Who should be blame ..?

I will blame to the woman. They should keep it until they married. Now a days when two people come to an relationship they intimate physically very easily. Usually man want to intimate but that time one women should be careful they should not give there virginity easily and of course not before doing marriage.

i think this thing of mean reasons is man if men is not fickle in love ,this thing is not happen .

I like the expression that it takes two to tango. Why should a woman be seen as used goods or ruined when she loses her virginity outside of marriage while the man is simply seen as sowing his wild oats. My personal choice is to remain a virgin until married, and I'll take it a step farther to say that this is, imo, the BEST choice for both men and women. However, I don't like the mindset of disgracing people of either gender who, for one reason or another, end up giving up their virginity prior to/outside of marriage--and I especially don't like it when this only seems to apply to the woman unless the guy is a total jerk. We all have our life stories that lead us to make the choices that we do. Instead of judging a "fallen woman," we would do well to imagine ourselves walking in her shoes and understanding why she might have given away so much of herself. Then, we would know that she really isn't the worthless tramp that some people with a holier-than-thou mindset might want to label her as. Again, I endorse abstaining--but do so without a judgmental attitude.

Now is a virgin or not virgin hard to distinguish, because if it is said that a virgin who was bleeding when the first night then the medical theory that I read not all virgins bleed on the first night, for example due to frequent cycling sports, gymnastics dg arrived at the foot of sprawl -gap, etc. so why question if only seen from the physical side. Maybe if after marriage she said that was not a virgin Prev just be a problem ... if the reason being raped or something which she did not want it should be no problem .. but if the couple concerned about that then can be said .. no heart But if not a virgin because of forgotten land, association who already then ... if we love more into the physical it is certainly not going to accept, but if you are more prone to heart will surely think more clearly to account for genuine or whether he was aware of his wrong deeds, especially when he explicitly said virgin status to us.

we just can't accused them. First, it's not our business if they virgins or not .Secondly,it is also not our business if they sell their virginity and dignity. We should not judged them for who they are even though they are selling their body. How we wish they didn't do that kind of things which really makes them low their dignity.But, we didn't even know them or problems they have.I think, they didn't chose to be like that, but they happens to be that. I think, it's not really they wanted, they just want to survive in living.Maybe, we can't blame them if they chose to it and have no choice at all. We are differents and i do believe we have each ways on surviving and living.It's not easy but sometimes we were able to do things which are not maybe right.But, the things able to helped us.

Im a guy and i dont like how you have phrased this. Why should it be only women. If you want women to be pure then why not men? I hate double standrds. Welcome to the real world, women have rights too! They can do whoever they want

No matter who's fault it is because both of them or human beings ,they both have equal feelings and emotion .We cannot blame any gender blindly it depends upon the specific person who first force other whether it is woman or man.And my personal opinion is both of them should be cautious about the future due to there bad activities .And in case of woman they are physically affected for men it is a matter of few dollars but for woman if she didn't care a lot ,she will became a mother to a child .So woman should be more careful when compared to man.

We can't place blame on matters of the heart. it doesn't matter where we live. We make the choices that are pleasing to us.Giving away what is precious to us can come when we are willing to share with another person.

First and foremost the blame will be to a woman of not careful to thier action. However, some man and woman are very agressive and unaware of their action. they forget the dignity and image of being a woman. Finally every body should blame... see you around