I am losing faith that i can still earn cash
By anex08
@anex08 (868)
Philippines
December 3, 2010 11:14pm CST
Be back.. My GOD, I have encountered so many challenges and problems this week. my husband got laid off in his job and I have to support my family on my own income. And right now I am really confused if still I can get back on track. It's hard not having cash left in your pocket, for all those bills that I have to pay I can feel my brain almost empty. I really don't know what to do, I can't even think clearly now.
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12 responses
@niairen01 (1018)
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
Be strong anex, challenges sometimes do comes our way, and this doesn't mean you have to give up already, Just know that God give you this kind of trial because he thinks you can handle it.
I'll tell you what to do... Stop for a while and focus. take a deep breath and think about something you want to achieve. After that, think about how you want to achieve that thing. To make things short, start from the very beginning and forget about what had happened. Think about what you're going to do about the problem and not the problem.
I know this is hard, but this too will pass. Good luck! God bless.
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
I feel sorry for you my friend. I think, when we began to create our own family, we should not rely on what our husband can provide. What I mean is that, we have to have an income and savings of our own so that in case of emergency, we have something to dig for our family. Well, I do not want to give pressure to you right now as you mentioned you cannot clearly think.
Indeed, you need to be strong right now my friend. Be practical for now but you have to be wise on your decisions. Since your husband has no job right now, think of ways where to get money for your daily expenses. What about taking some part time works? Is your husband trying to find another job? If not, then compromise with the household. He will stay at home and manage the needs of your family while you do some part time jobs. Small paying jobs may be a good start. If you can take 2 jobs in a day then that is good.
@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
5 Dec 10
please do not lose heart... i had just been laid off my job as well about one and a half months ago and i have mortgage to pay as well... so my hubby has to support me on his own income now which is very difficult because his salary is not big... but i keep on praying to God that He will give us a better job soon... God never forsake His children who is faithful to Him... take care and have a nice day...
@SydneyHazelton (4586)
• Singapore
5 Dec 10
I know it's hard to think clearly now. I hope the following would help you when you are thinking about what to pay first, and what can wait till a little later. With the income you have, however small it may be, I want you to segregate your expenses in the following category...
1) Things you could lose (eg, roof over your head - rentals, mortgage)
This must be paid off first.
2) Other things you need (eg, utilities, groceries, children's education, transportation cost, etc)
If you have any extra after this, be grateful and thank God! If you find it hard to even pay for these things, then there is a need to supplement your income in the short run. Think of getting a part-time job, change to a higher-paying one or sell off some items in the house to supplement your income (do a garage sale).
Update your resume, in the meantime and encourage your husband to do the same. He may not feel like doing it. He may feel depressed from being laid off. You will never know when the opportunities for new job would turn up for both of you. So be prepared! But above all, have faith that God will provide...
@pancymavis (93)
• Philippines
5 Dec 10
Dear do not lose faith theres a lot of ways on how to earn money online. You can earn money online it will gives you an extra money but remember it will not get you rich.
@Monkeyrose (2840)
• Canada
4 Dec 10
I to know how hard finances are. I can never seem to manage them very efficiently. I'm very sorry to hear about your husband getting laid off. Just remember to take a deep breathe. Sometimes you need to relax and forget about the problems. Sometimes just an hour will help. This gives you time to refocus.
You will find a way. You husband can start to look for another job. Do you have unemployment insurance in your country?
Keep faith it will all work out in the end.
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
4 Dec 10
If that's the case, can you ask your husband to do some part time jobs and also apply for social security?
@eurekafemme (5874)
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
Yes, I know, dear that it is not easy... But despite of that do not lose your hope and faith. Continue on what you are doing right now, earning online, somehow it will help you fill an empty stomach.
I checked your profile to see where you from... I'm not sure of the opportunities in your province when it comes to part time jobs but if you will check the net maybe you cna find part time jobs offered in your area. Or you can ask a friend if they can refer you to a possible job. Though this is a tough situation but i'm sure you'll get through it...
God bless you. Don't worry, God is always good.:)
@toniganzon (72550)
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
My husband is still a student and last year My boss run away with my money. At that time I have a mortgage to pay. I tried not to falter and leave it all to God. I didn't lose faith and He helped me calm down. A few weeks later I received an email offering me a good job with a good pay. Much higher than my previous salary.
If you believe in Him, he will not fail you. Please don't lose faith and just pray that you be given some peace of mind. Don't worry!
@hakuyo (200)
•
4 Dec 10
you don't know what to do? you can't think clearly? do you feel like your life is so hard that you cannot bear it? well then, you have to be positive not negative like 'i am losing faith that i can still earn cash'. i know that it is hard but believe me, you can do it, just say to yourself that i can do it because all these years, i have encountered so many challenges and i cannot give up now! just say this to yourself!
good luck
@zenkey23 (416)
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
even if dont have a family. i still understand you miss anex.
when you have a family. it is normal to have those kind of issues. those are what they call "TRIALS".
dont run from the trials GOD have given to your family. face it with strong FAITH!
if you feel that you`re faith is decreasing. just pray and ask for GOD`s help. he will SURELY help you:) and if you cant think clearly just get a bible and read some pages. and after that you should pray and start thinking again:)