Playing hard to get.
By Lore2009
@Lore2009 (7378)
United States
December 3, 2010 6:04pm CST
Do you like playing hard to get when it comes to relationships? It seems to me that a lot of people like this. When what you want is right in front of you, nobody seems to go after it until it starts running away from you. I guess everybody likes a challenge, and this may go for everything, not just relationships, whatcha think?
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7 responses
@sender621 (14890)
• United States
4 Dec 10
I have never been the type at playing hard to get. Those kinds of games can easily backfire. You might end up with a situation you didn't want.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
I like girls playing hard to get. I guess it's one of the laws of seduction: anything that's scarce is often sought. It's a total turn off when the girl just throws herself right at me. It just makes the magic disappear.
@autumndreamer (3185)
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
What you said is true. I think it's what makes things exciting. When you can't get something easily, you want it more. If you got something easily, it's like you're bored already. I think that belief is right. That may be the reason why most girls play hard to get.
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
4 Dec 10
I myself do not believe in "playing" hard to get. What is to be earned from such behavior besides heartache? I think that some individuals act like they don't care for someone, until someone else has won the heart of their desired..You know, I don't want you until someone else has you? It's all childish, and people that play these games are just wasting time. Life is to short for such antics.
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
4 Dec 10
Well, some do not always end up in heartache... some can make people more creative and test themselves to see if they really want this or not. But I do find it childish for those who want people once they are taken.. in those cases they've just lost their chances.
@joedollarhuat (580)
• Philippines
10 Dec 10
Greetings :)
Being a guy, I would go after someone I like. However, when I realize that after a certain time that what I am doing is useless, I would go after someone else. This philosophy is practical and very much realistic. Playing hard to get is fine, however, people should know when to give in. Girls have a body clock to chase, meaning after a certain age, childbirth is difficult or impossible. So overall, play hard to get if you want but, know your limits because, certain people can only take so much.
Have a nice day :)
@vanderzaz (49)
• United States
4 Dec 10
Not playing hard to get but giving a time (at least a year.) to learn each other before commiting it. I think it's better to say this way.
