have many friends because im still new in this environment.. i have been spending my time by sleeping and browsing internet..
now i have a conclusion about this problem.. we need to spend more time in our real life.. let's star make a friend with many people.. i will try my hardest for that noww..
and i wanna ask you.. why do you feel afraid that people will reject you as a friend??
@ellaangelus (283)
• Tokelau
4 Dec 10
i get bored either when i'm at school or at home writting homework for school, so my boreness only relates to school XDD in all the other activities, even though i'm just watching TV, is okay by me.
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@chelseabelle (197)
• United States
4 Dec 10
I usually make my friends at work, but if you're not working there are plenty of places to go to find friends. And the only way you will know if they like you or not is to strike up a conversation. If they don't then it's not the end of the world. There are tons of people on this plant and it's highly unlikely that everyone in the world is going to dislike you lol.
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@autumndreamer (3185)
• Philippines
3 Dec 10
Hi! Welcome to Mylot! Don't be afraid to make new friends and the thought being rejected shouldn't be on your mind. Believe in yourself and just be happy and friendly all the time. People will be coming your way if you just believe. I believe in the power of mind, weird but true. LOL. Just enjoy your stay here in mylot and make new friends, people here are so friendly.
@ajith_kumar (721)
• India
3 Dec 10
Hi it is very hard to hear that your bored .And in my case I am so busy because I have lot of friends .And you said you use mylot to kill times but I don't get lot of time to discuss in mylot.Anyhow your spending your time usefully.If your really bored Why don't you try games,music etc.Since you internet there is no worry about boring ,because we have lot of things in internet to pass time .I use to play games in this website http://www.come2play.com even though I said games I will not play so many games.My favorite game is chess and I just stick with that .But in this site which I mentioned we have lot of games If your really interested in games you can very well try this website
@gunagohan (3414)
• India
3 Dec 10
I spend most of my time in Online Gaming and also in some forums..
Whenever i get bored, i just stick to online chess playing websites and play throughout and if i get bored in that, i will go to any technical forums to read some technical updates...
So, bored, then i will watch a movie !!!
@JudgeIronFist (2472)
• Singapore
3 Dec 10
If you want, you can play some games in Miniclip or if any of your friends have games in their computer, get it from them. For me, I got rid of my boredom just by listening to jazz and playing games, mostly. I know how it's like to be bored and nothing to do. You know, when I get bored, I'll search around for things and even powering up the browser just thinking of what to search, lol. So, get yourself something to do say cycling or what. Most importantly, don't coop yourself at home all day. Try asking some of your friends out. I'm sure they'll go with you.
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
4 Dec 10
I know the feeling. Some things that I do to keep myself from getting to bored is, to do something that I really enjoy doing like crafts, reading, or watching a good movie. Sometimes, I will do some research on the internet or just go for a walk. It's easy to get bored, when there's not a lot of people around...family and friends.
@penrockerchic (1903)
• Philippines
3 Dec 10
Boredom is such a dreadful thing. I think I'm quite like you. It's like I feel I need to do something productive, exciting and worthwhile during the day instead of just staring into space or just not doing or thinking about anything. You can enjoy so much here at mylot since there are so many interesting discussions you can read, blogs and articles you can check and even give comments on or do some tasks here at mylot. But if you're still bored, try doing something else that you've never done before. A new hobby, a new show or a new place can always kill my boredom.
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
3 Dec 10
I got a lot of friends but we hardly meet anymore, so it's like having no friends at all. I stay in the garden when I get bored or watch a movie. Sometimes I would read a book and watch a TV show.
I spend a lot of time online, chat online and get paid, and yes I stay here to keep myself busy.
Don't be shy and just ignore rejection. Don't fear it or you'll never grow and find new friends. Build your self-esteem!