would you ever be lover of someone you are not in love with? O_O

Good Morning, It will be unfair for him if i will pretend that i love him so for me it is better to be honest no guilt feelings and no need to pretend. It is easy to say "ILOVEYOU" but it is hard to prove it especially if you really don't mean it.

well what do you mean be with because, you won't love everyone you go out with because you have to start somewhere.

It's telling a lie to your own feelings and the feelings of the guy. SO, no, i can't do that. I don't want to play around with feelings as well because we all know how painful it will really be. I don't want to hurt others peoples feelings in the end when they knew that i am only playing around.

oh no i would never want someone to do that with me so to not receive the best is to not do the same to others i believe it never happened before i think it's a little selfish just to be with someone for the company, just to not be alone

Yes always every day every minute every second i like to be with someone that love me :D But no i dont need a stinky person that cant feel love to me and be the one i love i prefer to pass on that . Does it have a point - none at all :) So if she dont love me i just throw her away , love is the most important thing in life ;) So scrw the rest i'm going for the LOOOVEE :P

I stayed in a relationship with a girl who cheated on me six times, she had no values towards a relationship but i wanted to make it work. sill i know right? but over time i learned that the new once blossomed life wilts away when not tended to. i stayed with her for a year and five months, and i learned that in the end, that people who are unhappy in a relationship friendship or marriage. should be able to be open with their partner, because although you may not love that person it truly will show over time and you can truly break someones heart ruining them forever for the next person if you choose to part.

It could start that way if I were attracted to him, but I wouldn't stay in the relationship if it didn't develop into love...

For me I would someone who is love in me and I love in to so that your family is full of love and not a hatred.

Hi sweet love forever: The situation that you are mentioning seems horrible to me. I think I wouldn't do this because it must be horrible not be honest with a person and to know that everything is a fake. I won't like to be hurt or to hurt the feelings of someone else this way ALVARO

like you i cannot see myself acting out as if i am in love with the guy i dont love. i am sure if i do that the guy will find it out. the relationship will be too mechanical.

NO! I can't be with someone that i don't have feelings at all. I can only talk to that person but never intimate with that person. I'm very passionate when I'm in love and I could never fake the way I feel. I admit that somebody told me to give him a chance and that he can make me fall in love, but then it never happened so I just have to stay away from him.

well about me even I don't like playing with someones feelings because I know it hurts a lot when the lie comes out and I would tell that girl to forget me as I was never meant for her and she can get a far more better guy than me....

Hmmn, I think it's possible, but then I have to have an inkling of feeling for the guy to have a relationship with him...but then this kind of relationship doesn't always last, better to really feel love for a person before committing....you might end up singing "Oh, it's sad to belong to someone else when the right one comes along...." I should know, I've been there, and its awfully hard to break up with someone that is so wonderful but you really don't love

hi sweetloveforever, For me, I can't be a lover to someone that I don't love because it's just like cheating. Your cheating and hurting with your feeling and the feeling of that person too. I'd rather be a lover to someone I love and give the best that I could give.

Do you mean would i ever have some form of a relationship with someone that i am not in love with? if so, then no not now, id rather have a relationship that is based on many things and that does include love and it has to be 2 ways. As i have a son i am careful not to introduce women that may be here more later in time, i like to make sure that a relationship really can and will work and that things can get serious, but love has to be there or there is no point.