when you have a crush do you have the courage to tell him/her?^^

When this has happened i have been slightly hesitant but in the end i have gone for it and i have told them. I always go with the point of if you are never direct and open up and tell people how you feel then you will gain nothing, even if they aren't interested atleast you have the confidence to approach someone and let them know that you are interested in them. Life is too short to hold back and you could lose someone because you feel you daren't or can't tell them about the way you feel. Time to bite the bullett and open up,m regardless of what happens atleast you tried which is better than not trying at all.

Yes but not directly..and never get a replies (Internet dating sites).

Hello friend, Yes, I have had so many crushes in the past and more often than not I have told the girl about it. But not right away. Initially I try to make friends with her and then comes a point when we are too good friends and then I tell her the reason I approached her. We have a good laugh about it [em]happy[\em]

I used to have a crush on someone last time but, I did not have the courage to tell her. However, she already had a boyfriend so I guess, it's just wishful thinking on my part. Telling someone that you love him/her just needs a lot of courage and confidence. Hmm...I don't know when my next spring will come...

Too late for me lol, i was married in 1966, it was an traditional indian hindu marriage arranged by my parents, no love affairs, no datings lol Thank you so much for this discussion and sharing your feelings. Professor ‘Bhuwan’. . God bless you. Welcome always.

It goes like that if i have a crush on some girl i go there and show it :D I try to get her attention and well if she shows some interest - then i can tell her . Otherwise i don't think i need to tell the person i will love "Hey girl i like you , can you like me too ?" sounds stupid and its stupid . Ye i hardly get the courage but well if the girls is worth it i get it somehow , it was really funny when i tryed for week to tell my first girl friend i like her :P

Good Day! I do have courage to tell someone that I have a crush on him still, it depends on the person because there are some guys who don't like if somebody told them about this thing. Its just a crush that's why its okay for me to tell it on him.

In the past when i would have a crush, it would take some time for me to summon up the courage to acknowledge my feelings. there have been times when i never said anything. those are the crushes that stay in my mind. would my life be different if i had had the courage to say how I felt?

Hi sweet love forever: In my case the answer nis no :( I'm a shy boy, I feel like I'm a person that don't talks to much and the fact that I'm an intellectual guy makes things difficult to me. I hope somehow I'll find the love of my life but she'll have to make me know that she loves me too because I feel a little bit insecure when I have to take the first step . ALVARO

when i have a crush on someone i usually dont talk or just literally evade because i would feel shy. but if the person is famous i might go and tell him.

Well usually if i like a girl and i think im in her league i would have no problem telling her my feelings. I see it as its always better to regret something you did instead of regretting not having the courage to do it. And whats the worst that could happen he/she turns you down and you keep living.

Well I cannot propose any girl or tell my feelings because I not scared but I am really shy to tell and as I told I was so shy that after a long time my girl friend came and proposed me....ya you are right we have to tell our feelings to our loved one because if you don't then the love which was coming to you might go away from you and it would be too late for you to tell it then..........

No, I was so shy to tell him but I know he already knew because of my actions and my facial expression, whenever he is near my whole face will turn red.

YEs, I would tell them. I am not one of those people who beats around the bush. I am straight forward, honest, and very blunt. I don't get embarrassed either so if they said no then oh well.

Oh God no, I would just die if the person I had a crush on new about it. I get very shy and embarrassed really easy. Not to mention what if that person doesn't feel the same about me anymore or just sees me as a friend. That would make for an awkward friendship after that. I wish I had the courage but for some reason I just can't bring myself to do it at all.

I have a lot of crushes when i was younger and like you, i too don't have the courage to go to the guy and tell him i like him. I am a really shy type of person and i think i wouldn't have the guts to tell him so. I really don't want to go and make the first move :)

well i think i might, but it has never happened by the time i like someone i am usually going out with them because they asked me.