How will you react if the situation was reversed?

I think that the boyfriend got his girlfriend pregnant so he should enjoy seeing her changing shape and the bump which is where they baby is. It is reality that means a pregnant lady grows in size and get heavier. The boyfriend should be ashamed of his attitude towards his girlfriend. Pregnancy is meant to be a beautiful time. A lady that is pregnant has hormonal changes and doesn't want stress from her boyfriend that doesn't like her physical appearance anymore.

This is often a case when physical changes start to take place when a girl is pregnant. All of the people that have reacted the same way as the above mentioned boy did should be ashamed of themselves. This only proves that some have no feelings at all. This world has taken a wrong direction...really wrong.

Hi syoti, I agree with you and the boyfriend should be happy that she is going to have his baby, in fact he should see her as more beautiful now. A child is coming into the world and both of them must now be responsible adults and parents. It seems to me that he is being very selfish, but maybe is just too young to understand or has had a difficult childhood himself. I wish them all well. Blessings.

hi syoti lord what an awful man to father a child and look down on his girl friend for being pregnant. smart thinking empty head. duh he should have known playing around without protection from pregnancy is going to make him a father. I think he is a jerk thats all I think/

I have to say if a boyfriend simply stopped loving the girlfriend because she gained weight due to pregnancy is more than a jerk. As what the heck does he expect when a woman is carrying another human in her body. I have to say then the boyfriend did not truly love his girlfriend to begin with as what if she was not pregnant but gained weight anyways she would surly be doomed by him as he would be disgusted. This is totally wrong as when we are in love with others we due everything in our power to love the person not hurt them. So unfortunately for the girlfriend but this is not something she needs further involvement with as there is someone else for her somewhere who will see beyond weight. Besides when we are in love we help the other person to try and lose weight for health purposes and not for self fulfillment.

yeah i agree with you ! the bf is shameful ,i think the girl for him is not worth .

haha =D If the situation is reverse, guys will definitely be so heart broken, and they will refuse to accept the fact.. lol =D Revenge will be on the guy's mind because of ego and pride.. haha =D Can most guys stand it, when their gf tells them, i have to leave u because u look too ugly for me?? lol =D WHile woman, their appearance changes alot along with time, and if i'm a women, i will take their comments, and prove them wrong when they see me again.. haha

Your right shame on that bf. It only shows how selfish he is. How could he really love his gf? I suppose he would be happy if she aborted (killed) his baby so she would remain always sexy slim looking for him. By him saying that he can not possibly love either the gf or his baby.

I do agree that the boyfriend is behaving very unreasonably and he claims to love his girlfriend he must be lying because loving someone is not about putting her down because her appearance has changed because she happens to be having his baby! My husband used to say I looked beautiful when I was pregnant and, although I didn’t entirely agree with him, I appreciated the nice compliment! This guy doesn’t sound nice at all!

I agree. The bf should have placed his shoe on the girls shoe so he could feel what the girl is feeling. Shame on the bf really. If my bf would ever do that to me, i will really not go after him and never introduce him to my baby. I won't be proud to tell the whole world that i guy i loved most, hated me for carrying his baby.

hi syoti! there is no if as the situation will not get reversed and that guy will not know and feel the same as how that girl feel.like beyonce song, 'if i were a boy', if only that boy was born as a girl~he will sure feel the same way like the girl did but somehow he just a boy~what a shame~i am glad to hear that you are not like that~

all bf almost always run away if the mintai accountable for what he has made and always just switch the charges if he is not who did it but yes ... because it was not ready and not yet mature and will surprise them and do not want to happen but always want to be done

I agree with you syoti20. This bf is really treating his gf poorly and should be ashamed of himself. I have seen many things on TV about this like the show 16 and Pregnant. It just seems that guys at a young age don't want to take the responsibility for their actions. I think the bf only said that he didnt like his gf anymore wasnt really about her appearance, but was really for the fact that she was having a baby. If he really was dumping her for her physical changes, than he is pretty shallow.

I agree with you syoti20. This bf is really treating his gf poorly and should be ashamed of himself. I have seen many things on TV about this like the show 16 and Pregnant. It just seems that guys at a young age don't want to take the responsibility for their actions. I think the bf only said that he didnt like his gf anymore wasnt really about her appearance, but was really for the fact that she was having a baby. If he really was dumping her for her physical changes, than he is pretty shallow.

The bf cannot ditch a gf like this. Not done, how can a person because of whom gf was pregnant ditched him like this. He was more attracted towards her physical appearance than loving her. Pity the gf, very sad. Its common in this world in these days.

I need a backstory. If he was the one who wanted her to have a child , then Shame on him. Didn't he know her body was going to change? But.. if she is the one who wanted the child and he ios just staying because He Has to , then this is normal reaction. He Wanted the woman he had before and now the baby is and Always will come between them. I give it a few more months and a few more baby pounds and he will be sleeping with someone else. Me? If I were a guy, I would Always tell my girls , I will never want kids, I will always use protection and if there is an accident, And I Do mean accident, And she wants to keep the child , She won't have me. She will get financial support but nothing else.

Some men have to be attracted to a woman of a certain look. Some men don't like women after they get pregnant. WOman who are pregnant actually have a glow about them. I don't why some men are so foolish. Some men use women as statis symbols and when their looks change the men don't care for it.

bad bf, and i feel sorry for the gf. but the gf didnt do the right thing too. they are both not a child anymore, so they must know consequence from what they did. they must had thought forward, not just think about a short joy. for me they both wrong, eventhough the bf looks like as a bad guy here.

bad bf. feel sorry for the gf. but she is not do the right thing to. they are not a child anymore so they must take responsibility for what they do. they must have thought forward, not only think for a temporary and short joy. i think they both wrong, do the wrong things. though the boy looks like as the bad guy here.

you should let other guys hear that side of the story you know. more so that not all guys have the same perspective as you. but I really do appreciate your open-mindedness about this case. hopefully more guys would think the same thing like you. guys don't care after the "you know". but yes, as a girl I think you guys should learn how to be a man and face the responsibility after.