What will you do if your husband cheated on you?

Hello chelzeea07! If my husband cheated on me then I will make sure that he will regret it for the rest of his life! I am serious, I will have to leave him then, if he can do it once then I am sure he will be able to do it again...

When a husband cheats on his wife, the bonds of trust are broken. They can't always find their way back. it changes the relationship when someone is unfaithful. It would never be the same no matter how many bridges were croseed.

First and foremost, I have to say that men and women are equally likely to cheat in a relationship. Men are not "naturally polygamous" anymore than women are. To answer the question, it would depend entirely on the circumstances. How and why. What exactly did he do? Why did he do it?

Hi, If I were in this situation whereby my husband is cheated on me..then I will see what kind of action he has done. In what way he cheated me. If he has another woman in his life, of course, I won't give him another chance and straightly will get a divorce from him. That is because I won't share my husband with another woman. ALthough if in the end he realized his big mistake and wanna patch back with me, I won't accept his forgiveness. My heart is not big enough to forget what he has done to me. Although my mouth will say that I forgive him,but everytime when I see him...the hurt feeling is there and for sure I won't have a happy life. Therefore divorce is still the best decision for life. Given that we have a children from our marriage,of course, my children will have to be with me.

In my own opinion, i would not directly judge my partner if he/she had cheated on me unless it is proven with evidences. But if I would reach to that point, what I am gonna do is to talk to my partner and tell him/her of the sin he has committed on my part and on the church i would ask him what would he/she do either he/she would want to continue this marriage and promise to be loyal or end this relationship. But i know human as we are and by just simply hearing that your partner cheats on you, we would easily believe without considering that we are being selfish on our part to our partners. It is therefore in your decision on what you are going to do because, we, mylotters are just here to give you our opinions on your situation not to direct your life.

I will probably let him go if he will be happy with the other person. It will hurt a lot but that is life. As I grow older I've learned people change. His needs become different from your own. And to satisfy those needs he will look elsewhere. The problem is when he learned that the satisfaction of those needs is not really worth it and being with you is better then he comes back. To me if it is the first time then I will accept him back but the second time then no because then he is not worth it anymore. Then i will find somebody who will be more in tune with what I need in life. Growing old together as in age literally doesn't apply. It should be growing old together not only in age but emotionally, mentally, and focusing in goals that apply to both of you. You see, I think there should be excitement in growing old together. And most of the time that is missing in a relationship. Also the hardest part in a relationship is letting a person go when you love him so much.

He cheated on me, not once, not twice and i dumped him after 14years. I have stayed for the sake of my children.Although i never really caught him in action but do i really have to for its a knowledge that a woman's instinct is almost always credible. And all throughout the times that I felt and knew it, i have this feeling of anger bottling up inside me, but im stuck cause im married. If i was single, i would never give him another chance to cheat on me again unless he makes a promise and marry me, otherwise he stay out of my life for good. (^_^)