If YOU remember ME...

hello saphy, That's something my dear,you want to be remembered for who you are and now for what you did.(great) For me,i will remember you as a loving,sweet and mysterious angel Thanks for your response dear and have a great weekend

aw...correction pls,sorry typo err "you want to be remembered for who you are and "not" for what you did " have a great Sunday

Thank you sweetie. That is so nice of you.

honey, I am sure you will always be remembered by the people who loved you,but i doubt with the people who hate you (hahahaha) just kidding. You are a sweet person,but only those people who knows you personally know the real you. Keep it up and be the best of whoever you are..no need to please anyone..not even rberon

uhmnn...but i think he is very much pleased about you

HAHAHHA!still in this discussion?weeeeeeeeeeeeee and i am lucky that you are one of those people who knows the real me :)

hello dear bhai, I am sure you are a good person,because it's not easy to make other's people happy. And making them a your priority in life is a big sacrifice. I can guess how much you loved your family being selfless and making them happy always. Thanks for your response and have a good day always my dear bhai

hello SimpleBB, I agree that no one in sane mind wants to be remembered for all the bad things. but,in some cases there are other people who are remembered by people who have known him/her for the bad things he/she had done. Anyway,it's their choice,and whatever reason why there are people who are mean and rude to other people it is only them who knows about it. I believed there is a reason behind those rudeness/meanness they've shown to other people. Normally,people wanted to be remembered for all the good qualities,and it is not easy to be good to everyone (even to people who think we are not that good) People may judge us for who we are,what matters most is,it is US who knows ourselves better and as long as we never indulge in bad things,let the other people judge us according to how they think who we are. We cannot avoid other people who are judgmental. Your friends and loved ones must be lucky to have you in their lives. Thanks for your response and have a good day always

I try to be... Don't know if I can be that special person in other's life. But my close friends and relatives have never drifted away from me. That is something I envy in them and always try to be there for them, just the same way they are there for me.

I am sure you will find that someone that will treat you as "special" You're friends and relatives are very lucky to have you in their lives.

hello sagnik, That can be accepted,people becomes rude for a reason. The upbringing is one big factor to be considered why one person behave that way (rude or mean). I also believed that,even how polite and how good one person is,if he/she get sicked of things around,or maybe he/she is facing big problem then in some circumstances he/she gets annoyed or pissed of that might end with bad result. I guess you are a loving and caring friend,brother and a wonderful person in totality for your loved ones to remember you that way. Thanks for your response and have a great Sunday

hello dear bhai, hahaha...see,it's a year ago... what a coincidence is it? you started this discussion a year ago and though i also have in mind that maybe someone ever started a discussion like this,i never thought that it's YOU! This only shows we have same thought about life and personality Have a great weekend dear bhai

hello my dear sister Thanks for remembering me that way,same thing with you dear. I agree with you,like one mylotter response as,people behave mean or rude to catch attention. Some people doesn't mean to be rude or mean,they are just helpless (lack of education and proper guidance) But,i wonder why there are some professionals who are mean and rude and behave much illiterate than uneducated person. I understand if they are having problem,(that's an excuse) But then again,there are rich/professional people that really are mean and rude in their whole life.(well,it's their choice..let it be) thanks for your response dear and have a great Sunday

hello twinklee, What a nice comparison you got here. You are right,first impression lasts. So,no matter how who you are it is how you express yourself to people who doesn't know you personally. Most people judge other people from the first acquaintance. Besides,it's not the society status that matters,but the inner person in you. Even if you are poor or uneducated, if you are a good person,people admire you for being one. But if you are rich or professional,yet you are rude and mean,people will always remember you for all the bad things. Being frank is good way of expressing yourself freely. Having sense of humor is best way of winning friends and making people approach you easily. It's not easy to make others people happy,and making them smile is a big achievement on your part. I guess you are a good friend and a wonderful person to your loved ones too. thanks for your response and have a good day always

hello buggles, I like what you've said,that maybe people who are rude,mean or unfair acted those ways to catch attention. Maybe you are right,maybe they just wanted some attention from people they love,and that's their way of catching attention. I can relate this to my son who did wrong things because he said he just want my attention (he seems jealous to his sister and other brother) Thanks for your excellent response too,and have a great weekend

hello sender, Most people want to be remembered as a loving and caring person. I also want to be remembered that way,because i also love and care my friends and family more than myself. Making our loved ones as our priority is not an easy task,it takes one to be selfless in order to make our loved ones first before ourselves. And making our loved ones happy give us achievement that money can't buy. I am sure your loved ones are proud of you. thanks for your response and have a good day always

hello cat, I missed your discussion dear Yes,i can bet about it,you always wanted to be remembered as a loving person. And I,myself can say that i will always remember you that way. Your discussion alone can prove how loving you are dear cat Pain in the as*? i don't think so you are that kind of a person. I know you can be trusted,let me tell you a secret later okay ? (hehehe) Thanks for your response dear and have a great loving weekend

hello terry, Putting everyone before yourself,that's one of the best qualities not every people can do. As we have known lot of people are selfish,self centered and greedy. And,being extra nice to mean people is another plus factor. You have an extra big heart to do all those things dear and i believed that you are really have a good and kind hearted person. Thanks for your wonderful response and have a great weekend

hello zenkey, You are the second mylotter who said that rude people maybe just want some attention that is why they acted that way. That can be acceptable though with some people,but with people who seems to hate the world and don't even know how to smile or appreciate life,then i doubt. Being happy is a choice,and you choice to be happy always. Trust is the last thing to loose in any relationship,and being a trustful person give you all the good impression to everyone who knows you. Your fiend and loved ones are lucky to have someone like you in their lives. thanks for your response and have a good day always